I've never really thought of crossdresser as offensive and I agree with Gretchen, it's more of an activity than an identity. However, crossdressers do seem to be imagined at the far end of the...
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I've never really thought of crossdresser as offensive and I agree with Gretchen, it's more of an activity than an identity. However, crossdressers do seem to be imagined at the far end of the...
If they specifically mentioned activities that are unique to you then this is beyond malware, phishing and routine hacking, it's blackmail. If these are things you would not like to explain to law...
Unfortunately, the current administration has reversed a plan to put questions about sexuality and gender no-conformity in the upcoming census questionnaire. While many in this forum are resolute in...
Ah yes, the familiar theme. My question: If dressing were culturally acceptable, would any of this matter? We worry if it's an addiction ( and therefore wrong ) because of what others think,...
another reason to move to CO
The significance of autogynephilia in trans thinking and behavior is controversial. Some would say it's purely fetishistic behavior and doesn't indicate actual cross gender characteristics while...
Dinatagail, I was hoping by pointing out the numbers that you would feel less alone. People on here have the common desire to be fem and so do you. The reasons and how, when and who knows is all over...
The National Center for Transgender Equality conducted an extensive and authoritative study of trans people that included various non-binary types and crossdressers....
It's a great place to start.
I'd go with some of the earlier suggestions in this thread that you should consider counseling to understand how the experience of abuse may impact your current and future relationships. You must...
First, it's the easiest thing to do compared to finding clothes, makeup and shaving. And, speaking for myself, it's a step toward completing my concept of myself as a female though I know complete is...
You owe it to the world to be on that bike in tight fem leather. Might want to take Jennie's thoughts about heels seriously though. Hope we see a pic if you follow through! BE SAFE!
The survey is legitimate and it's a follow-on to an earlier survey that is cited as valid. It is focused at assessing the situation that trans people find themselves in regarding employment, housing,...
yes, yes, no, no, sometimes - you are what you are - nothing external can change that. counseling can help you sort out your feelings.
I won't be revealing that.
When I made my first and last visit to Carmel I had long hair that I wish I had now. It was the seventies and I was a bit of a hippy travelling down the coast. Was walking into town from the coast...
I'm on a bunch of sites but none are that great for actually connecting with a like-minded local community. Of course, this site is best for the greater CD community not necessarily the trans...
Well done! Results so far show we are a serious group of crossdressers. I'm glad I'm here.
The culture is slowly growing more tolerant but there's still are large component of repressed angry white men out there with reactionary views reinforced by talk radio and cable news. This one old...
I suspect that if you keep observing you will see other clues such as how he sits or maintains his skin or whatever. I would not be too direct because you could easily cause him to never return to...
Be very careful. You might note that most of the gurls who become victims of violence and murder are those "on the street".
Psychologists sometimes use the term cognitive dissonance and it applies to more than just gender situations. However, for us, it describes that sudden dizzy feeling you may have when you are feeling...
We can debate, discuss and argue about what we are and how we are understood by others till the cows come home. I think the value of the transgender "umbrella" grouping has at least of practical...
This thread has got me thinking hard about what gender feels like. When I try to think what it might feel like to be a woman I then immediately say to myself, well, what does it feel like to be man....
I don't yet regard my occasional spells of optimism as illusions but yes it can be hell. Like lies, I think a lot of toxic things have lifetime limits. Some people get more "credits" than others but...