I have enough money, so no. Besides, I didn't start dressing because of money and I would not stop because of it. I do it because it completes me.
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I have enough money, so no. Besides, I didn't start dressing because of money and I would not stop because of it. I do it because it completes me.
I wouldn't do it. I finally started to accept crossdressing as a part of me so I would'n't give up a part of me for money. Plus the urge to dress will always be there and I would definitely give in to it.
You can impolitely disagree as well if you want I dont mind :)
I guess it depends how much a part of you CDing is, why you do it and what else you would do with the time and money.
For me: I'd take the offer, resign at work immediately, move country and get involved with things I dont have the time for now. Plus to keep the mind active maybe start a small business and do some postgrad courses at University.
i'd probably think about if for a few hours, but I couldn't trust myself to go through with it.
hugs,
Trish
I dont know what id do. Im trying to imagine the duffell bags full of money, and my wife and kids. That kind of money is a game changer.
Id take the money, but would likely fail. It would gnaw at me not being able to dress. Id be busy but the urge would peck at me.. a death by a thousand pin pricks.
I appreciate the question because it makes you realize how much CDing is a part of you. To sacrifice 10 million to keep doing it is telling.
Edit: im trying to frame a similar idea for GGs. Would it be you can only wear male clothing for the rest of your life? No makeup, no lotion, no nothing?
Broke and happy is always better than rich and miserable. I could not stop even for that amount of money.
why must we pose these hypotheticals. Is there even a remote possibility that some reclusive billionaire might offer $10 million to test the resolve of a dedicated CDr. No.
Why not ask the real questions instead. Do you want to quit? Have you tried and failed? Have you been asked to quit? Have you been forced to quit? How did it make you feel?
1st if I can just answer yes to the hypothetical question, and in fact would take considerably less in fact if it was offered. Kimd, you do offer up good thought here, because it really is more about quitting, wanting to or not. having tried or not. These hypotheticals are a way I think of throwing something out there that would be a motive we otherwise do not have. Would it truly be successful if such an absurd thing was offered?
It has happened numerous times here and other boards I am sure where CDers made promises to wives and GF's that they would stop, and likely fully well meant it when they made the promise, but then later broke it, and in doing so ended up with a relationship or marriage that was also broken because of the broken promise.
Even with hypothetical, how would they know I stopped for life?
I'm probably one of the lucky few that knows how to combat the desire to crossdress by finding physical affection from women (not sex; affection; most don't understand the difference. Basically, you can give yourself an orgasm, but you can't give yourself a hug). However, without a partner, I have to 'buy' it; that means cuddling up with lap dancers, prostitutes or call girls, and that gets way expensive. So yeah, I could manage it for 10 million.
Hi Mikell, It just isn't going to work, This is just like the Mafia, You just can't QUIT!:daydreaming:
I recently turned close to 60, and I would definitely give up cd'ing for ten million. I have enough money to retire comfortably, so it wouldn't be my own comfort I'd be thinking about, it would be the fact that I could take that ten million, invest it, and turn it into enough money for my children and grandchildren to be able to survive in what is, increasingly, a more competitive and cut-throat world than the one in which I grew up. In my opinion computers, trade agreements, unchecked world population, global climate change, and worldwide muslim jihadism are going to make the 21st century a place where the middle class disappears, and being part of the working class is not going to be much fun.
What's the point of having $10 million if you can't spend it on skirts, dresses, high heels, ... ???
No. Money cannot make me change the fact that I have brown hair, my build, my preference for a brunette over blond, salt over sugar, T-bone over pasta. Give me the cash to do something, fine, but alter who I am, I'd have to say "No." You are wasting your money. So, I would not could not in a box, could not would not with a fox. This time you cannot sell green eggs and ham, this time you cannot sell then Sam-I-Am.
Way too hypothetical for me.
I would have stopped for free if my SO had asked me to.
She was the center of my life.
Easy. No problem. As a pleasure dresser, I can crossdress in my mind, and do it all the time.
Now I turn the question around. Imagine our wives coming home and saying "I was approached with an offer to never dress as a woman again in exchange for 10 million dollars. Of course I turned it down because sometimes I like to get pretty and feel feminine." Our collective jaws would drop over our wives turning down such a huge amount of money over gender-specific clothing. (for some wives, accepting the challenge wouldn't require any wardrobe changes. haha)
The sillier the hypothetical, the less likely to get straight answers.
Not enough money. And if I tried I'd end up spending it on dresses and shoes.
No way, money can't buy happiness. I have plenty of money and am only truly happy when I can spend time with my kids, grandkids, wife and myself especially when I'm Sandra Michelle.