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I'm so sorry that happened to you. Honestly, it's one of my worst nightmares. But I think everyone here is right. Denial won't convince people their eyes are wrong. If I were you I would -- at...

I guess that's the thing. I'm nervous about doing that. At home, I'm OK with going out, because I know the lay of the land, but I haven't spent much time in NY for years, and never with an eye...

Well the experience might be exciting, but I'm really just looking for something fun to do in NY while dressed. No one here has had any suggestions for me, so I might have to seek the help of...

I've been looking for some CD activity in NYC, and I came across this website for a CD school "Miss Vera's School for Boys Who Want to Be Girls."

Has anyone ever heard of, or been to this place? ...

Having kissed a few men, but never actually having been with one, I think my opinion might not carry much weight, but... for me, I'm attracted to their certainty. The power with which they project...

I'm going to be in NYC in late August, and I think I want to spend as much time en femme as possible. I'm looking for places to go, people to meet, and hopefully a hotel that is CD friendly. The...

Now that the Lodge has been closed for awhile, I've been wondering if any place else has sprung up to take it's place. Where do all the Los Angleitas hang out, nowadays?

This is an interesting question. And yes, one can make all sorts of arguments that it's not a one to one metaphor, and CDing is more acceptable blah, blah, but that's not really the point, if I'm...

BeckyCath, I think this is exactly right. As a TS, you are dressed as a woman full time with the intent on becoming one, then you simply have no choice. You have to come out to your children, or...

That sounds like the most sensible approach, to me. Go, have fun, let them have fun around you, then if everyone seems accepting, take the next step, and ask them (or maybe just one to start) how...

I the extent that I differentiate my 'guy' self from my 'girl' self (Note to both selves: start a thread on that... many, many thoughts), I'd have to say that I like large areas of my guy-ness. (Boy,...

I also think it would be wise to hold off that decision for now. Perhaps they're just clothes to an average tweve year old boy, but he can't have the emotional maturity to realize that they're much...

Clear and firm rules are a bit hard to come by when looking at matters of the self, but if you look around this site, I think that you'll find most of us have similar stories... discovering the...

I feel for you, Fiona. I'm in a similar situation. I told my wife about it after being married for five years. She was extremely upset. We stayed together for another five years, mostly by me...

RuPaul is a giant, too. And she's very glamorous. :D

I actually did this last night. I went and checked out a bar in the L.A. area that was supposed to be very TG friendly, and gosh darned if it wasn't! Unfortunately for me, it reminded me of just...

Funny, I've said similar things here, myself. I feel like just acknowledging the girlish part of me, has allowed me to engage with my wife and kids in a way I haven't done in years. I'm glad to be...

I think you're going to hear this answer a lot, but cross-dressing is different for everyone. Many of us never come out of the closet ever, and still somehow manange to fend off dispair. :heehee:
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Well, shortly after I told her, she seemed to be OK with things, and in my relief that she hadn't immediately walked out the door, I assumed that things were more or less all right. A few days...

Thank you everyone, for your input and support, you've been a big help. For those of you who have wondered, I do trust my wife, implictly. In fact, I trust both of her friends. And even one of...

I dunno. To me, the whole point of cross-dressing is to gain access to the feminine. If putting on eyeliner isn't part of a transformation, it just becomes another pain in the butt thing I'd have...

Just a theory, but it might also be that when you call him 'Mia' even when he's in guy-mode, he thinks it's nice, because it means that you accept that part of him so completely.

OK... this is long, but I really need help. Please keep reading.

My wife has had a very difficult time accepting my CDing. When I first told her 5 years ago -- and yes, we've been married for 10...

I agree with Stephanie and Sherrylynn, up to a point. I think she is probably scared, and confused and angry, and you need to deal with that. Be patient, and reassuring and loving towards her,...

Dawn,

I don't think it's fair to assume that, just because he says he would get rid of the desire to CD, that he must automatically be feeling guilty or is fooling himself.

Many of the CD...