Would you like to wear my bra?/Update
I am a new member and have been reading avidly all the posts. I have several stories to tell and will tell them over time. However, I have a very new one.
A bit of background first. I was a very active CD in my 20s - dressing 3 or 4 times per week, living alone, buying all my clothes mail order including wigs, make up shoes, etc.. I was a member of the Beaumont Society in England and went to a couple of meetings. At the stage in my life when Tina was getting very active I met my then wife to be. She is Australian and we fell in love and decided to get married and live in Melbourne, Australia. To this day she knows nothing of Tina - I think.
Tina disappeared for a period of time when I arrived Down Under but when I had a job when I traveled a lot she came back and Tina was active on each of my trips - more stories to follow.
However, recently, my wife and I have had a resurgence in our love life and we are now more active than ever. A couple of weeks ago she had a very sexy lace bra on and I commente don how sexy it was. She asked if I would lke to try it on. I was so shocked that I didn't know what to say and glossed over the whole thing. We were making love in the afternoon yesterday whilst the kids were out and she again had the very nice lacey bra on. I again
commented how sexy it was and again she asked if I wanted to try it on. I was more prepared this time and rather than shout out "YES" I was more coy and said " do you want me to?". She didn't reply and we went on doing what we were doing.
What should I do now? Do I raise it with her again? Do I come out and say "Hey, how about I try on your bra as you suggested" or do I say nothing. Or do I wait for the next time she is wearing it in similar circumstanes and be ready to pounce with " Yeah, lets give it a go". I have large breasts - so large that I can't go out without a shirt on so the bra would fit me very well. I think that she will be OK with mw being a transvestite but after an earlier time with a girlfriend who I told and she immediately told me to go away I am reluctant to just come out nd tell my wife. I really believe that once Tina is out in the open my wife will be very supportive but.....
We are going away for a weekend in June without the kids and this would be the perfect time for Tina to make a big appearance but I am so hesitant.
I know this typr of thing has been covered many time before but it is her asking if I would like to wear her bra that has me intrigued. Does she really know about Tina after all?
Any comments from you wise girls?
Would You Like to Wear my Bra?
Tina,
the fact that she has on 2 occasions asked this question may mean she has an "unconfirmed" suspicion about your crossdressing and this was a verification on her part. Tread carefully on your getaway weekend but this seems like an ideal time to reveal "Tina" but only if the situation calls for it. good luck. Sally2
Thanks for the imput - update
Wow. What a great response. Thanks for all your comments and advice. Its so supportive and I really feel that I have a lot of supportive understanding friends.
My wife is wearing my favourite bra again tonight. We had a cuddle in the kitchen tonight before she had to take our daughter to basketball. She asked why I was obsessed with her bra and I told her it was beautiful. I also asked her why she asked me a few days ago if I would like to try it on - I had to ask her a couple of times and she told me that she didn't know wy she asked it. We continued to kiss and cudle and I told her that we would dance in bed later when she got back.
I feel that I have now broken the ice by asking her the question and feel that I can take it a bit further later. I feel that I am on the edge of something really big and just about to jump off the edge. She has shown no signs of being against it.
I'm sorry if it appears to be taking along time, and a bit like a soap opers but as some of you girls said - I know her pretty well (20 years marriage) - and need to be patient to work through it. However much I would love to just tell her outright and get on with it.
I'll keep you posted.
LOL, Tina
maybe both of you are circling the issue?
Hi Tina,
I've read all the posts and agree that there is something here. My added thought is that there is something on both sides. Only you can know your wife well enough to answer if she may also have some desires that she is concerned to reveal to you. After all, if she shows an interest and you explain that you have been interested on an off over the years (is that a valid statement?) then the two of you would have a wonderful platform from which to explore together.
Best of luck!
Another Tina!