Originally Posted by
suzi_cd
Oddly enough I've been sort of drifting in this direction. I've tried the really Femme look and it doesn't work for me. COGIATI reports me as classification THREE, ANDROGYNE and to be honest thats were I feel I fit in.
As a male I've never really been attracted to the "ideal" woman - the stereotype who gets thrust at us by the media. I've always found "boyish" girls much more sexy and if I'm wandering round the supermarket its those sort of girls that catch my eye.
So I tried adjusting my dressing - wearing female clothes (jeans, tanks etc.) that are not overtly femme but are female. A little bit of make up, some work on my hair and I feel very comfortable as a "soft butch" and I'm hoping I look good too (I'm working on some photos).
suzi