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I don't think I've ever actually enjoyed being male. Even at my age (60+) referring to myself as a man feels awkward for reason, a poor fit. Being male is, for me, simply a physical fact, not...

This is very interesting. I do not like being male, but I have tried to be a good person and a good husband. I don't know that those have much to do with being a man, as opposed to a woman, that is....

It has been a completely positive experience for me. A good therapist will not judge, will help you understand things better. There is no reason to feel anxious.

Michaella

Only took about 40 years or so. Been thinking about it for about the last 5 years. Still no resolution.

Michaella

Not to bars, no, as I never go to bars. But restaurants, yes, and museums, and theatres, and cinemas, and concert halls, and music clubs, and opera houses, and museums. This is what I do normally,...

It may. It has quite a range of stories, of wives who are appalled by cross-dressing, to those who have embraced it. I think what it will tell her is that she is not the only one with concerns and...

I love that feeling!

Michaella

I would have tried going out in public a lot sooner, and I would have been more open with more people about it.

Michaella

Yes, many times now, which sort of surprises me, as I never expected to do that. I did it the first time just to say at least I did it once in my life. But I enjoyed it very much and have looked for...

I have too many guitars and not nearly enough talent or skill. I also have too many dresses, and not nearly the opportunities to wear them. I think my lack of self-control and my excessive...

I agree; being dressed femme is a chance to wear a skirt. But I might make an exception for a jumpsuit with a feminine cut.

Michaella

I've been to museums a number of times presenting fully as female and it has never been a problem. I like to be able to do things I would do when I'm in male mode and this is one of them. Also , you...

For you Freddy, yes. I find your posts thought-provoking, passionate, at times troubling, often thrilling. Where shall I send it?

Michaella

I'm 61 now, maybe over a half-century of cross-dressing. If anything, the desire is now stronger.

Michaella

I never feel female. I don't know what feeling female would be like. I don't think I even know what feeling male is like; I only know what I feel like. Rather, I feel feminine, in the sense of...

This is utterly disgusting. "Provoking a reaction?" I would contact a lawyer, so you know your rights in advance.

Michaella

Thank you for the support and encouragement everyone. Much to think about.

Michaella

Last week was a strange week for this crossdresser, with highs and lows. I am always very careful about going out dressed femme, and I had not had any problems. Oh, sometimes I could see people...

Also wearing a wig just makes me feel like I am faking who I really am.[/QUOTE]

I feel the same way. I wish it weren't necessary to deceive and I could just be who I am.

Michaella

For many years I have had very long hair, pretty close to my waist. But over time it has thinned and some male pattern baldness has started, so I really don't look very feminine with it. So, I wear...

That sounds great! If I were in the area, and if I could actually play worth a damn, I'd want to join.

Michaella

I've had it happen, and it felt pretty good.

Your husband is in a great situation!

Michaella

I think the idea is he wants to present as man who likes to wear a beard and a dress. I've done it myself and very much like it. I only wish it were more accepted.

Michaella

Of course, so long as one is simply being oneself and not trying to pass as a woman. It may look odd at first, but part of that is that we are not used to it, and we of all people should be accepting...

Don't fell you have to do anything, certainly not anything that makes you uncomfortable. Going out may be something you will feel the need to do eventually, or not, but I think your idea that you...