SO yingyang and probably not to say at a wedding
My friend is getting married and I'm trying to pull some history together for a short speech. Years ago my friend and I dressed up on halloween (he is not a CDer...as far as I know). At my wedding, we had a photo album and someone stuck a photo of me dressed inside. I was embarrased and removed the photo asap, but some friends saw it and said it was cool. So no damage in the end, but it really made me mad inside because I felt disrespected and it burst my wedding day bubble a bit. Anyways, now I'm more experienced and have accepted that part of me although still not really out with it.
So I'm asking my wife what to say at me friends wedding and she says how about you tell that he dressed up as a woman?...I said no, I don't think that's really wedding stuff to say (my view is the wedding is a time to be positive and respectful to everyone) (maybe at the stag though?)...but she kept repeating it...so now I'm not sure what she thinks of CDing....is it just a joke to her? One reason I never really told her all about it...so she goes from saying things like it is okay if I like it, but then joking about it...hmmmm go figure. Well, she may be in for a shock this fall when I go all out!...(I've have decided to open up a bit, but...I hope I'm not in for a rough ride).