Where do I find someone who will accept me?
Until recently I was dating a girl that had no issues with my desires to cross dress (very mild - heels at home, panties out and about, toes painted, shaved lefs).
Well, now that is over. So how do I find someone who is already accepting of my traits?
Is there a club? Do they hang out in certain places.
I consider myself a masculine man with some feminine desires. I keep a beard so I won't be dressing up and going out. But I love having my toes painted (I do wear sandals out), I wear women's underwear (they are pretty damn comfy). I've tried waxing and shaving my legs but have had horrible experiences with ingrown hairs.
I also consider myself bicurious. My past girlfriend and I did some role playing and it was pretty damn hot.
I want to be upfront about these parts of me, but I see a sea of rejection in my future.
Thanks in advance for any and all advice.
~Juliet
Acce[tance in a relationship
[SIZE=4]When I made my transition, I figured (wrong or not) that I would not be very likely any more to find a woman that wanted me. I did find one, but she wants me only as a man, and that I am not even with a wrong body.
So I decided that the most likely partner would be another tgirl. Serendipitously it happened, meeting her at the first tg group meeting I attended, and it developed over 2 months until she asked if she could come home with me. We have been together ever since.
Relationships I think are one of the more difficult things in this life. There are so many that start out great and then end in explosions. And when you are unattached and looking it is harder, and hardest for either CD's or TS's.
If you were a gay man that liked to crossdress I would think (don't know!) that gay bars would be a good place to look.
But maybe some gay men hate crossdressers, like some of them hate mtf's, and even ftm's.
Hypothetically I would think that an ftm-mtf pairing would work out wonderfully. There is one ftm I could be in love with if we both weren't taken.[/SIZE]