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Andrea_girl
10-08-2007, 05:28 PM
I like many others wish i could get the chance and pluck up the courage to venture out. I'm told that its a most wonderful feeling

I wondered how many have ventured out and what was it like?

Rachelhouston
10-08-2007, 07:29 PM
I drove to and from a girlfriend's house a couple of times late at night, but that was almost 20 years ago now so I don't think that counts.

I'm plucking up the courage, but I need my wife's okay first. She isn't sure about Rachel going out either.

MelindaC
10-08-2007, 07:38 PM
I've only been out in public dressed maybe 6 times, But I loved every minute of each one. When I am out dressed, I just feel so free!! Just wish I could get out more, but I have to very careful. I dress very conservatively and just try to blend in and be accepted as just another woman...

Joy Carter
10-08-2007, 07:46 PM
My first time was a year ago, and I haven't ever looked back since.
I wasn't scared, but I was concerned with how others may see me. I dress well and try to present myself as female as I can.
So far only a couple of bad reactions. Some young GG's ran into my friend once intentionally. Then another GG made loud hissing sounds at us as we walked past.

So I highly recommend that you find a gal pal or a GG and get out their. :D

Brianna Lovely
10-08-2007, 07:56 PM
I answered "Yes I loved it", but my first time out, fully dressed, I was stuck in traffic for an hour, in the middle of the day. My heart was pounding like crazy, but I had a huge smile on my face, and was thinking, they'd say "S/he died happy".

Do I regret going out? Not one bit! It was just another step in my journey of self acceptence, but I'll never forget the wonderful feelings I had that day, like people could see the "glow of joy" that surrounded me.

janet1234
10-08-2007, 08:01 PM
but as time goes on I find myself increasingly interested in leaving the house, although I probably will resist the temptation. Perhaps at a gurls meeting but certainly not into our neighbor Publix market, my neighbors might be there.

annekathleen
10-08-2007, 08:11 PM
I have left the house dressed after dark!
Drove around for a while.
High heels are fun trying to drive.
The air conditioning blowing up my skirts onto
my stocking legs, was quite a turn on.
What a rush..... Felt like hot flashes:devil:

LaurenS.
10-08-2007, 08:16 PM
I've been out many times and it is euphoric every time.
You have to be confident and smile!
Andrea, you are beautiful and I'm so surprised you haven't been out sharing your femininity with the world!:happy:

trannie T
10-08-2007, 08:22 PM
I don't get out as often as I would like. I thoroughly enjoy most every second I'm out. The first time I was terrified as I went out the door but I had such a good time I couldn't wait to do it again.

jibhose
10-08-2007, 08:25 PM
I probably won't. This is my little thing I like to enjoy by myself. Lounging around all dressed up is perfect for me.

ArleneRaquel
10-08-2007, 08:54 PM
I went shopping enfemme, and among others things I purchased four pairs of prescription eyewear, from America's Best - Contacts & Eyewear after an eye exame, went home changed to more casual wear and washed the windows. :happy: :love: & :hugs: Beyonce Welch - Relaxing with Chardonnay. :thumbsup:

Kim_Bitzflick
10-08-2007, 09:19 PM
I have gone out dressed several times. The first time was a few years ago and it was very scary. All I did was go out driving and a very quick walk around K-mart. This last time, I went out to the mall in the evening and went shopping at several stores, tried on clothes and bought a few. Just a quick pointer, if you are going shopping, most stores don't mind you trying on the clothes but, it helps them if you call ahead and talk with the manager. I did this in Victoria's Secret and the sales associate was much more helpful when I arrived.

The best advice I can give is Don't let anyone get you down.

Love,

Billijo49504
10-08-2007, 09:41 PM
tonight, in tank top, shorts and wig, boobs are real, so that isn't an issue. I went to the grocery store, gas station and got a car wash. Is that enough? That's all the places I've gone today...BJ

Jenny Beth
10-08-2007, 09:41 PM
I haven't ventured out in years but I am hoping to get out again soon. There is always a bit of nervousness and fear for the first few moments but it quickly fades away. What I've noticed is most people are stuck in their own thoughts of one kind or another and don't even notice what's going on around them.

sami1952
10-08-2007, 09:43 PM
I was so excited the first time i went after that i would go out every weekend/

Suzy Harrison
10-08-2007, 09:52 PM
It's nerve racking at first
Then a feeling of exhilaration, leading to
Gained confidence, leading to
Absolute Addiction!


I'm now at level 4 - and I can't get enough of it - so be warned !

