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suzypier
11-30-2008, 04:56 PM
Have you ever heard of that? Wife forcing their husband to wear all her clothes. Having husband in woman clothes give her the feeling that he is tied to her. And what do you think about it.

tamarav
11-30-2008, 04:59 PM
yes
yes
no
no opinion

Phyliss
11-30-2008, 05:11 PM
Oh Oh Puleeese don't throw me in that briar patch Br'e Wolf

Toni_Lynn
11-30-2008, 05:15 PM
Typical stuff passed of as being true, the likes of which are found on various Yahoo groups and written about by the less than literate authors (a.k.a. one-handed typists) at places like Fictionmania.

Yawn!

Real life is far more sensual

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

Ruth
11-30-2008, 05:16 PM
I've never head of it. Doesn't sound too likely a scenario to me.

deja true
11-30-2008, 05:20 PM
Golly! who would have ever thought of such an unusual thing?

:D...:D...:D...:D

Shelly Preston
11-30-2008, 05:26 PM
I guess this has happened somewhere sometime

But I would say it mostly belongs in fantasy fiction

Rachel M
11-30-2008, 05:31 PM
Yeah, there are plenty of tales in the story site or fictionmania. Entertaining for some ridiculous to others. I guess it would be okay if we needed an excuse for why we do this but in the end I think we have the final say so in what we choose to wear.
Rachel.

Rachel Morley
11-30-2008, 05:34 PM
My wife doesn't have to force me :D I guess it "might" or "could" happen in a D/s relationship but crossdressers? No, we're already doing it! .... I don't think we would see it as being forced. It's typical fantasy story type stuff.

Kate Simmons
11-30-2008, 06:06 PM
No way. No one could ever "make" me wear female clothing.:heehee:

izzfan
11-30-2008, 06:13 PM
If I had a wife then it would certainly be a nice fantasy but I very much doubt that it happens much or at all. As quite a lot of the other posts have said, it is more the sort of thing that happens in "forced feminisation" fiction.

catriona36
11-30-2008, 06:25 PM
it prob does happen.
tho like male rape we just dont hear about it cos the victims of both dont want it known that the have been put down (as they see it by a woman)

if i had a so she wouldnt have to force me tho she prob could force me to go out with her dressed lol

i know some women do have such a strong personality that they can force men to do things they wouldnt normally do. not saying they all do or would.
and most important... where can i find a woman like that :) :daydreaming::heehee::battingeyelashes:

Niya W
11-30-2008, 06:29 PM
IT could happen. Nothing is out of the realm of possibilities.

serinalynn
11-30-2008, 06:32 PM
No way. No one could ever "make" me wear female clothing.:heehee:


But you would wear womens clothing voluntarily, right.

I suppose there are storys about men being"forced" to wear womens clothing on some of those "Forced Feminization" websites but then any of you logging on through A.O.L. could even find chat rooms with many folks crying their eyes out about being forced to wear womens clothing. I wear womens clothing because I like too. I have as much as my wife has. She know how much I have and just this weekend she said I could use her "Real Womens Dollars" coupons and buy more clothes.

CD Susan
11-30-2008, 06:32 PM
Typical stuff passed of as being true, the likes of which are found on various Yahoo groups and written about by the less than literate authors (a.k.a. one-handed typists) at places like Fictionmania.

Yawn!

Real life is far more sensual

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

Yep, sounds like fictionmania stuff to me too!

Jenny Beth
11-30-2008, 06:45 PM
There is absolutely no way my wife could ever force me to wear her clothes. For one they don't fit and secondly she and I have different tastes when it comes to getting all dolled up! :heehee:

Christina Nicole
11-30-2008, 06:49 PM
Purely fantasy fiction. A friend who is a clinical psychologist whose practice includes TG patients has never seen a real case of forced feminization of any form.

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

AmandaM
11-30-2008, 07:09 PM
Can you talk my wife into it. LOL!

