Need to take Reading Comp. 101 again!
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Originally Posted by
patti1569
No, I did tell her before we married. I think some people are missing that point. I told her that I was a crossdresser since childhood and that it just didn't have a place in my life at that time. And at that time it didn't. But obviously that has changed.
Thanks Molly! I know it's
Difficult to keep that desire a secret.
I apologize, Patti for not comprehending your original question.
But, I can offer some unsolicited advice: Keeping secrets WILL destroy a Marriage. It does not matter how many lovers one has had in the past or stupid things we did we were young, etc.
The PAST is gone, and we cannot re-live the past.
http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/past “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God [Adoni Elohim] which is why we call it the present.” ― Bil Keane
I am referring about things that WILL affect your Marriage that you're hiding from your Precious Wife NOW. If you don't tell her now, she will lose ALL TRUST in you.
Please do the RIGHT thing, and this huge weight (it's called GUILT) will be lifted off of you, I Promise.