Glenda58
10-08-2007, 10:07 PM
I go out all the time. I sometimes wonder why but it's always a good time.

LynnInDenver
10-08-2007, 10:18 PM
I went out just this past weekend, for a CD meeting, and then dinner with the girls afterwards. And I plan on doing more, as I can. It was an incredible feeling.

sterling12
10-08-2007, 10:19 PM
It's nerve racking at first
Then a feeling of exhilaration, leading to
Gained confidence, leading to
Absolute Addiction!


I'm now at level 4 - and I can't get enough of it - so be warned !

Suzy has stated the case very nicely! Your experience, once you catch your breath, will be almost the same.

Peace and Love, Joanie

Denise01
10-08-2007, 10:21 PM
I now go out as often as I can, and Love shopping femme.
With the rare exception when i am away from home, when i am shopping for Denise, I am always Denise.
Just this past Friday, I was in a large city about 150 miles from home, and roaming around a shopping mall.
I saw a store that i often shop at femme, in another city, and saw a skirt that i liked, and was sure it was my size;
Even though, I was Drab, I will not buy if I can not try something on. Asked the sales girl if I could try it on, and without a hesitation, said sure, and set up a change room for me. She also asked if there was anything else I would like to try as well.
I have never phoned ahead, and asked if i could try on items i may be interested in, but I have also never been refused. The big thing is to have confidence , be courteous, and act like it is the most normal thing you do.

Just to-night i went out for Thanksgiving Dinner as Denise.
I must pass ok, as at the time i was going into the restaurant, there were 3 other ladies came in at the same time.
The waitress, asked who was first, and one of the ladies in the group of 3 said, " this lady is first "
Felt so good, but act as a lady and you will be treated as one

Denise:happy::happy:

vikki2020
10-08-2007, 10:31 PM
I'm able to get out every 3 months or so,but I'm hoping to make that a little more often.Love it more each time,and I get a little more confident each time!Is it addicting, or a natural progression?

Chiana
10-08-2007, 10:41 PM
I haven't been outside in quite a while. I consider myself to be firmly in the closet. I have gone out for some late night drives. I bought a new wig from a wig saloon once but I was in drab. The next day I got dressed up and went back to the wig saloon. I don't know why I felt compelled to do that, but I just had too do it. I can't imagine having the nerve to do that, but I did.

I didn't vote in the poll because I really didn't feel any of the responses fit me.

Edwina
10-08-2007, 11:36 PM
I answered "Yes I loved it", but my first time out, fully dressed, I was stuck in traffic for an hour, in the middle of the day. My heart was pounding like crazy, but I had a huge smile on my face, and was thinking, they'd say "S/he died happy".



That was exactly me :happy: (not stuck in traffic though). I took a photo at the time and posted it the gallery.
I am trying to get out again but that initial bravado has wained a little.
:love:

Edwina

Meg East
10-09-2007, 12:03 AM
Went out into the world for the first time this evening. Dressed in a knee length pleated skirt, black nylons, strappy medium height heels and a white scooped neck top. A nice necklace and silver bracelet completed the package. A little lipstick and eye liner made me presentable.

I looked good. Across the isle was a middle-aged gentleman who gave me a polite smile. I looked him in the eyes, keep my chest out and smiled back. I don't think anyone there gave me a second look. I was just another middle aged cd out running around town doing errands.

It was great to leave the house. This will be the first of a new part of my life.

Dita_B
10-09-2007, 12:46 AM
I go out 2 to 3 times a week and go cruising the local Malls, all of them, if I have enough time...

Last weekend, on Saturday night, I walked the downtown core, Government Street, up and down... There was a visiting US war ship in the harbor and the downtown streets were engulfed in sailors... While walking past me almost all of them were eying me and I had the time of my life...

Not that I am into men, but their approving looks felt like the ultimate confirmation of successfully portraying a woman... I would almost start to think that US Navy Sailors like tall Canadian girls...

:love:Dita.

ColleenShivas
10-09-2007, 12:49 AM
No - but I am working on overcoming my own fear as well as that of my SO.

vivianann
10-09-2007, 01:10 AM
You must go out, you look very passable, and you have that feminine look about you, if you can find a GG to go with you, once out you will not go back in the closet, also find other CD'S to go out with. Like melinda C said it is an exillerating feeling of freedom. and dress like other GG's dress, conservative, look at other GG's see what they are wearing. I went out by myself my first time about 20 yrs ago. I did stop crossdressing in 1995 to make the wife happy, but the marriage fell apart anyway in 1997 but I did not dress enfemme again till 2005, I could not resist the urge any more. thankfully I still had my femme clothes in storage, and I immediately went out in public, I was a little nervous at first, but now, I go out all the time, and I dont care what peaple think, it is total freedom whn you reach that point.

