How long have you hidden your crossdressing from your wife
I have hidden my crossdressing from my wife for over thirty years. My most enjoyable times were when I was out of town on my sales job. I could dress completely comfortable, without the worry of my spouse finding out. Now that I am retired, it is more difficult to find a few hours that I can make a complete transformation to my feminine self. This of course happens only when my wife is out of the house for a predetermined period of time.
Marcie R.
Marcie, do you honestly believe...
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Marcie R.
I have hidden my crossdressing from my wife for over thirty years. My most enjoyable times were when I was out of town on my sales job. I could dress completely comfortable, without the worry of my spouse finding out. Now that I am retired, it is more difficult to find a few hours that I can make a complete transformation to my feminine self. This of course happens only when my wife is out of the house for a predetermined period of time.
Marcie R.
...that just because your wife has never confronted you with evidence of your crossdressing that you have been able to successfully hide this part of yourself from her for all these years?
If you truly believe that, then I have a bridge spanning some choice swamp land in Florida that I would be delighted to sell you, with financing conveniently provided by a Nigerian banker :doh::heehee:.
We all slip up at some point and inadvertently leave some evidence of our CDing that others will accidentally stumble upon, and that isn't even taking into account that infamous "knows all, sees all" women's intuition our wives or SO's possess.
Dream on, Marcie, dream on...:tongueout
Hiding CD is OK - - - Until IT Happens.
Marcie, Like you, I kept my CD securely hidden from my wife for over 30 years. But watch out! Getting "discovered" as I did can be quite a shock for both you and your wife. (In my case it was very sudden. She popped up when and where not expected, opened a door, and there I stood, partially dressed.)
Fortunately for both of us my wife, once getting past the inevitable "conversation", was able to progress from unaccepting denial, thru several levels of acknowledgement and permission, until she became supportive and participating. Note that that process took years to evolve, so if you go there, you will need a large measure of patience.
It turned out we would both have been a lot better off had I disclosed my CD years before.
You have to make your own choice, but my voice here joins that of several of our sisters who've already posted on this thread - - you really should consider coming out to your wife. For one thing, If you take the initiative, you are at least able to plan and steer the "conversation", whilst if you get discovered, it all comes down suddenly and uncontrollably - - you have no option but to dodge the wreckage, clean up the mess, and rebuild.
Regardness, hun, I hope you are able to enjoy your CD for many years to come. :)
Hugs, Daisy :hugs: