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Sometimes I think of this place as a boys’ clubhouse, with an imaginary “no girls allowed” sign on the door. It isn’t exclusionist, of course, so GG’s wander into this No Man’s Land to complain about what we do from time to time. You know, “my boyfriend insists on crossdressing – please help me understand what’s going on,” or “I didn’t want this,” or “what’s wrong with you people, anyway, and can we get help for the afflicted?” Some GG’s even go so far as crashing the party, or pouring water on the glowing fire, or, in extreme cases, debunking cherished ideals right out in the open. What’s a boy/girl to do? I’d like to feel GOOD about my crossdressing, please...
I think you are being unfair with the GGs postings you are describing.
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Read: "My Husband Betty: Love, Life, and Sex with a Crossdresser" by Helen Boyd
It is written by a very open-minded "GG" woman who is married to a Crossdresser and does an excellent job explaining some issues that many SO's might have with their Crossdressing husbands. Most women don't "have a problem" with CD'ers, though they might have a problem with how their husband or SO tells them, or how their husband or SO acts, or something like that. If women have a problem, its usually with the lying or sneakiness or obsessive behavior that some crossdressers exhibit, i.e. it's all he wants to do.
Crossdressing is rarely the sole issue in any relationship, if it is an issue at all.