Crossdressers.com http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/ Crossdressers is a message board focusing on cross dressers as individuals and allowing them an outlet to discuss everything to do with crossdressing. en Thu, 09 Sep 2010 01:19:12 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/images/misc/rss.png Crossdressers.com http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/ HR Dept. http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139098-HR-Dept.&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 23:52:50 GMT I noticed my name had not yet been changed in the companies computer system so I called the HR dept. As many of you know I had forgotten to talk to HR about my going full time on the 18Th . The long and the short of it I found they had not received the name change paperwork yet so I will resend it... I noticed my name had not yet been changed in the companies computer system so I called the HR dept. As many of you know I had forgotten to talk to HR about my going full time on the 18Th . The long and the short of it I found they had not received the name change paperwork yet so I will resend it when I get home , while talking to them I don't know how it came up but before I knew it I was telling her about my upcoming RLE and this was something that I have stressed over far to much . In a nut shell , no problem ! she assured me I have nothing to fear , there will be no discrimination on the part of the company or the insurance (my biggest worry) , as it turns out they do have a policy in place to protect TS persons , I was surprised to say the least and relieved .

My fears where for not , I know I am in a very small minority in that I have not lost my wife , job nor any friends or family over my coming out , in fact I have made a couple of new friends and found support in places I never expected it. Ladies let me assure you that the world is not so scary after all so don't be afraid to come out of that closet and into the big bright world , I will never go back , cannot go back as it would kill me to do so. I know it is not for everyone but coming out is the greatest relief and the peace I have found is immeasurable.

A HUGE THANK YOU TO MY WIFE AND ALL OF YOU ! THANK YOU.

Viccy ]]> Transsexual Forum Victoria Anne http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139098-HR-Dept. time http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139097-time&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 23:50:19 GMT has anyone ever been in a situation where you to dress but don't have time or to lazy to dress. well i am there.i want to dress up and go out but seems like the time is not really there and/or no urge to do it.i have this fwe dresses that i have bought and want to try out but nothing there, could it be that i losing interest or what.need some input on this time that has me screwed up. ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing latebloomer http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139097-time Have any of you went to a christian counsler? http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139092-Have-any-of-you-went-to-a-christian-counsler&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 21:46:14 GMT Just curious what they told you about your dressing? Just curious what they told you about your dressing? ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing MichelleW126 http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139092-Have-any-of-you-went-to-a-christian-counsler Skirts from my Sister-in-Law http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139090-Skirts-from-my-Sister-in-Law&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 21:25:12 GMT My sister-in-law has known about my cross-dressing for many years but has never said anything. Lately, since her husband recently died, she has been coming over to our home regularly and has seen me dressed several times now. Today she gave my wife two long skirts for me to wear...one a tiered... My sister-in-law has known about my cross-dressing for many years but has never said anything. Lately, since her husband recently died, she has been coming over to our home regularly and has seen me dressed several times now. Today she gave my wife two long skirts for me to wear...one a tiered demin style and the other a flower print...both are almost ankle length and of the same style she has seen me in recently. She has also said I can dress any way I want in front of her and seems to be very accepting. My wife has known about Joanne longer than my sister-in-law, but it seems so comforting, for lack of a better word, to have both of them accept my feminine side. ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing joanne shannon http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139090-Skirts-from-my-Sister-in-Law SOO Much Fun Today http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139088-SOO-Much-Fun-Today&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 21:24:20 GMT It's been well over a week since I dressed last and this morning, I woke up giddy with excitement. I actually had the house to myself for a few hours so I woke up early, around 8 or so, shaved and got in the shower.

I was able to wash using all the fruit smelling delights that when I got out, the bathroom smelled like my soap! I applied some lotion to my body, lathering it slowly and hit myself with a splash of japanese cherry blossom body spray. I put some panties and a bra on afterward and then my plush girly robe. I love the getting ready part.

I got some of my mothers make up (I don't have some of my own and she has quite a large selection) and started to try some on. I am completely new to make up so I abandoned that plan and just applied facial creme instead. I then got out the vaseline and rubbed it on my lips. I then proceeded to put on lipstick (which I am more familiar with). Then I got out some strawberry lip gloss and put that on so my lips had that really wet look. It was so fab I loved it!!!

