Life is not fair full stop. It is to you to negotiate around the unfairness and make the best of it. You definitely should not accept any dictatorial commands from your spouse but you also need to...
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Life is not fair full stop. It is to you to negotiate around the unfairness and make the best of it. You definitely should not accept any dictatorial commands from your spouse but you also need to...
Great thread everyone, lots of knowledgeable and rational thinking going on here.
I think this thread is important because it deals with a subject rarely discussed - the role of masculinity and...
If you are a girl with transgender feelings then you will most likely identify as a tomboy not a CD. Being able to satisfy your feelings by wearing masculine clothing from childhood onwards most...
I sooooo much disagree with this line of thought. Who we are is not set in stone at the date of our wedding. We all change as we age, some more than others. Life is variable and dynamic, it is not...
There is no reason to be afraid of sharing pictures as you can easily block out your face. And depending upon your wig and make-up skills, you are probably unrecognizable anyway. As for going out...
Cristi
I am at a similar place, very comfortable with being a CD, can dress at home whenever I like, 100% supportive wife, large wardrobe, even lasered off my beard. But I have a great job which...
I agree, your best research is done in forums like this by understanding why people say certain things. It is many times more revealing than reading a medical journal where the researchers were more...
Most CDs pass exceeding well because we have got the art of passing as a "normal" male down to a fine art-form. No-one ever suspects we are something else.
I believe the gay movement only began...
I think your words explain why you are having these feelings. The reason we dress is to feel something, a desire to express part of our personality. But doing so trapped inside your house means...
Yes I should have clarified that it is women which men are interested in that will be undressed. So your individual take on sexuality will determine which women you consider desirable and will be...
Well if you say that then you don't know about memory research. Our memories are shockingly bad. If you invite a group of people to witness an event and then ask them to recount what happened a week...
Memories are very unreliable. You should google false memories so you understand the dangers of believing these memories are real. Repressed memories are highly likely to be false memories but...
Sure they do so point to me the gene which makes me want to dress in female clothes. In fact show me the gene that makes me want to wear clothes at all. The way our society works is wholly...
While this may be true, women primarily buy designer labels for the label itself. It is about the exclusivity and bragging rights. That's why designer labels get away with gigantic profit margins. ...
Yes I know women are aware that certain designs were developed to catch a man's eye but where you and I disagree is whether a women can wear such an outfit and enjoy its sexiness without needing or...
Snore....I feel sorry for everyone here that thinks for sure it is inherited. If it were then it would have been easily proved a long time ago. CDs do not bred CDs, gays do not bred gays. No...
I don't think everyone gets sarcasm. I mean bra wearing = ruthless.....hello......
In fact anytime you bring out the male/female divide then out comes the victimhood mentality....Ohh woe is me,...
Why would she not be receiving compliments from women too? Everytime my wife wears something sexy and revealing all the women she meets makes her outfit a big topic of conversation not just a polite...
I don't agree Reine. I think what you are saying is true for most women where you live but it is not true for other areas. In many parts of the world women enjoy expressing femininity and sexiness...
Diversity is the spice of life. If you don't agree with someone's opinion then state your own.
The only real "danger" here is when a certain point of view becomes dominant and the members who...
For sure some people genuinely believe they were born this way but for others it can be used as a convenient reason to explain their behavior. It gives them a free pass and potentially a quick route...
A perfectly reasonable use!
I agree the response that "we were born this way" has a defeatist element to it because it is normally deployed as a defensive statement in response to a line of questioning. There is a defacto...
Well that is the easy part to explain. Humans seek out things which give us pleasure. The high CDs get from dressing is addictive and the desire to perfect the female image becomes an obsession. ...
Exploring aspects of your personality is an inherently self indulgent thing to do. That is the whole point! When you express masculine qualities you are self indulging your male side. So what? Is...