As a GG, I know that being quiet or not wanting to talk about a topic doesn't mean we are "ignoring it and hoping it goes away'. It often means something is bothering me but i don't know how to...
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As a GG, I know that being quiet or not wanting to talk about a topic doesn't mean we are "ignoring it and hoping it goes away'. It often means something is bothering me but i don't know how to...
yes, definately ask her what is going on. I know that in the beginning of my relationship, i would ignore more when dressed. it was a coping mechanism for me and it was easier for me to be sure not...
I agree with Wen4cd- that was a very insightful post. sometimes we just need a short break, a reminder that we are important and special too.
Maybe it was too soon for her to see you dressed? If she was interested and curious, it may have really led somewhere. I met my fiance online, met him in drab the first few times, but even then I...
I think you at least owe her an honest explanation of why you broke up with her, then let her decide what is best for her.
interesting question, I suppose it is different for everyone. for me, I think too much touching (other than a handshake) crosses the line. If fact, this used to drive me crazy because my SO's other...
Just the lift the skirt and dress.
don't give up on your friend just yet. she probably just spoke without thinking.
Here's my story: one of my best friends knew my SO and I were friends but didn't know we were actually dating. so...
Here is my GG point of view: she is probably feeling hurt- like you couldn't wait for her to be gone for the night so you could do your own thing, instead of sitting at home missing her.
it's...
i am confused. if your first marriage failed because you wanted to have SRS then why did you marry again without fully addressing this issue?
If you are wanting to express your love and appreciation for her, I suggest putting the focus back on her. Even the most supportive of GG's needs her day to shine once in a while. this is your...
this is tough one. You have to be honest with her. It will be difficult for her because you mislead her by getting rid of your female things and not dressing for a while, all the while, she is...
Excellent post.
Crossdressing is completely harmless? :eek:
I agree with DD. We see people on here everyday hurting, both CDers and their partners. In fact, the whole point of the initial posters thread was that...
I could sum it up by saying "Expect the unexpected". Expect to see, say, and do things that you never imagined. some are gonna be fun and some may surprise you.
I would suppose the novelty and fun has worn off for her. You mentioned that she used to spend time helping you get ready and then off you went. try putting the focus back on her and see if that...
I agree with the others here that you have to talk to her about the event. I am not saying you need to apologize but you can acknowledge the situation and how it must have surprised and/or upset her...
It sounds like your therapist wanted to talk more about this idea because it was something that you had already thought about. therapy is a personal process, the therapist is there to help you figure...
I doubt he meant to offend you. Before I got involved with a CDer, I would not have known that many prefer to use the female pronoun. I actually thought that they were men who liked to dress in...
In my area, the metrosexual look is popular. So it is becoming more acceptable here to be a feminine male. (pastel shirts, trimmed eyebrows, lazer hair removal, manicures). I live in a big...
Thanks again for all the comments and concerns. I believe it helped us both look at things from the other person's perspective.
I am happy to report that all is well here. The situation has...
I too thank you all for your replies. I am the evil green eyed partner in this scenerio. LOL. I have never asked for him to end his friendship with his female friend but have asked him to see things...
I wish you both the best of luck. You did a great thing, being open and honest with her up front. You gave her the time/space needed to let her decide whether to pursue the relationship or not.
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It should be encouraging that your wife is getting counseling to help her deal with her own issues. If accepting your crossdressing is an issue for her, then it would be expected that this would come...
Part of the reason many GG's don't understand is because CDers sneak around and lie about their activities. When found out, this gives the appearance that you feel like it was something that you had...