I also found this hair attachment called "hairdo". I read the directions about putting it on and went at it. It took me a while to figure it out and do it successfully but I can say this, the end result was SOOO beautiful. I looked 10 times better with a more femme hairstyle. I already have long hair, but this attachment made it look more glamourous and pretty.

After that, I got some cute outfits together and put them on. I was just playing dress up. Pant suits, tight jeans, cute tops, skirts, dresses. I even turned a nice flowy skirt into a really cute strapless dress just by adding a belt! I surprised myself a little with the ideas I was coming up with.

Since I'm still in the closet, I stayed in the house today, but I did go on to that crossdressing chat city place and got complimented!!!

I had so much fun today. I felt like a such glamourous woman, free and uncompromising.

It's just too bad I have to get to class later. ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing Tamma http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139088-SOO-Much-Fun-Today Driving to work enfemme http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139084-Driving-to-work-enfemme&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 19:30:03 GMT Wooohooooo what a feeling. My first time driving to work thismorning, bra, panties, skirt and blouse oh and my wig form I brought yesterday. What an wonderful experience. Its actually the first time I have walked out of the house obviously dressed. I just need to find some high heels that will fit... Wooohooooo what a feeling. My first time driving to work thismorning, bra, panties, skirt and blouse oh and my wig form I brought yesterday. What an wonderful experience. Its actually the first time I have walked out of the house obviously dressed. I just need to find some high heels that will fit my size 11 feet. Does anyone know a place in Brisbane where I can buy bigger shoes please. I don't want to buy online as although my wife is aware of me cding she doesn't exactly agree with it at the moment...it has only been four months since I came out to her. She has brought me things but seems to have an issue with me wanting shoes. Waiting for the day she can see me for me and not feel she has lost her husband. If anyone can give any ideas it would be gratefully appreciated. Sorry for rambling. Lol :daydreaming: ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing Miss Lisa http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139084-Driving-to-work-enfemme Baby Steps http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139081-Baby-Steps&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 18:44:58 GMT I had my first dressing in my home outside of the bedroom yesterday. My wife lost a bunch of weight and was going through her clothes and give me a blue short dress (size 14) and a half slip. When I got home from work yesterday I closed all the blinds and put on the dress and slip. I... I had my first dressing in my home outside of the bedroom yesterday.

My wife lost a bunch of weight and was going through her clothes and give me a blue short dress (size 14) and a half slip.

When I got home from work yesterday I closed all the blinds and put on the dress and slip. I already had on panties. I walked around the house for about an hour. I now know what it feel like to have a breeze go up my skirt, to sit like a woman so as not to show anything. I was so happy and relaxed. The only reason I changed was to let my dog out and to fix dinner so my wife and I could eat when she got home.

I will be doing this as often as I can. I really loved it! ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing Sarah53 http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139081-Baby-Steps Cathing up! http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139078-Cathing-up!&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 18:03:49 GMT Hello everyone!!! It’s been a little over a year since I’ve been on and a metric ton of stuff has happened since then so I thought I’d tell you all about it. About a two ago I finally told my SO about my Cding. She didn’t take it so well. Turns out that here Uncle and his wife are... Hello everyone!!!
It’s been a little over a year since I’ve been on and a metric ton of stuff has happened since then so I thought I’d tell you all about it.

About a two ago I finally told my SO about my Cding. She didn’t take it so well. Turns out that here Uncle and his wife are CDers as well as swingers. She has had a very negative experience around them as they are very mean to each other as well as hardly together. When I told her she flipped and of course asked all the standard questions (IE.. so are you gay??). I told her the truth that I loved only her and only wanted to be with her. She told me that it was completely disgusting and that she could not accept it. She told me she was going to take our two kids and go live with her parents. I begged her to stay and told her I would do anything to keep her from leaving. Her response was never that I was never to do it again. To which I told her I would do everything in my power not to do it anymore. Things where weird between us for a long time she didn’t even want to be kissed by me. We still talked and the more time that passed by the more we talked about six months passed and she told me that she realized that I could not just stop and that if I did do it she wanted nothing to do with it or even know about it.

So one day I was checking my email that I used for this site (Ravin_nightshade) and I forgot to log out before I went to work. She used the computer while I was at work and up popped my email. Now it’s not like there was anything in it in fact there was not any mail in it at all but the custom pink back ground was enough to throw her overboard. She waited all day for me to get home to inform me that she was going to move out because she didn’t marry a woman she married a man. We talked about it and I told her the truth that I had been dressing every since I was 5 and that I underdressed all the way through high school (we were super good friends during high school and she never knew) and talked and talked finally we just stopped talking about it all together.

