IMJenn
11-11-2008, 02:43 PM
Well, I've been absent from these boards for a short while, not sure if anyone has missed me. There is an interesting development in my life, having to do with my crossdressing to an extent, and I would like the opnion of the other girls here.
Four months ago my girlfriend(She will be referred to as "Ann". Not her real name though, to protect her privacy) had broken up with me. She had known about my dressing, but did not accept it. She never wanted to see it. She would help me with shopping though, so she did not hate it completely.
Not too long ago she became pyscho-ex demanding I give her back things that been gifts to me over a year ago. My life was crazy and I didn't know what to do.
Insert a friend of mine, "Mary"(also name changed). Mary is someone I hadn't talked to in about 3 years, but we got back in contact with each other, and picked our friendship up right where it left off, as close friends. She called me, needing to vent. I needed to vent as well about Ann, so we went to a diner to vent.
I made a joke about if I could have a picture of me kissing another girl, I could put it on facebook or myspace to piss off my ex. Mary said she would do it. (I was surprised, because she is a lesbian) As a joke I kissed her, and she kissed me back.
Now I am a male crossdresser who has a lesbian friend. The most confusing situation I have ever been in, but I now understand to an extent what some GGs go through with a cross-dressing boyfriend. I don't understand how she can be gay and love me, but we deal with it. It's working very well for us so far.
Oh, and everyone who is out of closet may be happy for me, because Mary is determined to drag me out of the closet kicking and screaming. :D
Four months ago my girlfriend(She will be referred to as "Ann". Not her real name though, to protect her privacy) had broken up with me. She had known about my dressing, but did not accept it. She never wanted to see it. She would help me with shopping though, so she did not hate it completely.
Not too long ago she became pyscho-ex demanding I give her back things that been gifts to me over a year ago. My life was crazy and I didn't know what to do.
Insert a friend of mine, "Mary"(also name changed). Mary is someone I hadn't talked to in about 3 years, but we got back in contact with each other, and picked our friendship up right where it left off, as close friends. She called me, needing to vent. I needed to vent as well about Ann, so we went to a diner to vent.
I made a joke about if I could have a picture of me kissing another girl, I could put it on facebook or myspace to piss off my ex. Mary said she would do it. (I was surprised, because she is a lesbian) As a joke I kissed her, and she kissed me back.
Now I am a male crossdresser who has a lesbian friend. The most confusing situation I have ever been in, but I now understand to an extent what some GGs go through with a cross-dressing boyfriend. I don't understand how she can be gay and love me, but we deal with it. It's working very well for us so far.
Oh, and everyone who is out of closet may be happy for me, because Mary is determined to drag me out of the closet kicking and screaming. :D