What usually happens when U out yourself to a GF that you CD?
What usually happens when you out yourself to a Girlfriend that you CD? I've very rarely dated women, and this has never happened to me. I just rejoined Match.com today for $4.25 / month and I feel like coming out at the beginning that I cd. So, for the guys who have dated women a lot and told them, - what has usually happened?
Try to give a percentage of who accepted. E.g., 40% accepted me.
I guess it's a crap shoot
but I'm not a gambler.
My current 'lady friend' is very open minded about many things and is very involved in the gay community (she has many of male gay friends) but several of them are transvestites.
As such, I am still hesitant to tell her about my CD-ing because although she is more open minded than most, I believe that she has already made (incorrectly I might add) the gay-to-TV connection. While she certainly knows that I'm not gay, at this point it might ruin an otherwise symbiotic relationship (and I use that term loosely as she and I are *both* more-or-less commitment-phobic).
When she and I met, my leg *and* chest hair were both very short (about 2-3 weeks growth) and she did notice them and asked if I shaved them. Rather than foul things up, I just said no, rather than 'fess up. Since then, she has indicated on several occasions that she likes hairy chests/legs on men.
Not sure what to make of that.
I'll step down from my :sb: now.
Dude, girlfriend, put it out there!
I would have bee happier up till now if I had put this in the tale from the get go. Somehow, some of my girlfriends seemed to know or suspect, even though I usualy look totaly macho. But I only came out to my wife. Bad timming though. She still married me though. But it didn't last. Go figure. I feel that your significant other needs to be comfortable with all of you.