About a year later this last weekend actually she and I talked about it. She actually brought it up and we talked very calmly and very openly about it. I told her everything and she listened and actually understood me. She and I talked about clothing and fem stuff for a while off and on throughout the three day weekend. She told me she still does not want to know when and does not want to be a part of it but she fully understands why. She told me that had I told her during high school she would have probably been more open to the idea as she had not been scared by her family at that point, but who’s to say that we ever would have got together. The funny part is that during the course of the weekend we watched “she’s the man” and “jawanna man” both about people who dress as the opposite sex in order to feel complete (her pick not mine). She told me that there were certain things of hers that where off limits which I agreed to. Then on Monday she told me that she needs new Bra’s (we just had our third child so things got bigger and now they don’t fit her) and that when she gets new ones I can have her old ones. It took every ounce of my being not to scream with excitement that she was opening up to the idea…. Now I just can’t wait for the day when she wants to go shopping together. Any way with all of this happening I’m so happy that she is starting to relax about it.

thanks for listening ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing Ravin_nightshade http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139078-Cathing-up! <![CDATA[Jamie's Ballet Lessons]]> http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139076-Jamie-s-Ballet-Lessons&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:27:08 GMT Those of you who have read my earlier thread know that I've been taking ballet lessons for nine months now. Although I attend as a guy, it's great to be able to engage in such a feminine activity.

Well after a six week hiatus, class resumed again last night. The first thing to note is that there is another guy in the class. It's funny when I first started I felt weird being the only guy, but now, there's a little part of me that resents having him there. Don't get me wrong, I introduced myself, and he seems like a nice enough fellow. Still, maybe having him there reminds me that I'm one of two guys in the class, instead of just "one of the girls."

We did the usual warm-ups at the barre, followed by some center work and allegro (fast movements across the floor). It was clear that I was out of practice, and I received a lot of corrections from the teacher. I am still a little sore today from working muscles that rarely get any use. I've got a pretty good hold of the vocabulary and can do most of the moves individually, put still get confused at times when we have to put them together in a sequence. Although it gets frustrating at times, I'm still committed to taking classes for the foreseeable future, and am starting to think about taking two classes a week. ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing JamieG http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139076-Jamie-s-Ballet-Lessons Thank you..... http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139071-Thank-you.....&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 16:48:32 GMT I just realized that I have been a member of this forum for just over a year. Thank you all for listening, checking me out, or just plain being part of the same club. Ami has never gotten such attention in the real world. Eventually I will get to dress again in the flesh.... I need to make some... I just realized that I have been a member of this forum for just over a year. Thank you all for listening, checking me out, or just plain being part of the same club.

Ami has never gotten such attention in the real world. Eventually I will get to dress again in the flesh.... I need to make some life changes first. When I do I cannot wait to post the pictures. This forum has made me realize that it's okay to be what we are.

Thanks again, :) ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing AmiFL http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139071-Thank-you..... <![CDATA[A contest I REALLY hope I don't win]]> http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139070-A-contest-I-REALLY-hope-I-don-t-win&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 16:18:12 GMT Don't you wish life had a "undo" button? Send a nasty note to your boss? Undo! Went a little too far last night? Undo! Enter a contest online showing a picture of you dressed, with your actual name on it? Un-fricking-do!! :)

Sigh. Life as a member of the terminally stupid sub-species never ceases to amaze - or amuse - me. Yesterday, my favorite women's clothing store sent an e-mail describing a contest they were having. First prize was a spa weekend and a $1,000 shopping spree. Thinking of the girly goodness of both a spa weekend and a thousand in pretty clothes basically turned my brain to mush - well, more mushy than normal, that is.

I put my collage together (Badly. I really suck at design and art and stuff. I can't even draw a stick figure. I kept asking myself while trying to design it, "What would Frédérique do? :) Anyway, I finished the entry, added my little essay on "What makes me feel beautiful" and hit the submit button.

