When your fem fantasies don't match your reality, what do u do?
I have my own issues rite now. But, they're small potatoes compared to the past difficulties I experienced. And, which some of u have suffered thru:doh:
For many years I struggled with fantasies of having real breasts and thots of becoming a female. But, I believed I was too old. Plus, I had children, family, and friends that would have made it too overwhelming for me to act on my "fantasies". 6 years ago those fantasies disappeared and I came to the conclusion I am "just" a CD. What worked for me is not likely to help other trans, tho. I began wearing a female suit!:eek:
I'm wondering what u do when your fem fantasies run head long into your reality? R u currently struggling with this issue?:sad:
Maybe you've successfully moved on, as I have, or your fantasies r now your reality? In which cases your experiences MAY help others here.:thumbsup:
Fantasy Desires vs my Reality True Self
I have a vivid imagination and I do fantasize what it might be like to be a GG woman, bare and raise a child, to have a family and be attracted to a man. I have dreamed of one morning waking up in a GG female body and never wanting to go back.
But none of these experiences I will ever know. And that can be a let down. But if I were that fantasy woman, would I know what is is like to be a man and have a male body. Would I remember feeling masculine? Why do I have to choose, or should I have to choose?
And yet in reality I've been given something far different, a gift that few get to experience. I feel in my mind what it is like to be feminine with a body that is masculine.
It's inconceivable to some who can't seem to wrap their minds away from only two choices for gender. And yet history shows us that those like myself have been around. This is why I love these exciting times. We are learning to be respectful of differences and not fear the unknown.
So while I may not be who I imagined I am in reality someone who feels both sides. That I do not have to choose and can be happy being my true self.