Are you happier when enfemme?
Do you feel happier when dressed enfemme? Do you need to be totally dressed to feel this way or do you only to wear a certain peice of clothing?
For me I do feel happier when I get to dress. I don't need to be fully dressed either, for me I do need to wear a bra and panties minimum to feel this way. Just something that stuck in my little brain today... LOL:p
En femme/or not en femme?
It has taken me years to realise that when I don the whole regalia that I am more comfortable in this mode. Closer to my true self, if you will. I recognise that for some of you that it's a sexual/sensual fetish. To me, however, it is no such thing. I am a true transgendered being. I will not try to deliniate what you are going through at this particular phase in your developement as a girl. But when you have come full circle you may realise that there is much more to it than a play that you are acting out in your mind.To think and act as a GIRL takes much more. The married men have to live in a closet. The rest chalk up their timidity to nothing more than peer group pressure. I..,on the other hand live as a woman almost all the time. And I live in a small town where everyone knows who I am. I have taken some bold steps at what I percieved as "risky behavior." Only to find out that I was being accepted for who I was. They admire my forthrightness and compliment me. I really can say with all honesty that I have never had a bad experience here. But I daresay that when you act in an insincere manner you may reap what you don't want to sow. . Love & kisses,