Jolene
11-30-2008, 10:18 PM
If I had a wife and we were the same size, she would probably have to force me to stay out of her clothes.
Hee Hee
Jolene :)

Jonelle
11-30-2008, 10:19 PM
we could all be so lucky

bobbie_1048
11-30-2008, 10:55 PM
There is absolutely no way my wife could ever force me to wear her clothes. For one they don't fit and secondly she and I have different tastes when it comes to getting all dolled up! :heehee:

but i do borrow earrings from her. :) :hugs:, bobbie

Sedona
11-30-2008, 11:44 PM
I suppose if my wife were someone like Layla Ali or Gina Carano she could "make me." Otherwise, hogwash.

sometimes_miss
12-01-2008, 12:04 AM
Wishful thinking. Delusional, at best.

Jennifer_Cross
12-01-2008, 01:30 AM
But my GG got me into this (although I had dabbled before) and I wear nothing but her clothes although she said we are off shopping this week. So maybe it can happen?

Jen

trannie T
12-01-2008, 01:38 AM
It may have happened one time, something similar happened to me one summer when i was sent to live with my aunt. . . .

Deborah Jane
12-01-2008, 04:14 AM
It,s got to be worth a go :D

..................WANTED......................
.............Wife, with nice clothing tastes........................
Must want to force me to share her clothing, shoes and accesories
In exchange, i,m offering to treat her as a Goddess and worship the ground she walks on

Please apply to.......
Deborah Jane [Dumb Blondie]
c/o
Crossdressers.com

Joanne f
12-01-2008, 05:04 AM
Does that mean you would also be forced into taking them off , slow---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ly :heehee:



joanne

Sheila
12-01-2008, 05:29 AM
It,s got to be worth a go :D

..................WANTED......................
.............Wife, with nice clothing tastes........................
Must want to force me to share her clothing, shoes and accesories
In exchange, i,m offering to treat her as a Goddess and worship the ground she walks on

Please apply to.......
Deborah Jane [Dumb Blondie]
c/o
Crossdressers.com

Debs if I was your size hun I would apply in a heart beat :daydreaming:

Deborah Jane
12-01-2008, 05:37 AM
Debs if I was your size hun I would apply in a heart beat :daydreaming:

I,m sure we can reach an arrangement Sheila :D

Application accepted :battingeyelashes:

LisaMichaels
12-01-2008, 05:46 AM
I think it could happen but mostly I feel closet CDers would love to go out and show the world, but also have someone to blame if they get busted by friends or family. I'm lucky my wife and I wear the same size. She don't have to force me, however I'm not bragging here but she loves mt fashion sense better than her own. I can pick out a dress I like that she would never buy for herself, but after we get it home and I try it on she loves it and moves it to her side of the closet. No body could ever force ME to wear women clothes that are out of stlye. hehe.:straightface:

suzypier
12-01-2008, 08:14 AM
It,s got to be worth a go :D

..................WANTED......................
.............Wife, with nice clothing tastes........................
Must want to force me to share her clothing, shoes and accesories
In exchange, i,m offering to treat her as a Goddess and worship the ground she walks on

Please apply to.......
Deborah Jane [Dumb Blondie]
c/o
Crossdressers.com

It's a good idea Deborah. Maybe we should place an ad just to see, probably we could be very surprise of the result !!! :)

Sheila
12-01-2008, 08:19 AM
It's a good idea Deborah. Maybe we should place an ad just to see, probably we could be very surprise of the result !!! :)

Leave debs alone we is in negotiations :D:heehee::heehee::heehee:

Jamie M
12-01-2008, 08:37 AM
Although i'm not discounting the realms of infinite possiblity, this kind of thing (although popular) is purely confined to fiction and urban mythology.

in my view it's popularity is derived from the simple (and obvious) concept of removal of guilt. It can be the very appealing for people to dream of doing the very thing you want to do but not having to deal with any negative feelings that may arise from that desire. By including an imaginary person in your fantasy who's giving you no choice in the matter, it's no longer your problem to deal with.

In the real world any loving partner should never 'force' the spouse into anything they did not want to do. Of course there is always the possibilty that said partner knows what their other half wants but cannot deal with it themselves and so takes on this role to spare them the guilt but in my view this doesn't fall under the same situation as the OP describes.

Deborah Jane
12-01-2008, 08:38 AM
Leave debs alone we is in negotiations :D:heehee::heehee::heehee:

You want me to wear what???? :heehee:
And do what???? :eek:

MarcieM
12-01-2008, 09:18 AM
The concept of "forced feminization" is only a head game in the head of a CD. How can someone "force" a CD to wear female clothing? It doesn't make sense.