My Lady Marsea
10-09-2007, 01:15 AM
About 6 months ago I ventured out with the intention of being a 7/24 girl. Today I went to help a friend get set up for the upcoming season flea market, (hard on nails and keeping dirt N stuff off you, yuck LOL) went to a testosterone filled enviroment (local gun store to apply for concealed weapon class) got treated bad and left (typical male attitude..class filled and was NO help about another), Lane Bryants to buy wrist bracelets and the cutest tank tops with spaghetti straps (got 4..all different colors), J C Penney to get a strapless bra for the tops (none my size..dang) and a red shoulder purse and the day was shot so came home. Once you have done it a few times it will get easier. The hardest part is that first baby step out the door. If you want to do it you can girl. Remember for every bad experience, there are a hundred nice people out there with nice experiences.

Emma England
10-09-2007, 04:08 AM
It is good to go out.

The first time for me was shopping for more clothes!

I remember sitting in my car for about 10 minutes. Yes nervous!

The first thing you need to do is gain confidence. Confidence with saying to yourself that is is ok for me to want to appear female. This self-acceptance needs to be more than the nerves.

Strangers seemed to just accept me as any another person. No stares or rude comments.

Oh if you are worried, then going into a ladies clothing store is the best place to start. Why? Because they welcome all potential customers. If they see you as a woman (or a wannabe one) there is a chance that you might buy something.

The only thing stopping you is your own fear. Fear of what? A piece of cotton that might be shaped differently to other clothes.

Try it and see for yourself. Then tell us afterwards!

Susan Johnson
10-09-2007, 04:54 AM
I have been out in the car a few times but can only do it when we are away from home as my wife is very concerned that we may be seen and recognised. Unfortunately due to family circumstances we have not been away this year. My wife states she does not understand my need to 'dress' but does help me buy clothing sometimes and will often buy something which will fit either of us but is more likely to be used by me. a few weeks ago we visited a market and there was a stall selling bras, I thought she was shopping for herself then she asked what size I wore and purchased me a nice pink one, we would have had more but they didn't have my size in other colours I liked.
On the times I have gone out, it just felt natural!

hugs to all

Susan

carolinebrookes
10-09-2007, 06:50 AM
I go out and about when I can. The first time properly out was when I was 17. I was petrified. It got easier after the first time, and I have been shopping, to a restaurant, coffee shops and even to a wedding in the last couple of years.

Lilith Moon
10-09-2007, 06:57 AM
Some years ago my job gave me plenty of opportunities for dressing and I would get out&about several times each week. I loved it although I never interacted with other people. Now I work from home it is very difficult to dress at all (wife not comfortable with it) and I especially miss my regular outings.

Mistybtm
10-09-2007, 07:41 AM
I have been out late at knight or early morning for walks around my apt. complex and to the mail box fully dressed what a thrill working my way to going out, out side the apt complex for a drive soon then after that who knows.
trying to loose some weight also to look more fem and not preg in a dress LOL
:tongueout

Veronica Fallon
10-09-2007, 08:53 AM
Hi Andrea,

My femme side has been gradually evolving throughout the years, & I never really had much of an urge to go out until the past year & a half. I've only been out twice so far (both times at night), but I've found the experience profoundly rewarding. Once the initial fear (lots!!!:nailbiting:) passed, it gave me quite an exhilarating sense of liberation & validation to openly express my femininity with/around others. I've already learned & grown much as a person from doing it, & I can foresee much more personal enrichment resulting from continued outings.

For me, it's been a beautiful, almost necessary step in my womanhood, but that doesn't mean it's right for everyone. I barely made it past the overwhelming fear I felt at first, but I'm glad that I did. For me, pushing so far beyond my comfort zone was a means to an end- I felt I had to set my inner-woman free, & the only way was to break through that barrier of fear. I saw it as a need for me. Being the person I am, I'll probably always have some fear about it, but for me it's worth it. I hope to one day work-up to going out in the daytime (a whole different thing than night!!), but it's ok if I never quite get there. If I can move through the fear to enjoy the good stuff- great! If the fear remains an on-going obstacle- then I'll find & stick with doing the things I can to express myself as a woman & to feel pleasure in doing. I just want my feminine experience to be as pure & deep as possible, with a bare minimum of negative feelings.

