I've tried this tucking technique a handful of times and it hurts my testes :(. I found just pulling it all back works best for me.
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I've tried this tucking technique a handful of times and it hurts my testes :(. I found just pulling it all back works best for me.
Hi: For me the best way of tucking so it doesn't hurt. Is to shave well around testicles so no hair will pull and hurt the area.
Then after I push the testicles up to my abdomen, I use (here is the real trick) a self adherent catheter, is like a condom with some glue so it stick to the thing.
I pull the catheter between my cheeks, and it holds up pretty good. Some time I use some 3M surgical tale to tape around the scrotum so testicles stay up; that is the area that should be well shaved.
That way works for me and it feels very confortable.
The convenience of it is that you can go to the bathroom with no problem, and afterwards pull back the catheter. Everything will stay in its place.
Very interesting. I may try that.
I also have trouble tucking. I.... well... eh hem..... kind of have big testies and well... it hurts to have them in my abdomen. Lol
Texas catheter, I have been tucking using them for a long time. If you tape yourself back with one of those on you can actually sit and tinkle without having to remove the tuck.
New to this, and going to have to practice with it, because I found I still have a noticeable protrusion even whilst tucked. :(
I just pull it up vertical in my panties. its only about 2" soft so it its well hidden. Its too small to pull down.
For me, the boys are quite big, but they easily go into their pockets without pain. Once up, hold them in place and pull everything else back with snug panties. Everything stays as they are supposed to for quite some time.
okay i must be missing something, like the zeroth step of tucking ... exactly how and where am u supposed to find somewhere inside my pelvic area to pop my testicles into?
is this above or below the pelvic bone? how deep do they have to go?
I've had pinched testes before now, which is very painful. I also dont have space between my legs for hanging really, so is there some "squash it all against the front pubic area" approach?
I'm a complete virgin to this, so please bear with me and graphically explain the detail of "inserting a teste into a pocket" and what/where a pocket is!!
thanks
Hi Pamela7:
When boys are born, testicles are allocated there in the pelvic area, and they come down to the scrotum.
If you put your hands on both sides of your penis, in the groin area, a little below your abdomen, that's where they should go when you push them up.
It is easier if you grab an ice pack and hold it on your testicles for few minutes, when the testicles are totally shrunken it would be easy to do.
You have to gently hold the scrotum and push the testicles up until you find the cavity.
The first times will be a bit weird, but the cavity is there I promised you. It should not be painful, otherwise you are doing something wrong.
It is better if you shave around the area, just in case you want to put some tape around the scrotum, to hold them in place, once they are held, then you can pull the penis back and hold it with your panties, or use some tape, or an external catheter.
After some practice it should be confortable, and it should hold for some hours.
I am not an expert, but I describe it as I have learned, just in case I had used wrong terms or indications.
Paola.
Thanks Paola, I'll explore :-)))
I have had good luck with tucking my penis back and taping my scrotum over the base. It holds the twins up and almost resembles a vagina from the front. Tight panties and/or a high waisted shaper also work well if I don't want to get that involved.
Here is a trick I learned. Grab the skin at the lowest part of the scrotum allowing the testicles to slide out of the way. Gradually grab more and more skin until you cant easily grab any more. The testicles will automatically go where they should, then just a little pressure on them will pop them into the cavity. If you feel any pain, then stop. This should be entirely painless. YMMV
I've tried tucking up into the cavity area and taping. I haven't been too successful and feel comfortable. I've purchased a pair enhancing hip and butt shapewear that fits snuggle. When I pull everything back it appears to be smooth and natural.
I can't do the whole pushing your testicles up inside you thing. I dunno, I gess I have very sensitive boys and it's just so uncomfortable. So what I'll do it push eveything down and back, tape it back, a lot. Lol. I basically use tape, a gaffe and a couple pair of tight panties to push eerything down and back to create a smooth area. My butt pad panties help as well.