For a CD to say he was "force feminized", it's just a way of mentally removing the guilt, shame, stigma, etc. from Cd-ing. "I had to wear those clothes - I was FORCED"

I suppose maybe it could happen in some very extreme cases of B&D/S&M or whatever, but the whole idea of this is VERY unlikely to happen in the real world. Probably the closest thing to this in the real world is "petticoat discipline", which apparently some mothers used to engage in years ago. Does it still happen? Very unlikely.
www.storysite.org
www.petticoated.com

MsJanessa
12-01-2008, 09:36 AM
Sounds more like a T-Gurl fantasy than reality. However if you have been naughty and need to be punished by wearing My (or your) lingerie, send Me a pm:dom:

Carol A
12-01-2008, 09:40 AM
My wife refuses to let me wear any of her cloths :doh:

Sheila
12-01-2008, 09:44 AM
I guess this has happened somewhere sometime

But I would say it mostly belongs in fantasy fiction

sometimes fantasy can become reality :devil::devil:

suzypier
12-01-2008, 11:00 AM
Have you ever heard of that? Wife forcing their husband to wear all her clothes. Having husband in woman clothes give her the feeling that he is tied to her. And what do you think about it.

And what about if you always hide the fact that you are a CD and your wife do not even know about it !!!!!!

Sarah Martin
12-01-2008, 11:47 AM
I think this one is firmly in the 'fiction/fantasy' realm only. There may be consensual role-play around 'sissiyfication/forced fem' with some wives (and a lot of paid professionals?) but it's hard to see a woman forcing her husband if he really did'nt want to. Most guys would just leave?

Joanne f
12-01-2008, 12:31 PM
I think this one is firmly in the 'fiction/fantasy' realm only. There may be consensual role-play around 'sissiyfication/forced fem' with some wives (and a lot of paid professionals?) but it's hard to see a woman forcing her husband if he really did'nt want to. Most guys would just leave?

OOOOOOOOOOO that could be a dangerous statement to make as it could almost be turned around to Most wife's would just leave :D:D



joanne

Sarah Martin
12-01-2008, 12:42 PM
OOOOOOOOOOO that could be a dangerous statement to make as it could almost be turned around to Most wife's would just leave :D:D
joanne

Joanne, I think I've lost the plot... if the wife is the one doing the forcing and getting her own way why would she leave?

jo_ann
12-01-2008, 01:11 PM
unfortunately, in many cases it might not be much different than a "prison rape" fantasy, but in this case it's being an inmates "bitch" as shown in this clip:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFN8dYgSRBk

Anyone who dresses voluntarily, this fantasy doesn't make much sense. However, the fantasy of being forced to be feminine and then forced to go out in public is an entirely different scenario since many of us fear that.

Cary
12-01-2008, 01:21 PM
If I had a wife and we were the same size, she would probably have to force me to stay out of her clothes.
Hee Hee
Jolene :)

Same here if it were real, but it sounds like fantasy.

Louise C
12-01-2008, 02:19 PM
pure invented male fantasy, i reckon.

Marjory
12-01-2008, 03:24 PM
I think I would absolutly have to be forced to wear my wife's clothes as she is some 50lbs. lighter than me and takes a size six shoe

Wanda.cd.northern.NH
12-01-2008, 03:33 PM
Wish my wife felt that way!!!!!!!

Karren Hutton
12-01-2008, 03:49 PM
Now how many have had that dream?? Lol. Too bad my wife dresses like crap so I'd have to wear ...... Womens jeans!! Ohhh noooooo... A fate worse than death!! Hahaha

Deborah Jane
12-01-2008, 03:52 PM
sometimes fantasy can become reality :devil::devil:

Yup :battingeyelashes:

Sheila
12-01-2008, 03:57 PM
Yup :battingeyelashes:

awwwwwwww i was hoping for a bit of resistance :devil::devil:

Deborah Jane
12-01-2008, 04:00 PM
awwwwwwww i was hoping for a bit of resistance :devil::devil:

How can i seriously resist an offer like that? :D
I,m a crossdresser :battingeyelashes:

Sheila
12-01-2008, 04:02 PM
How can i seriously resist an offer like that? :D
I,m a crossdresser :battingeyelashes:

well that gives me some ideas :heehee:

Alice B
12-01-2008, 04:03 PM
Wow! Would I love to have that problem.

Deborah Jane
12-01-2008, 04:04 PM
well that gives me some ideas :heehee:

Now things ARE looking up :D :battingeyelashes::daydreaming:

sall
12-05-2008, 01:28 PM
If only life was that good.

pink femme
12-05-2008, 03:24 PM
Sounds good to me :o

Anyway know where one exists?:heehee:

AmandaM
12-05-2008, 03:33 PM
<<Originally Posted by Sheila
well that gives me some ideas
Posted by Debra Jane
Now things ARE looking up>>

Geez, you two get a room! Oh, and leave me a key. :)

Jill34
12-05-2008, 04:41 PM
Oh Please do not make wear those pantyhose again.

Tess
12-05-2008, 07:20 PM
In my dreams...

Sheila
01-07-2009, 03:28 AM
well as Debs and i are very different sizes clothing wise only thing I am able to force her to wear is my shoes ............. not that she takes a lot of forcing :D

RachelDenise
01-07-2009, 03:35 AM
Sounds like fantasy but I'm willing to try!

Deborah Jane
01-07-2009, 05:09 AM
well as Debs and i are very different sizes clothing wise only thing I am able to force her to wear is my shoes ............. not that she takes a lot of forcing :D

Honest...Sheila forced me to wear her Stilletos, i,d never have worn them otherwise :heehee:

I wonder what she,ll force me to wear next? :daydreaming:

erickka
01-07-2009, 06:51 AM
People do the strangest things, so I can believe it is true....somewhere.

MsJanessa
01-07-2009, 08:06 AM
Have you ever heard of that? Wife forcing their husband to wear all her clothes. Having husband in woman clothes give her the feeling that he is tied to her. And what do you think about it.
Sounds like wishful thinking or a plot for CD/BD porn.

JoAnne Wheeler
01-07-2009, 08:24 AM
Interesting post - my spouse up until 8 months ago was totally revolted by anything pertaining to crossdressing -> going back to my "Great Purge of 95".
When the Pink Fog settled in on me last summer and I nearly fell apart -litterally - my spouse and I were able to COMMUNICATE and she finally realized how deep and strong these URGES/DESIRES are to me and the rest of us. She saw what it was doing to me - I was so down that the bottom began to look like up to me - she experienced an epiphany to the point that SHE NOW INCOURAGES ME TO DRESS ANY TIME I WANT - AND IF I DON"T DRESS UP, for some reason, THEN SHE ACTUALLY ENCOURAGES ME TO DRESS !
What a difference !
JoAnne Wheeler

Angie G
01-07-2009, 09:59 AM
Lucky girl.:hugs:
Angie

harmony
01-07-2009, 10:07 AM
gee-i can see myself thrashing around with my arms as she is trying to put that bra on me-wiggling like crazy to prevent that tight girdle sliding up my body and getting zipped up-putting runs into the stockings as she is fixing to roll them past my toes telling me i will be such a pretty girl when she is done with me.
no no no-i dont want to wear that wig!!and that lipstick tastes nasty and the earrings hurt my earlobes -please please stop!!!
anybody have that w.t dream?

AmandaM
01-07-2009, 11:18 AM
Uh-oh, my wife wants the house cleaned and she wants the "maid" to do it.

:o

BoundSteph
01-07-2009, 12:07 PM
Howdy ladies :battingeyelashes:

I'm new here, but I hope you don't think I'm a liar (yes I have used forums before where newcomers seem so full of....:brolleyes:

So, I have been dressing since around 13/14 I think. Maybe be longer, I honestly don't know. But I didn't get into a serious relationship until I was 19. I always liked the idea of bondage, and had practiced it before then alone (before I had internet and found out I wasn't alone). So I joked about bondage one day as a hint and was tied to the bed within 10 minutes after a reply of "so it's bondage you want huh?" (yes, she had more experience than me). Anyway, a few weeks later and after a couple of drinks, she asked me to wear her underwear, stockings and shoes and let her tie me up. Of course I wanted to, and casually acted like I found it a little strange. She ended up dressing me herself and I was clearly loving it! Anyway, I don't think it worked for her quite as she hoped, as she didn't ask again :eek: And I kind of found out she was cheating on me about a year later so that had to end.

Then along came the next. I was open and told her about the dressing (though clamed it started when the first had asked me that) :heehee:
She was into bondage a little and bought a maid outfit. She used to make me dress up (verbally only (but I like being the sub in bondage play so I didn't argue) and then on went the cuff, armbinder or what ever it was that she wanted . That ended as we didn't get on after a while so it was just time to move on.

So yes, some women like it, some think they may but in reality don't, and I'm sure many just wouldn't go near the subject.

I would also like to agrue with those who say being forced to dress is an easy way to remove guilt and shame. I can tell you, both times, I did feel a little humiliation when dressed in front of someone...but as a great lover of bondage and S&M play, I can tell you I like to be "forced" to do things and do find it a turn on, but if I had a supportive girlfriend, I would happily dress in front of her myself just because I could.


Sorry for the long post...hope it didn't get too boring :sorry:

shelbyell47
01-07-2009, 02:19 PM
That would absolutely be heaven for me. I would think I had died and gone to heaven.
Shelby

BoundSteph
01-07-2009, 02:44 PM
Sort of seeing someone else now. What's the chances of getting 3 in a row? I'm actually more nervous about telling her. She seems like the more understanding type. We have known each other for so long though, I feel this could just tear us apart :confused:

beenherelongtime
01-07-2009, 05:12 PM
as had been said, no one would have to force us, but i do think it is in the realm of possibility, as everything is.

Sheila
03-04-2009, 09:20 AM
Remember this love .................


It,s got to be worth a go :D

..................WANTED......................
.............Wife, with nice clothing tastes........................
Must want to force me to share her clothing, shoes and accesories
In exchange, i,m offering to treat her as a Goddess and worship the ground she walks on

Please apply to.......
Deborah Jane [Dumb Blondie]
c/o
Crossdressers.com



Seems just right that on our wedding day I am gonna be wearing your shoes

Jess_cd32
03-04-2009, 12:26 PM
I've heard of it, its called forced fem.
Wouldn't mind that happening to me periodically:)
Tied? sounds like fun if you know what I mean:)

Mistybtm
03-04-2009, 12:35 PM
Oh yes it can be realy fun at times.

Tina B.
03-04-2009, 04:30 PM
I've heard of it, its called forced fem.
Wouldn't mind that happening to me periodically:)
Tied? sounds like fun if you know what I mean:)

Yes it is out there, but it's just a game, It's not really forced if you are playing your part, but as others have stated, as a fantasy it relives the guilt of doing something you want to do, but feel is wrong. But there is nothing wrong with games!!!
But since my wife is not in my weight class, her clothes are to small, and no one would believe that little thing made me do anything against my will, maybe it was a stranger that climbed in the window, and made me put on that dress, yes thats the ticket, no really he made me, well I will admit the matching Accessories where my idea, but then an outfit must be coordinated.
Tina

Amanduhrob
03-05-2009, 04:20 AM
I've been involved in the BDSM world quite a long time now, and not once have I ever met a male non CD who was forced to be womanized by his Dom/me or S/O. I have seen Dominatrixes sissify subs, but I've never heard of one forcing hormones, or breast enhancement, let alone full GRS upon her sub/slave.

IMHO it's a fantasy, and nothing more.

Christine St James
03-05-2009, 06:10 AM
I wouldn't mind it.

Come to think of it, my GF has an amazing sense of style and I fit most of her clothes...

Elisa
03-05-2009, 06:16 AM
Have you ever heard of that? Wife forcing their husband to wear all her clothes. Having husband in woman clothes give her the feeling that he is tied to her. And what do you think about it.

Funnily enough, this is actually what my ex girlfriend is doing to her new guy. :P

She found out she was Dom, and knew I wasn't up for that (She knows I used to CD when I was in my late teens, but doesn't know I've picked it up again), so she found a guy who's sub, and according to what she tells me (we're still friends, as we talked things through and decided being friends was good since we know so much about eachother and it's good to have someone that knows you to talk to) that's one of the games they play, where she will force him to wear her clothes for days.. Not in public though..

karina36
03-05-2009, 06:20 AM
About being forced to wear your wife's clothes. As nearly everybody has said, this is more likely to be fanfasy -which is not the same as wish-fulfillment. I have come to the notion that it can be hoping you will be forced to ear fem clothes- thereby being given 'permission' so that you don't feel it is really your own choice, thus alleviating your guilt. I think people on the site have long since come to the realisation that they really DO want to dress, etc en femme - to accept that part of themselves without excuses etc Love Karina36:battingeyelashes:

Amy Hepker
03-05-2009, 07:11 AM
a dream come true.

Marjory
03-05-2009, 07:56 AM
That's a fantasy of mine too, right up to someone controlling me; won't happen.

Kate Lynn
03-05-2009, 11:49 AM
Unfortunetly my wife is a petite 5'tall 90 pounds,and her clothes would never fit me.

phobsessed
03-05-2009, 03:02 PM
maybe it was some kind of cuckold situation...i dunno...would seem to be most of our fantasies come true

sherib
03-05-2009, 08:14 PM
Wish I could be so lucky.

baby beluga
03-06-2009, 10:12 AM
Have you ever heard of that? Wife forcing their husband to wear all her clothes. Having husband in woman clothes give her the feeling that he is tied to her. And what do you think about it.

Uh yeah, this happens all the time everywhere. Everyone does it.

Alana65
03-06-2009, 10:51 AM
I've heard of it................and what do I think of it ? In personal terms, my SO (if I had one) wouldn't have to force me.......I'd go along with it willingly :daydreaming:.........as long as it was because she accepts & supports me (not for humiliation).

JodyCD
03-06-2009, 11:53 AM
I'm sure it exists in the BDSM and D/s lifestyles, but even there its not a "real" forced experience, its roleplay. Not to say it doesn't exist at all, but I wouldn't hold my breath for a woman to "force" me to dress. Of course you can't rape the willing..

It does though bring back nostalgic memories of fictionmania when I was thirteen or so and LOVED to read the stories on that site. lol! Unfortunately it kind of lost its thrill as the maturity level of the content doesn't really go past the age of 13.. Every now and again you can find a well written story, but the rest are absolutely horrible.:o

Daphne Renee
03-07-2009, 09:27 PM
anything is possible. I am seen so many strange things in my life it surely wouldnt surprise me. I do however think its more likely that is fantasy.

Ashley Lyn
03-08-2009, 04:57 PM
I have an approving SO, and I don't really like her 'style'... However, she likes me '****ty' or 'school girl' style, so sometimes she will 'suggest' I 'dress'.. Really tough to be 'forced' into something I love doing..:battingeyelashes:

However, the tho't of going with her to her girl friend/friends house, and being 'told' to dress in front of them is a serious fantasy.. Certainly would be a little 'forced' there, as I'm not sure how I'd handle it, but I'm ready!! :battingeyelashes: Hon, are you reading this..???:daydreaming:

Jenny G
03-08-2009, 06:03 PM
Have you ever heard of that? Wife forcing their husband to wear all her clothes. Having husband in woman clothes give her the feeling that he is tied to her. And what do you think about it.

my former wife made me dress as a maid friday evening to monday mornings she said if i wanted to dress as a woman than i would be a server to women she had me clean the house and cook and server her for those hours and i stayed dressed that way until i showered for work at 6am monday morning i wasn't allowed any sexual release what so ever she was the mistress of the house and i served her

Erica G
03-08-2009, 06:21 PM
Sounds like fun.

AmandaM
03-08-2009, 10:50 PM
my former wife made me dress as a maid friday evening to monday mornings she said if i wanted to dress as a woman than i would be a server to women she had me clean the house and cook and server her for those hours and i stayed dressed that way until i showered for work at 6am monday morning i wasn't allowed any sexual release what so ever she was the mistress of the house and i served her

Well, that game sounds like fun to me, except the sex part. She has to take me at least once a day! LOL

PanteeQueen
03-08-2009, 10:59 PM
I've heard that is how some crossdressers start but that is far and few between.