What would you ask your Wife/So to do to be more supportive
My question of the week is this and pertains more to those who's Wife/SO at least tolerate if not accept their CDing
What would you ask of your SO in order to better support your need to CD? For me I would ask for complete acceptance and support. Acceptance meaning that she would want to see me dressed and encourage it. Support would entail helping with makeup, paint my toes, choosing out clothing (perhaps maybe even buy something for me/both of us since we wear the same size in everything but shoes), but most of all HELP ME CHOOSE A BETTER LOOKING WIG.:)
I shouldn't complain though, she does give me Tabby time when I want or need it, problem is I have to drive to our cabin to get it. In fact Im here now and had yesterday and today to do as I wish (took lots of photos last night). Lucky me!!!! :heehee: She also tolerates my underdressing and lingerie in bed which at least allows me to have some girly time at home. What about you?
Let me re-phrase this question
What do you wish your Wife/SO would do to be more supportive?
I just got seriously scolded in a PM over this thread and feel the need to re-phrase this into the context in which it was meant. As we all know, our partners didn't wish for our little secret and there is a full spectrum of tolerence and acceptance from none to complete. In a perfect world (which doesn't exist) what would you wish for from them concerning CDing? I am so lucky that she tolerates what I do and know good and well that many of you don't have that. But, I also know the bounderies and stick to them and try to keep balance within our lives. i think most of us know this is hard on our partners and that some of them feel we take it too far.
We are who we are and I think most of us just want to express ourselves in a kind, loving and supportive environment (whether here, home or elsewhere). For those of you reading this, please be careful not to scold others for their expressions or opinions, its not healthy.
Hugs,
Tabby