Hi All: I just discovered a great clothing store called UNIQLO, that has great body shapers.
I got the short one for bottom and the one with a waist shaper too, both are great and it seems that would work great for "TUCKING" without any taping.
I am so excited to try it in my next outing all dressed up.
Check it out and let me know what you think, it could be purchased on line too, since there are not many stores yet in the states.
Hugs,
Paola.
Wow, I have no problem tucking everything back inside, as long as I'm not aroused, everything works just fine, I use to pull down and push back, but sitting on that thing was painful. Tape pulled, and I'm funny about shaving that area, sorry if I'm to graphic, but geesh...it is the art of tucking, and it was very hard at first and hurt a lot, but what is it they say. The body can get use to anything with time.
Hi, I have a question thou, cause I am having some trouble with the tucking. See for one I am not big, its a small guy but to top it off I also only have one ball (born with just one) so like when I have tried tucking one side bugles out more, would a gaff be better for me?
For me Mr. Woody in flaccid state is rather small so I don't have any problem tucking him back inside and his twin brothers along side. I pull the scrotal sack up and place a thin, wide bladdr leak pad over everything. I hold it in place with a cotton thong and small elastic panties.
I like this method way better both for comfort and because I don't like pulling my junk back towards my anus.
It's comfortable and easy to release to take a pee.
I have one method to prevent the long tape in the T from sticking to itself
It is frustrating when you have to remove and redo your T again and again... this method saves your T a lot of times!
Cut a short piece of tape (yes another one), just long enough to warp it flat around the long T 1,5 or 2 times.
You will get a flat square in the middle of your long tape.
I put that square so it will end past the narrow part of my legs and a little before the part that will stick to my back.
Even if you mess your tape between your legs, that self sticking mess will stop at the square. And the end of your T is safe and flat.
Your T is saved where it matters
Hope it helps.
This may be slightly off base, but I found some very nice things to tuck and conceal at koala swim wear. Until I could work up the nerve to order the gender bias one, I simply bought some cotton thongs that were about 2 sizes too small. I turn them around backward and wear them that way. It pushes my stick inside and gives my testes a realistic femme appearance.
I'm with Lexi, I find it less painful and more comfortable to do the vertical method instead of the tuck :), I mostly just do the side method ;), gues it pays off to be small sometimes :p. I did the tuck once and after a few hours I started feeling sick :(. Best works if you get panties a size or two smaller it makes the bulge less noticeable ^_^.
My understanding is that males generally have a smaller gap in the pelvic bone than females so once the testes have dropped at puberty, they wont readily go back where they came from. However, in some cases, the gap is of more female proportions - there's no such thing as a standard human being! - and those CDs who are fortunate enough to have this physical attribute can easily tuck them back in. For the rest of us though, it's a matter of disguising them and I've found that by pushing the penis back between the testes, it creates a mound that is not too unlike a vulva and can be maintained all evening without discomfort. In reality, no-one else will notice if the clothes you wear aren't skin tight.
Ok. Now I've listened to 59 pages of tucking instructions. Some were informative. Some (ouch!) no so. But keep this in mind. The older the crossdresser the more he has to pee. And although some of these methods require arduous taping, pulling,
(both vertical and horizontal) scrunching, and flattening out, my tried and true method (the one I tried when I first started dressing) was to simply use a pad and a firm panty girdle. Or a pad, cut to size, and a pair of control top panty hose.
This way when the urge to go strikes you out of nowhere, extraction can be simple and much less gruesome .....dana
Tucking was one thing I don't miss. Over the years I must have tried a half dozen methods and then landed on a method that worked great which was doing the conventional tuck while standing up with my legs closed enough to hold things in position then pull up a pair of Spanx boy shorts which I could do in less than one minute but in the beginning it was more like a minute. There were times when things when it proved difficult especially in the hot summer months. I think there is no one technique that will work for everyone so one needs to experiment to see what works for them.