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Dana
11-18-2008, 07:12 PM
I've fought my "T' for the better part of my life.

I've finally have decided to give up the fight.

Just today I've received a nylon tricot VF 52" nightgown and panties! They feel excisite! Wonderful, and I just love them. I love feeling girly!

Kim_Bitzflick
11-18-2008, 07:17 PM
Good for you. Once we accept ourselves, others will be more inclined to accept us.

Dana
11-18-2008, 07:24 PM
Thanks Kim it is such sweet surrender! :hugs:

BeckyAnderson
11-18-2008, 07:27 PM
Dana! That's great! Isn't it such a wonderful feeling to finally realize that you've found yourself and are happy and content? :)

Alice B
11-18-2008, 07:27 PM
Don't surrender with a white flag. White panties are much better.:heehee:

victoriamwilliams1
11-18-2008, 07:31 PM
Don't surrender with a white flag. White panties are much better.:heehee:

I agree:)

susanCD123
11-18-2008, 07:43 PM
Good for you Dana, I love it too!
Susan:love:

TGMarla
11-18-2008, 07:49 PM
Yeah, why fight it? It's a wonderful thing, really, at its very core. We live life incorporating both the male and the female. Those who don't are only living half a life. Just go with it, embrace it, and stop fighting. Life is better that way.

uknowhoo
11-18-2008, 08:50 PM
Well, you know well enough that being at odds with yourself for so long isn't the path to happiness. I'm so glad to hear you've freed yourself to embrace this. I hope it brings you contentment, my friend. :hugs: Tammi

Angie G
11-18-2008, 09:11 PM
way to go girl I never was a fighter either hun.:hugs:
Angie

insearchofme
11-18-2008, 09:21 PM
From one Dana to another, glad you've discovered what we already knew, it's great to be girly!

Teri Jean
11-18-2008, 10:57 PM
I like the flag of truse being panties but make them pink with frills. Good for you Dana and i know how good it feels, smooth and sexy. Keli

AllyM
11-18-2008, 11:00 PM
Acceptance is a wonderful bridge to cross. Congratulations!

Jocelyn Quivers
11-18-2008, 11:34 PM
Congragulations!! Welcome to the femme side!!

avril findlay
11-18-2008, 11:53 PM
I gave in a long time ago. The best decision I ever made. Trying to pretend to be someone else is just a pure waste of time. It's best to be yourself.

tamarav
11-19-2008, 12:32 AM
Good for you! No see how much better you feel?

Your sis,

Tami

Dana
11-19-2008, 01:24 AM
Thanks for the replies, I even told a potential LDR girlfireld. Its very liberarting just bening me! Letting Dana out! To quit fighting it. Accept my feminine side!

To be with one with the "FORCE" of life if you would.

Dana
11-19-2008, 01:25 AM
Good for you! No see how much better you feel?

Your sis,

Tami


I especially liked your reply!

Miss Tessa
11-20-2008, 12:26 AM
I like what Kim said.


It's very true. My Trans Mother told me that long ago. she said, "If you just act cool and normal and friendly, ppl will be cool with you they don't mind having their picture taken with a Femme Queen"

Tasha McIntyre
11-20-2008, 02:58 AM
Hi Dana. Good for you. Hope you experience and enjoy the pink fog that may follow :daydreaming:

Good luck.

Tash

JoAnne Wheeler
11-20-2008, 10:43 AM
The very best that can happen to each is that we come to accept the fact that WE ARE CROSSDRESSERS. We have always been crossdressers since the day we were born and we will be crossdressers until the day we die. Until we accept that, we will continue to live in fear and guilt. Once we accept what we are, its like a great weight has been lifted and "We are free at last"

JoAnne Wheeler
Belle of the Bluegrass

Hali
11-20-2008, 11:49 AM
There is one major aspect of CDing which makes or breaks a CD thats "acceptance", you might not get all the happiness after acceptance but definitely your life as a CD will change for better. In my own view acceptance is the first stage in "managing/controlling/regulating/improving" CDing.

CD Susan
11-20-2008, 05:57 PM
Congratulations Dana! It is such a good feeling when we finally learn to accept ourselves. You are going to feel much better now that you have discovered this.

Deborah Jane
11-20-2008, 06:02 PM
Congratulations Dana
Welcome to the PINK side

Christina Horton
11-20-2008, 06:28 PM
I've fought my "T' for the better part of my life.

I've finally have decided to give up the fight.

Just today I've received a nylon tricot VF 52" nightgown and panties! They feel excisite! Wonderful, and I just love them. I love feeling girly!

You go girl. One little bit of advice don't ever purge (IE don't ever ever get rid of you fem stuff) If you think you will never dress again just put them in a trunk or some place safe cuz, you will want to dress again and purging can hurt when not IF but when you come back to CDing. Welcome to our FEM WORLD HUGGS :hugs: :canada: