bearded dude in a dress, not a crossdresser ??? .....dang rant....
this was directed to crossdressing....so im addressing it as one....i didnt get a handbook when i joined and didnt know i was doing it wrong.
just read a thread and found a comment that if you sport a beard you are not a crossdresser "just a dude in a dress"?? but i grew a beard this summer and have dressed a few times and posted some new avatars and shoe selfies, but according to this post im "just a dude in a dress."
now im not a seasoned veteran here but i have felt comfortable in my time here since ive joined, this statement did not make sense to me, kinda offended me....
padding, wigs, painted nails, clothes, and shoes the full compliment, we are still just dudes. i dont have all that.
does the amount of preparation change what we are, does our monetary capabilities to commit or invest in our dressing change who we are.
i dont think it does, i have been told i would pass, i doubt i would but have felt confident of my accomplishments on some occasions, others not so much but i felt comfortable feeling like me and after years of being judged by society i felt comfortable here, so why would we judge each other.
is it from being here so often and honing our skills that we feel superior to others, unrestricted resources to attain the finer things to use and perfect our look make you better at being a crossdresser? i dont think it does.
i remember seeing a post here about a crossdressing singer on a talent show, she had a full beard and i was jealous of her make up... and her voice was beautiful....
why cant we all support each other.....can we do a refresh....
The Only Rule Is There Are No Rules !
Hi Mikell, RE: Facial Hair,I checked my copy of the Crossdressers Handbook and it says,
" If It Feels Good Then Do It."
Meanwhile I'm trying to get rid of all facial hair.:daydreaming: