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Hi Reine,
"I just like womens' clothes", seems like an appropriate response to curious onlookers but certainly does not address the issue in any depth.

Carl jung dedicated much of life studied...

Hi Redtoes,

My situation was similar to Karen's.

I began at age seven ( possibly before, but my memories are sketchy), had occasional desires for lingerie, mostly panties, but a feminie...

Hi Jessica,
Wow, That is a lot to deal with. You are in crisis! I have quoted some of the statements you made.
I see a lot of resentments, work problems, communication breakdown, depression, and...

Hi Jaymee,

I would imagine that it would be quite distressing for someone to feel they have to dress when they don't like doing so. I think that is what is meant by problems with gender dysphoria....

Hi Erica,
I am new here as well. I felt a tremendous sense of relief just finding out there were others like me here... I had no idea just how many and how nice we can all be to one another.
Some...

Tibby this is very good. I am smiling.
What a wonderfully supportive attitude.

It would be nice if other GG`s were so accomodating.
Thanks for sharing, I may need to return to this post...

Yes, I agree.
I think it is very easy to give off the impression that we are dishonest when we make up lies to ourselves.

I would rather simply be confident and pleasant but keep any excuses or...

Precisely....Underlying this relationship is deception.

I wonder what her response would have been if she had known that you cd?

She may have been parroting what she thought you might want to...

Hi Suzy,

I think what you said really hit home for a few of us here....a sense of self acceptance among like-minded gurls.

I think this site offers a meaningful connection which is difficult to...

So true about the need to twirl...that's why I used to twirl napkins, straws at the dinner tables. I think it made somewhat conspicuous, come to think about it.

My hair was probably the very first...

Great insights and another great post, Freddie.
There was something about this site from the beginning that said :SAFE:, and I tent to trust my intuition. I realized that, like all good things,...

I have been enjoying this thread... Thank you Frederique. The very first time I expressed myself to another person about crossdresing I said that I was practicing magic... that I had become a...

Hi AAlynn,
You do sound quite confident and very keen on dressing full time. If it is just the voice you are concerned about, I happen to have been watching videos and practicing my own femme voice...

Hi Jillieanne,
What a great question.
I don't think that I would feel violated or lied to but the information would be important to know. However, she may have been quite confused and possibly...

Hi Tiff,

Welcome to the forum and thank you for your post. It shows that you care enough about your lover to do some research into your situation. That takes courage on your part and I applaud...

I think discussing beliefs is how we come to the understanding of how we FEEL. Do you feel more like a woman when you dress or do you still feel like a man?

For years I was puzzled and confused...

I have wondered about this as well. When I was younger and dressed up, I was really quite confused. As I became older I tried to take on the masculine role to some degree, but I was always very...

Hi Toni,
Thank you for sharing. I have read a number of posts about this and I, too, feel similar to what you describe.
I am not attracted to men either; I am actually turned off by most men....

Hi Marleena,

Well I may be unusual but I am bi when other crossdressers are dressed.
I am not attracted to males as men, but with the right one crossdressed and I become instantly bisexual!
...

Hi Wildaboutheels,
I agree with Heatherdress..I would find it hard to imagine someone who has lived a life without being laughed at .... but I don't think that is what is meant by "good medicine". ...

Hi Hannah,
I was hoping someone might bring up the problems associated with Halloween when we crossdress.

Great comments and responses. It seems to me that Halloween could be a time when we are...

I am in the same boat. I used to live in a large city, in an area where the GLBT community was centered.
I could have simply gone out for a walk, where there were lots of others, but I now live in a...

Hi Tiffany,
If crossdressing were widely acceptable (and free of danger), I would be doing it all the time, and I would probably not have been needing this website.. I could just go out.

That is...

Hi Sveta,
Crossdressing involves the creation of an illusion, some girls even use make up to help form the illusion of larger breasts.

I noticed that when my chest is shaven (every day now), I...

There are terms, but are they suitable?
The fluid nature of sexual expression, identity, and orientation are very complex and each person is different.
I used to think I was bisexual; maybe I am,...