Do Women actually like Men who Cross-Dress

The answer is yes.

There are plenty of women who would like a fun guy who cross-dresses and is totally cool about it. There just aren't very many who want a closet case who acts like an ass, when he's not acting like a dandy.

If you enjoy cross-dressing then get out there and enjoy it. Don't meet a woman as your drab self (the one you hate to be remember?) and then HOPE she still likes you when you introduce her to 'Nancy'. Be proud of who you are, and you will find somebody who is attracted to who you are.

so cool! that is what mos of us hope for.

The simple answer is YES......

However, one of the main ingredients is that you are not a narcissistic Jerk. I know it sounds harsh but, if you are so wrapped up in your own needs and wants ...you won't find a successful relationship.

Being honest about yourself and what you want is another. You don't have to tell immediately but it should be before things get really serious.

Most women really want a man that is considerate of her needs too, that is honest, loving and somewhat adventurous. Not the typical BAD boy. I myself prefer a NICE guy that is typically geeky.

I totally love my CDing SO he is sooo amaazing. He is an amazing person who just so happens to CD. Being a good person is what gets you in the door. Being honest and considerate keeps you there.

If you want a GG that is accepting w CDing you would want to be fishing in the right pond. Don't go looking for an accepting mate in an ultra-strict religious environment. Pardon my expression but if you seek a woman in a bible thumping heavily religious environment.... chances are you won't find her. :sad:

Try searching in places where women are hairdressers, fashion, medical or artsy type environments or on the fringes of the LGBT community. These women are familiar with most everything...they have seen and heard most everything...not much shocks them. Plenty of Fish website is a meat market most people who go there are looking for fun on the run. If you get my drift.

I am totally supportive of my SO's CDing ...I even buy him all kinds of goodies (heels, bras, panties, nails, hose, garter belts, corsets, even a wig) I really enjoy when he dresses and we even have role play. The main thing is he is a really great person. We connect not only on an emotional level but also an intellectual level. We are 2 halves of the same whole.

In other words it is essential that the relationship part has to work before you throw into the mix of CDing. I found out that my SO CDs after we were together for a while. I kinda had a feeling that something was up then I talked to him about it and kinda shoved him out of the closet. I am happy for him because he can accept all of who he is. He is no longer in pain for not accepting that part of him.

Hopefully this was not to long winded or harsh ...if it was I am sorry ...hopefully I haven't bruised anyone’s feelings just trying to be helpful and honest.:hugs:

Lady Panda, your SO is a very lucky soul. :)

short answer is yes. There are GGs who enjoy CDing SOs. Mine is in that catagory. She enjoys and encourages me (not that i need much encouragement) to dress all the time. She is also bi (as am i) so our relationship is a pseudo lesbian one and that works well for both of us. We met when I was dressed so it wasnt something i sprung on her after we'd been together a while. She's also younger than me by a few years. I agree with Panda, if you are looking for a relationship with an understanding GG, dont go looking in conservative circles as you are unlikely to find one (although we might all be surprised). Also, i think you owe it to her to out yourself to her as soon as you deem it "safe". Again doing it after you've become intimate and then finding out that she doesnt like it/support it will only lead to heartache.

i am on a dating site where you can answer 100s of questions to complement your profile.guess what?i was going thru the list the other day and there it was:what do you think about male crossdressers.3 choices for answers you like them-you might tolerate them-no way!i wish there was a search feature to find the right ones!

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Originally Posted by Flent

Well, as a gg who loves crossdressers and is not in a relationship with one, I can definitely say we’re out there. But even if I’d be thrilled if I met a perfect guy who turned out to be a crossdresser, I wouldn’t seek them out in particular. There are many other things that are more important to me in a relationship. I would never mention my interest unless it came up somehow, which it almost never does. So you really never know, maybe more women are interested than you'd think, though I imagine it's still a minority.

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Hi Flent, your response is quite interesting to me, is great to see that out there are ladies who like the idea of a guy crossdressing from time to time, but I would love to know why is the reason why you will never mention the idea of crossdressing to a guy you are with? thanks :)

A lot of great responses and perspectives. There are no absolutes, many variables, different ranges of CD acceptance. Another part of this discussion, however, relates to the CDing behavior that we are asking a woman to like. MTF CDers on this site describe a broad range of range of CDing activities - from periodic pantyhose wearing to 24/7 100% feminine appearance/breasts/electrolysis/hair/fingernails/etc. How can a woman respond that she likes CDers when the range of activities or descriptions of CDing are so broad? Open-minded, adventurous, confident women might look for a kinky partner or someone into fetish wear or someone who appears to have softer, feminine dispositions, etc. Some women will like a man who is a CDer simply because they love their partner and want them to be happy. But if I really think about this question, if I were a woman and asked if I liked men who CDed, I don't think I could give an unqualified answer. Maybe a "maybe". All in all, a fun question and good comments. Thanks.

I started to express my CDing with an ex from 5 years ago. We had been together a couple of years at this point. There was never any real discussion between us. I simply slid into panties and a tight top during foreplay one evening. She was fully into the fact it created dynamic encounters for both of us. To ask her bluntly "Do you like men who CD?" her answer would be no. If the relationship is strong it will be a non-issue. My current girl has not yet been introduced. Of my 3 long-term relationships, only 1 touched the surface. It was wonderful for both of us. Pleasure and happiness.