For someone considering going out, I'd suggest finding out precisely why, first of all. Dealing with the fear & the inherent risks of going out might be entirely unnecessary if (for instance) "peer pressure" is ones main reason for wanting to go out. But, if one felt it as somewhat of a "need", as I do, then it will likely be worth it. I'd suggest some thorough introspection towards personal understanding before doing anything on impulse. Everyone would do well to simply measure their own desire against their own price to determine if it's worth it for them!!

Good luck Andrea, I hope you enjoy your gift... wherever it takes you (or doesn't take you!)!! :heehee:


Hugz,

Veronica

eliot
10-09-2007, 09:30 AM
I have ventured out several times en femme. The most memorable time was a visit to a casino. No one seemed to spot me. I had dressed in jeans, long sleeve turtleneck blouse, and a jean jacket which blended very well. It was a thrill!!

Norma Happy
10-09-2007, 09:57 AM
I love to go out dressed and go shopping for new cloths. I have not had many problems. Every once in a while a Sales clerk will give that funny look and want to hear me talk if they arn't sure. So far I have managed to pass the test but I have to say it does play on the nerves. I feel safer in the afternoon.
Norma

kaitlin
10-09-2007, 10:21 AM
Hi Girls, I would love to go out sometime but here in backwoods America, everyone knows everyone else. I would have to travel to another town to be able to to get out dressed, but then I don't know where to go....I guess its a good thing I'm not real passable. Kaitlin

Deborah Jane
10-09-2007, 11:34 AM
The furthest i,ve been is the end of my driveway. I felt great afterwoods, but i,m not sure if i,ve got the nerve to go any further!! Maybe one day!!

RobertaFermina
10-09-2007, 11:45 AM
Out? Actually it is a rarity that I ever go "IN."

I shop, attend church, men's group (seldom, but sometimes), Coed Encounter Group, Clubbing, Dinners, shopping, just hanging out....

Last night I went to church to get my picture taken for the Church Directory, one pic for Bob, and one for Roberta!

It is great fun, and adventure. Sometimes it is poignant, as I actually live a life "out there."

It has taken a turn, recently, as I have found romance with someone who supports my CDing. As a result, I'm sharing more "domestic" time.

Wish you all happiness, wherever you are !

:rose: Roberta :rose:

Mitch23
10-09-2007, 11:56 AM
whenever and wherever i can - just can't get enoughof it - just regret that i can't do it more often. love shopping for girlie clothes, clubs, pubs, restaurants, stately homes, supermarkets, on my own, with guys, with 'girls'. don't even mind the occasional heckles and whistles now!

mitch

Ðarissa
10-09-2007, 12:34 PM
I have never ventured out myself. It sure would be nice but guess I'm too paranoid. Maybe later.. :drink:

Karren H
10-09-2007, 12:45 PM
I first went out enfemme in High School... And now its always when on business trips (like today and tommorow and Thursday :) ). And just for some shopping and sight seeing around locally.. Its fun and very comphy feeling...

kay_jessica
10-09-2007, 01:44 PM
Its a way of life.............

LA CINDY LOVE
10-09-2007, 03:17 PM
When Cindy gets dress it is time to go out and hit the clubs and dance the night away, getting dress just to stay at home is NOT for Cindy.

They say going out is not for everyone that is B.S to me I have seen all kinds of Cd's some can pass and some can not but they do not let that stop them from walking on the wild side.


LA CINDY LOVE

SylvieGurl155
10-09-2007, 04:10 PM
the first time i went out was when i was a Junior in HS....
interesting times i guess. I had alot (like 4-5) of accepting friends that i went with.

I miss those days sometimes.

Ruth
10-09-2007, 04:59 PM
Well I'm a middle-aged CDer but I have only started going out this year - have been out just 3 times. First time was definitely the biggest thrill. All times have been to the shopping centre in the next town, where there is no chance of Ruth being recognised.
I'm aware of being read by some people each time but there has never been any confrontation or trouble.
People are mostly too wrapped up in their own business to take a lot of notice of other people. And if you are spotted, in a large public space, I think even those people who find a CDer offensive do not want to make a scene.

MarinaTwelve200
10-09-2007, 06:30 PM
Never! Its not "fear", but seems to me like a CRAZY idea. I personally see MY CDing as something I do in private and is nobody's business but my own. Now I am NOT judging others, y'all can do what you want to do and I'm cool with it, I write this to give you insight into my personal attitude towards my OWN CDing--a lot of us feel this way,---I think its best called a PRIVATE CD attitude----not to be confused with a "CLOSET" CD who is someone who WANTS to go out but is afraid to.

