Originally Posted by
ReineD
Thanks again for all your replies!
Several of you have said that your desire to be sexy comes from your male libido ... the male part of yourselves that is attracted to beautiful women. So you're really dressing to appeal to yourselves sexually? This is what is so confusing to me and I gather to a lot of GGs. Most of us don't dress to appeal sexually to ourselves. When we dress as attractively or sexily (is this a word?) as possible, it is to appeal to the object of our love interests which is generally a man (for hetero GGs). We do like to look nice for ourselves but that's just good grooming, which is an entirely different look than an attempt to look as sexually enticing or as hot as possible.
So because we do try to entice men when we dress in a certain way (as opposed to trying to entice ourselves), we do frequently wonder if you dress or want to look enticing for the same reasons that we do. This is why so many wives wonder if their husbands dress for other men.-----------------