It's good to know your wife has some level of understanding for you. Some in this forum have SOs that are so adamantly, viscerally against their man wearing a dress that they will literally destroy...
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It's good to know your wife has some level of understanding for you. Some in this forum have SOs that are so adamantly, viscerally against their man wearing a dress that they will literally destroy...
Good for you. I doubt anyone gives you a second thought when you are dressed like that in public. It's how I normally dress as well. In fact, I have made a promise to myself that I would never again...
In short, I go pretty much everywhere in a dress or skirt and heels. Like you, I make no effort to pass as a woman or otherwise fool people about who I am. I feel that if I did try to pass, I would...
Your wife is a gem among gems. Do everything you can to keep her happy. I think it will pay off in her appreciating even more your femininity
Wonderful story. Isn't it great that you can share the same sense of humor. Not to mention the same dress size!
No need to feel like a misfit if you're not out in public in a dress. You are who you are, and should never feel bad about ANY of your clothing choices. But, like many here, you are also probably in...
Why should it matter where anyonee fits into yet another binary? In the act of putting on our first skirt, we destroyed the original binary. Why do we need to repackage ourselves?
I'm a fan of...
A HUGE congratulations! FIrstly, to you for bringing your secret to light. It's a super hard thing to do and you crushed it. Secondly, to your wife for being so amazing as she got the news. Most...
I believe we ARE transgender. But it doesn't work like a binary, either/or, full on/full off light switch. Gender works more like a dimmer switch with a whole spectrum of possibilities between zero...
Your last line says it all. Act like you belong. With just that, you can rock any presentation you choose. You may encounter men whose facial expression says "WTF?". Ignore them. They don't matter....
My confidence was built massively just by the way people react to me when I walk into a dress shop, try things on and purchase them. Every single time, I was treated exactly the same way that every...
It sure has made a difference for me. The first thing we all been to understand is that we are not alone. That in itself gives hope and courage. There is much value in learning about how others...
I completely understand your point and that it is the reality for many CDers. I have lived a version of that myself. She never actually forbade me from dressing or issued any ultimatums because she's...
You have a super interesting relationship with your wife, the kind that has the potential for you to expand your CD activities. You appear to her to be really tentative about your dressing and she...
I go out regularly dressed as a Man In A Dress. In my particular case, trying to pass as a woman would be a massive FAIL. I feel this is a more honest way for me to live, and many female...
Congratulations!! This is the kind of story I love to hear about. I hope this is only the first of a lifetime of adventures out of the closet. The first thing to remember is that the supportiveness...
Isn't that great? And every boost you get like that makes you feel even more confident and wanting to take it a bit further. Theres no stopping you now.
Your experience is much the same as mine. I have never received any negative feedback while dressed in public. Allow me to repeat:
No.
Negative.
Feedback
Early on, I realized I had a choice in my...
If your dressing were to disappear your relationship would change for the worse? Wow, and by that I mean WOW!!! I can't think of a more unexpected exchange. Congratulations, you've clearly done a lot...
Nice story. Thanks for sharing. I really like your picture, too. Very presentable and perfectly appropriate for a lunch and shopping date with a girlfriend. It's so nice to have a sister with whom ...
Thank you all for your comments. It truly has been a test of patience and of finding the right way to start such a conversation. One reason we've stayed together is her Catholic upbringing in which...
Waxing is so amazing, I'm happy for everyone who discovers it. I've been getting my legs waxed every six weeks for years, and I'll never go back to hairy legs again. Congratulations on making that...
Cool story. Thank you for sharing. Isn?t it liberating to just go out as you are and discover the world is a bit less scary and maybe even a bit more friendly?
About that skirt. I have learned...
I had the most wonderful conversation with my wife recently. In the past, she was vehemently against my dressing, and later admitted she preferred to see me dead rather than in a dress. So any...
I am sooooooo jealous! Your wife is the kind of woman most of us can only dream of, and it sounds like you are too!