Those who DO go out, more power to you.:happy: If you are willing to take your lumps and risk the consequences, keep on trucking. Just dont COMPLAIN if you get ridiculed or embarrased--you know the risk----I just think its Crazy myself:D

Tina Dixon
10-09-2007, 06:40 PM
I am a closet CD, but I have been out and had three make overs done, and drove home two of the times dressed, and the thrill was unbelievable for me.

sissystephanie
10-09-2007, 06:52 PM
I go out all the time enfemme. But I do it as a man, no wig and very little makeup. Today I went to the Post Office and then to my Nail Salon. I am wearing panties and bra (of course!), a gold low cut knit top and a brown skirt with a self belt that ties. Oh yes, 2" stacked heel open toe sandals since I was getting a pedicure. Got some smiles, and one "nice oufit" at the Post Office.

I dress to please myself, and don't really care what others may think. No desire to be a girl, just want to dress like one!:love:

Sissy/Stephanie

More Girl than man sometimes

SandyR
10-09-2007, 07:04 PM
I voted "yes dosent everyone". I Think most if not all of us work towards this as a goal. My first trip was great, scarry, out of control, fun, but not the best ever. The birth of my daughter was, awesome, the first time I kissed my wife..........What I mean is it was great, and it keeps getting better, but its only a part of me, not all of me.

SandyR

Phyliss
10-09-2007, 07:05 PM
My first time "out" I was scared witless, however my sister was with me for support. A number of times after that we went out. Earlier this spring her and I and another "lady" spent the day shopping.
About a month ago I finally did my first "solo flight". Had a wonderful time.
Can't wait for my next chance to spread my wings.

Sophie_C
10-09-2007, 07:41 PM
Too many consequences, and the technology's too poor today for people who don't start at puberty, IMO.

It's not going to happen.

But, it's a bit different for me, since I don't really get much of a thrill from dressing (and haven't since I was a kid, and that was only for a brief time) and am pretty confident I'm simply TG. It's more complicated and the consequences are far worse for those with that burden.

Jonnie B
10-10-2007, 01:24 AM
Could never go out 'en femme'. Having a full beard would be a dead give away ! Have often gone out with knickers, bra (empty), suspender belt and stockings on under 'male clothing'. Feel great.

slamddoger
10-10-2007, 06:13 AM
if you dress to fit in you will be ok out there. so why haven you been out yet?

Christie ann
10-10-2007, 08:31 AM
The first time was to put gas in the car (sound familiar) then it was driving around in a sweat(in a skirt sweating) hoping no one noticed me as they passed by at 60 mph. Then I started stopping at rest areas which led to convienence stores to malls. I really don't look like a women, but most people see what they are "supposed" to see. A person in a skirt must be a woman just as much as the sign on the bathroom door that shows a person wearing a triangle.

MFStoo
10-10-2007, 08:37 AM
I've just started going out over the last few months.. My First outings were to T girl group gatherings at a bar in Worcester Ma. and my latest was a solo trip to a local bar. It was the greatest feeling to just walk in and after a while make some new friends...:love:
I Cant wait to do it again. I do love the girls in the Group, but going out solo is such a confidence builder. I'm almost ready to go shopping etc.
My wardrobe is growing by leaps and bounds too lol.
Gina

SANDRA MICHELLE
10-10-2007, 09:23 AM
Many times and it never gets old, wish I could do it every day 24/7 but the wife would not put up with it and it would end our marriage.

Alexandria9919
10-10-2007, 10:03 AM
I have never ventured out. I would love to but I think my wife wouldnt let me and I would be nervous about it. I could never be passable, I think. But then again I think enough make up and stuff I think anyone could be somewhat passable

Imma
10-10-2007, 12:57 PM
To Group::love:

Many years ago, Imma checked out of room and told front desk that I would be gone in one hour. Got fully dressed in high heel boots, stockings, makeup, jewelry, sweater, skirt, and wig. Put on sun glasses and go into car for six hour drive home.:o:D:eek:

When Imma got back home, Imma went to storage warehouse and changed and cleaned up. Then back in drab clothes and drove home! :(

Who know what this Halloween will bring!:happy:

LOL:heehee:

Imma:rolleyes:

annekathleen
10-10-2007, 02:51 PM
I can now say that I have!

I put on a pair of thongs, and went to the closet to find a tight fitting pair of womens jeans. The first pair that I tried on would not fit over the thigh high
high heel boots that I wanted to wear. So I reached for another pair that were a little more relaxed near the bottom. They were a high waist so they helped to conceal my little belly. I put my boots on and the hem length was perfect. I put on a molded cup bra and reached for my largest breastforms.
(at least a D-DD ) Then I pulled on a white tight long sleeve turtle neck shirt, and boy did it make my boobs look big. I went to the closet and pulled out a medium-long length blonde wig. Yep, starting to come together.
I went to the garage and grabbed my motorcycle helmet, came back into the house and tried the helmet on over the blonde wig. I just had to check out myself in the mirror. Looked pretty convincing to me. I went out to the garage to start the motorcycle, and came back in to grab a jacket.
So I finally pull out of the driveway, dressed like a woman on a motorcycle.
I made a few turns and aimed for the highway. Once I got on the high way, I unbuttoned the snaps on the jacket so the jacket was fully opened up, exposing my big breasts under my tight fitting turtle neck. I could see my boobs in the mirror, I could see my blonde hair flowing in the wind from underneath the helmet. I managed to go by a construction crew and got a few heads to turn, thinking they were looking at a big boobed blonde on a motorcycle. What a rush!
The dark visor concealed my face, so what every passing motorist saw appeared to be a woman on a motorcycle.
It was exciting!! and a brave step for me!!!:clap:

Cindi Johnson
10-10-2007, 03:10 PM
First time was Halloween, 1980, in Houston. Latest time was yesterday, in Dallas. Next time: probably today or tomorrow.

Going out has very much become a part of me. It's when I most feel at peace with myself. And if the world doesn't like it, well..., they can all go to ****!!!

Cindi Johnson

Sweet Cindy
10-10-2007, 03:15 PM
Yep! LOVED it. Clicking of my heels, wind in my hair and up my skirt...

gennee
10-10-2007, 03:24 PM
I have been out many times and I love it. I feel so free and easy. I was out last night and ate at a restaurant with friends. I really enjoyed myself.

Gennee

:happy::gorgeous:

Susancd
10-10-2007, 03:30 PM
I would love to go out en femme properly. I have been limited to getting changed in the car, driving around for a bit and getting changed back. I have never had the courage to get out and go shopping for instance.
I really admire and envy you girls who do go out en femme!

Lorna
10-10-2007, 04:26 PM
I am not able to go out dressed - for all sorts of reasons. The best I have been able to do has been to "underdress". At least it enables me to experience walking around, shopping, travelling on the train or bus, eating a meal, etc. while wearing female underwear - but not the full experience with a dress or skirt, heels, etc. In the car, while away from home on business, I have been able to do just a little bit more, under cover of darkness - but still not fully dressed. When at home, in winter when it's dark and there's nobody around, I can go around to the back of the house and walk about in a very limited area fully dressed - but that's hardly ideal, can be cold or wet and I still need to get out there and back without being seen. Confining dressing to indoors is always going to be the norm for me.

Andrea_Keller
10-10-2007, 05:04 PM
I did not start dressing until I retired and did not think I was passable enough to go out. Finally built up enough courage to go to a mall and felt wonderful until I got a few snickers from some teens. I still try Malls now and then but am most comfortable going to a local bar that is very friendly to CDs and got many compliments there. I'll be going there tonight.

SweetCaroline
10-10-2007, 05:23 PM
I wrote all about going out for the first time om my myspace page. Judging from the number of friends I now have as Caroline, many of them cross dressers themself, any fear or intimidation has been over come.

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=242206335

I admit it was scary the first time, and I did stumble walking down the street, but I will never regret it as long as I live.

Good luck to anyone else venturing out. :thumbsup:

Laurie909
10-10-2007, 11:04 PM
If you venture out, you'll feel great. If you venture out and get compliments (like I did, a few times) you'll be in 7th heaven!

Lisa Renee
10-10-2007, 11:42 PM
Going out dressed is the greatest. Having doors held open for you. Being called Maam. Its all a great feeling.

faltenrock
10-11-2007, 07:22 AM
just look at my threat - I love to go out

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=68596

Tamera
10-11-2007, 08:01 AM
I am definetely a GOIN' OUT kinda girl. I have taken 4 girls out with me so far for their 1st time(individually) as well and they just loved it so much they have continued.

The support group I am in is GREAT it not only does the CLUB SCENE but ventures out to do the NORM of living as well.

Hugs,
Tamera