I've had women say things to me (generally compliments) and based on their comments it was clear to me they knew I wasn't a GG. It does not bother me...
I think approach is a strong word, which I think it means to seek out of your way to engage in a conversation. At the grocery store or out-and-about...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.