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And I will we had a nice long talk yesterday and she promised that every thing will be ok. She is the sweetest person I know and she also deserves happiness so I am giving her the space she needs to...

Well as they say when one door closes an other one opens. I've had my share of life issues lately with finding myself being separated from my very supportive and lovely wife. She's helped me get this...

I am grateful that she does want to be my friend. No matter happens I know in my heart we will still be best friends and will never love another like the way we did. Am I still foolishly holding on?...

Your right you cant blame him. A long running joke I had with my wife was I took her out to eat when we were working together way before we started dating or anything. I would say to her do you know...

Your right there aren't many men that would do that . Trust me I am grateful that he did as it was a big boost to my self confidence. But how many times have gg gone out with someone with hopes of...

Yes she is. She was and still is my best friend.

She told me to go find someone that can make me happy and can accept me for who I am. She still wants to be my friend so I am trying to change our relationship from spouse to friends. She's living...

I had met him online. We had chatted some online and on the phone. Really a great guy and was nice to get to know. He took me out with confidence and it really helped. I didn't feel like a oddity...

Truth is in my mind I knew things were over and that she's not coming back. My heart on the other hand wanted to hang on. She told me to go be myself and try to find happiness. Not really knowing...

I think the biggest part was that I felt guilty about going out with someone. I told her this morning that I felt like that and she understood. I will probably talk to her again about the whole...

My wife and I are taking a break right now. Not sure if its just a break or if its over with. But that's a story for a different day. I hadn't dressed for a while and I had never done my own makeup...

That's such a good idea. I will definatly give that a go. I will also go see the therapist a few times first in order to sort out who I am. And when I get a better idea of that have my wife come with...

I do think seeing a therapist would be very beneficial to both of us. I will have to talk to her about going to see one and making the time to do so. I am hoping it will help me and her better...

You are 100% correct Samantha we talked a little bit last night about a few things. She said that she loves seeing me happy and it makes her happy helping me be who I want. So I will take things day...

Thank you everyone, I deeply mean it. Since this is all new to her its only fair to give her time to take all of it in. No need to rush into any rash decisions that will bite me in the end. I will...

Many valid points have been made and I am very thankful for everyone's input and thoughts on this. I know I have much more to think about and a long hard path ahead no matter what path I take.

I would like to see a counselor as I am sure it will help me better express my feelings and explore who I am and who I want to be. But it is something that I would like to talk to her about first....

Sorry for the long winded and rambling post.


I have thought about this for a long time, and I have regretted not doing it sooner. I felt like I have robbed myself of happiness for such a long...

Thanks, never been one to go overboard but I did have my eyebrow done 8 years ago. The hole been closed for some time now

I was a little worried about them sticking in my motorcycle helmet. But I just came back from a ride and was not an issue. Wife cautioned me that piercings can be addicting.

Thankfully I was only able to find one pair that did not just scream clip on. SO not too much a waste if I just toss them.

My wife had been saying she was going to take me to get my ears pierced for a couple of weeks now. Finally we had time off together and we headed to the mall to look around. We settled on a small cz...

Did anyone else read that in the voice of David Attenborough. I did and I almost died laughing.

Wow that does sound like fun. I will have to check out the group. Thank you

Good point, we did joke about getting stopped and a dui checkpoint. I do have the worst of luck with things like that.