Originally Posted by
Jenniferathome
OK, now if you were to give them the benefit of the doubt, maybe they are just trying to help you. Not everyone even understands cross dressers. It COULD be that this site has a simple black and white rule: simple portrait of the genetic person who registered. On a similar note, unless you are a full time cross dresser, it is better to offer that aspect of yourself after meeting someone, not as the first thing a prospective partner sees.
Do you want a partner who wants you because you're a cross dresser? Or, do you want a partner who wants YOU AND can accept that you are a cross dresser?