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Hi Cece,

Welcome! I'm in pretty much the same boat: gay guy whose partner knows about (but isn't into seeing) my crossdressing. I don't CD much, and never in front of him. Coming out to him...

I'm still here, still gay, still dressing, and still married to a guy who isn't interested in me as a girl. But I'm also OK with all that... being true to myself and open about who I am is such a...

I think you look great either way!

Yes, please!

I know how hard it is to come out to your own boyfriend, so good for you! And your boyfriend is what we all hope for in a partner: someone who just wants us to be our best selves....

This is exactly my situation, Stephanie! You're not alone.

XO

Christa

I "came out" to my guy about being a crossdresser after more than 15 years together. I would characterize his reaction as accepting, but not embracing. He's not interested in seeing me as Christa,...

After very carefully checking my account settings, I opened a "Christa" facebook account. I use a separate browser app just for my Christa stuff... which helps to insulate me from my boy side...

Maya... I'm so happy for you and your guy! The fact that you've already integrated dressing into your relationship is HUGE. Kudos to you for being open, honest and forthright with him about who you...

As a gay crossdresser in a long term relationship, I've noticed a lot of similarities to the trials and tribulations that you straight crossdressers face... the stress of coming out to our spouses...

I'm gay, but both of my parents are straight. Go figure.

;-)

I really applaud all the contributors on this thread... it's nice to hear from girls facing the same issues that I face. As a gay crossdresser, we face a unique set of circumstances whether single...

Hi Coyote,

I'm a gay CD and I've been with my guy for nearly 20 years now (time flies!). I only came out to him about my crossdressing about 5 years ago. It took me that long to get comfortable...

Maya is my heroine! I loved the photo story of your New Year's Eve adventure. You give us all hope and remind us that confidence, joy and good friends are the keys to happiness.

Love you, girl....

Tonight's party sounds like a dream come true! Have a fantastic time and be sure to post a pic or two. I'm sure the guys will be all over you when the ball drops!

XOXO

Christa

Good question Maya (and thanks for the bump)! I do get turned on when I dress... not because I'm attracted to women, but because I want to be attractive to men.

As a young gay boy, crossdressing...

That's very cool, Jenni! Thanks for sharing your story.

If I had it to do all over again, I'd have told my husband when we first met too. It would have been much easier than having to come out...

Thanks for kick starting this thread Maya. We're a subculture that could use a little more visibility.

I've been with my guy for nearly 20 years now (we were babies when we met!). We met, fell...

Will we ever be done coming out? Whew!

I came out to my boyfriend after many years together, too. He had a sneaking suspicion, but I never had the guts to tell him directly. It was one of the...

Attempts to define who we are as individuals often fall short.

But attempts to define all the possibilities that everyone else might be are completely useless.

Define yourself if you must,...

To answer the original post, I'm a gay guy who crossdresses. I've been gay as long as I can remember, and out about it since I was 19.

I found it much harder to come out as a crossdresser (will...

What a great thread... thanks for starting the conversation, Kaylee!

As a gay guy who likes (loves!) to crossdress, I run into the same assumptions and share some of the same frustrations.
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As a gay man who crossdresses, we face a similar set of issues and problems when we come out (yet again!) to our SO's. I don't want to derail this thread, but I would like to offer a shoulder to...

You are NOT alone here. I'm gay, and I'm also a crossdresser. Don't get dragged into a discussion about how to label yourself... just be proud of the fact that you're well on your way to...

I'm gay. I'm a crossdresser.

I'm continually surprised by the homophobic feelings that creep out in some of these posts. But I'm really encouraged and gratified to see so many smart, confident,...

Now I'm sure you didn't mean any of this in a way to demean or offend the gay members of this group. But it would probably be helpful in this conversation to NOT make the assumptions that most of us...