Being the suspicious type, and knowing that the interweb is all linked and stuff, I cruised on over to Facebook. Golly! I noticed that the world now knew that I really loved girl's clothes from this store, and had entered a contest to get even more of them, with a link to my pretty little page. Delete! Undo! Delete! Undo! Delete! Undo! Delete! Cr**! Delete! Undo! Delete! Undo! %$*#! Undo! Delete! Undo! Delete! WhydidIdothis?! Delete! Undo!

I think I got to it before anyone else noticed that, . . . wow, I can clean up really well if I try. :)

So, now my concern is twofold; One, what if I win? I'm assuming that there will be the requisite publicity, and the entire world will know that I am now the proud owner of lots and lots of pretty clothes. Two, I've noticed that since I'm an oddity on their site and in this contest, that my page is getting plenty of looks. You know, that page with my picture and my guy name on it. Sigh. How do I manage to get myself into situations that even Lucy Ricardo couldn't wiggle (or cry) her way out of. I blame the brain damage.

So, below is my entry text for what makes me feel beautiful, and my awful collage. Enjoy! Oh, and use me as an example. Learn from my mistakes. :)

Kathi


I feel beautiful when...

I step outside the dressing room, and their jaws drop! I feel beautiful when they say, "You look just like a woman!" I feel beautiful when I look in the mirror, . . . and finally see ME looking back at me. I know I'm not exactly your normal customer at WH/BM - being a guy and all - but when I'm there, you always make me FEEL like I am. That, to me, is beautiful.

They say that clothes make the man. Believe it!


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]]> Male to Female Crossdressing Kathi Lake http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139070-A-contest-I-REALLY-hope-I-don-t-win winter is fast approaching http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139068-winter-is-fast-approaching&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 15:43:45 GMT * I guess I should be sad, all that snow to shovel, and heavy coats and gloves.. time to dig out the boots... wait a minute... Did I just say boots... I love my high heeled boots !!! and my gloves hide any hint of male in my hands.. and my white fur coat with that aqua satin lining... ...
I guess I should be sad, all that snow to shovel, and heavy coats and gloves..
time to dig out the boots...
wait a minute...
Did I just say boots... I love my high heeled boots !!!
and my gloves hide any hint of male in my hands.. and my white fur coat with
that aqua satin lining...
OMG... it's just another time and way to express my female self !!!

Love,

Brenda ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing brendaeskew http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139068-winter-is-fast-approaching Car Shopping Observation http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139065-Car-Shopping-Observation&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 13:16:53 GMT The other day while beginning to shop for a new car I noticed a female customer who was wearing a spaghetti straped somewhat sheer mini dress (You could see some things) with 6+inch platform heels (She moved like an expert in them). A few thoughts went through my mind; That is one sexy look. Where... The other day while beginning to shop for a new car I noticed a female customer who was wearing a spaghetti straped somewhat sheer mini dress (You could see some things) with 6+inch platform heels (She moved like an expert in them). A few thoughts went through my mind; That is one sexy look. Where did she think she and her boyfriend were going when she first dressed. How much I wanted to ask her about her shoes. Envy for her real looking bustline (of course it looked real, it was real). And lastly some male envy that she could show up there looking like that and clearly knock most of the male salemen of thier games!! The last thing i then took notice of was how the other female customers were dressed and how they blended so easily. Ultimately it was a great example that is mentioned here often. If you dress to blend you prabablu will! And if you are lucky enough to have her around no surely one will give you a second glance!! ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing Sarasometimes http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139065-Car-Shopping-Observation holiday blues http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139061-holiday-blues&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 11:59:28 GMT just got back from holiday .i could not wait to shave my legs and paint my toe nails my wife knows about my hobbie but on a family holiday she makes me grow my leg hair so i can wear shorts etc and of course the nail polish but it is such a nice feeling to shave again after 2 or 3 months of... just got back from holiday .i could not wait to shave my legs and paint my toe nails
my wife knows about my hobbie but on a family holiday she makes me grow my leg hair so i can wear shorts etc and of course the nail polish but it is such a nice feeling to shave again after 2 or 3 months of looking lie a yette! ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing yvonne10 http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139061-holiday-blues every week http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139060-every-week&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 11:13:07 GMT It seems like every week victoria secret is introducing a new bra I am a vs juckie but when is it going to stop It seems like every week victoria secret is introducing a new bra I am a vs juckie but when is it going to stop ]]> Male to Female Crossdressing k lynn http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?139060-every-week