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Karren: Have the boys seen you en femme? If so, how do they react? (An intriguing situation.)

Then there's this. We speak of "having sex" with each other but do we ever say "having gender"?

My position exactly!

I don’t recall this ever being discussed, but then I’m not a regular. I walked into an optical shop yesterday that stank of sickly-sweet perfume and traced it to a middle-aged lady at a counter...

That's a brilliant concept! Here's a thought: I once walked into a curtain shop looking for something plain for a bathroom; everything on display was lacey, frilly, pastely... over-the-top femme......

Just curious... Where did you stay? Did you dress there? If so, did you feel comfortable going in and out?

I enjoy all my guy friends as a guy, but you know what would suit me fine? Finding one who wouldn't mind my dressing up when we're sitting around shooting the sh*t, popping beers, watching TV. Maybe...

Ann Carpenter: "I shared it with my son, who had just turned 18. He then came out to me that he as well had been dressing female in secret since young, off and on." Wow. Three-generations! Too bad...

That brother of yours... why not enlist his help? That's what brothers are for, especially if he's older. And he's on the outs with your mom? Form a team!

Meant to mention, there was a certain charge after that incident, in my knowing that he knew what I was wearing under the dresses. He even took me out walking a couple times, but that made him...

You're a babe! Show us more.

My roommate and I decided to find a place to live nearer to where we both worked. (That's how we met.) So we vowed to tell each other our biggest secret before embarking on this. I told him I liked...

Beats being called a Ho! Or a Homo...

Curious Q: Any of your guy friends know about Katie? They might enjoy her, as you seem such a regular *person*.

@dannymay -- You should get some guy friends to be bridesmaids! And if you buy them their costumes, don't stint on the lingerie -- should be fun to hang out with a bunch who've never dressed up as...

Damn! He is a great friend. Have you taken the invite? If so... how'd it feel?

Not really! But one must wonder, if you're walking around in the schools as a girl (a very pretty one too), have you told your family? Have you appeared like that at work? I mean, schools! it's so...

Oh that's good!

And don't forget to dress pretty too.

And wouldn't it feel GREAT to hang out with the guys in your cute new outfit? And have them treat you like the friend you are?



Not by a long shot!

Maybe try to confuse them...

"Are you gay?"

"No, I like guys."

To maya1love: Great pics, beautiful looks. "He proceeded to take my hand and asked me whether I was a good dancer." Because you like guys, that must have been a dynamite, sexy moment for you as a...

If you really are friends -- "best friends" at that -- he should be able to regard you as a non-sexual girl friend just as easily as he sees you as a non-sexual guy friend.

Look at it too from his...

I'll go with two of stephanie203's Top Ten for my Top Two:

5- Going to a party given by friends who knew me only as male and are supportive and accepting
10- Going out with my male friends as a...

Pantyhose are not nylons! [Discuss]

It's a dead heat between all the stuff hanging on me... and all the lingerie stuff I feel happening under my dress.

Hey Skirt_guy, if you're doing that cigarette-girl gig don't neglect to treat yourself to a garter belt and nylons worn up high and a pair of snappy panties, preferably flowered. You know you'll feel...