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  1. @OP: Pretty much anything gender-related grabs my...

    @OP: Pretty much anything gender-related grabs my attention these days. Maybe I haven't looked hard enough, but a lot of the psychology texts seem to be overly reductionist or outdated, transphobic...
  2. Any way you choose to speak is appropriate. It...

    Any way you choose to speak is appropriate. It is not necessary for you to use a voice that makes them more comfortable with your gender identity. In a gay bar especially, people should know better...
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    You're right, it wasn't very helpful. Probably...

    You're right, it wasn't very helpful. Probably the wording of the post, especially "prove", triggered the response. It does express my sentiments exactly though, so I won't apologize for it.

    I...
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    @Nicole: I'm pretty sure you're just being...

    @Nicole: I'm pretty sure you're just being self-deprecating, but in case you really don't understand why they would say that, please try to understand that women deal with all sorts of issue that are...
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    The fear is that cross-dressing as a sexual...

    The fear is that cross-dressing as a sexual fetish will become the only characterization of trans people, since society in general is notoriously bad at nuance. There are (at least) two reasons that...
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    Seconding rosuto...transgender is often used as...

    Seconding rosuto...transgender is often used as an umbrella term for any kind of gender nonconformity.



    Based on the context of your post, I think this question is a re-hash of "aren't all...
  7. Worth quoting imo. I think it's important to...

    Worth quoting imo. I think it's important to emphasize that even if you don't feel targeted by discrimination, this process of internalization can be completely unconscious and lead to stress. ...
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    I agree with others who have said that the...

    I agree with others who have said that the obsession with "passing" plays a large, negative role within the trans community in this regard.

    Ideally, we should call out such BS as unacceptable, but...
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    I think Shananigans described it pretty well. ...

    I think Shananigans described it pretty well. The consensus as far as I can tell is that drag queens do it as a performance, whereas cross-dressers do it out of gender dysphoria. Sometimes people...
  10. Q: What do you call a guy with a 12-inch dick...

    Q: What do you call a guy with a 12-inch dick hanging out at a gay bar?
    A: A bottom
  11. Well, I wouldn't identify as gay male...

    Well, I wouldn't identify as gay male cross-dresser, but I want to support this thread!
    Smash the heteronormative ownership paradigm!



    I feel exactly that anxiety about hetero guys, especially...
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    I like queer as an umbrella term as well. I...

    I like queer as an umbrella term as well. I think my generation at least doesn't have any strong negative connotations for "queer." The first things I think of are Queer As Folk and Queer Eye for...
  13. Thread: 0.7 whr?

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    @OS: Males tend to have narrower hips than...

    @OS: Males tend to have narrower hips than females. Fat also goes to our gut area rather than the hips and breasts. So in any case, it's usually a good plan to wear clothes that give the illusion...
  14. @Sue: Completely agree with your sentiments! ...

    @Sue: Completely agree with your sentiments! Thank you for posting them.

    It's simply about respect.
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    I saw the first question, "Describe your...

    I saw the first question, "Describe your relationship with mathematics," and closed the window.
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    I don't think the police will do anything with...

    I don't think the police will do anything with just that message, so it might not be worth calling them yet.
    I sent you a PM with some numbers you can call.

    If he does send anything threatening,...
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    I guess first off, don't panic and don't do...

    I guess first off, don't panic and don't do anything rash.

    Was that the entire message he sent?
    It sounds hella creepy, but sometimes people are just oblivious to how something will sound.

    My...
  18. Thread: "She"

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    Ze, sorry to hear that you're having a tough time...

    Ze, sorry to hear that you're having a tough time with it.

    I think 7sisters is right that most people are not being actively disrespectful.
    They just don't know, and that's unfortunately not...
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    @Sue: Forgive me for putting words in your mouth,...

    @Sue: Forgive me for putting words in your mouth, but I think what you're trying to get at is that we should not go out expecting intolerance because it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. It's...
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    Someone beat me to I Will Fear No Evil. I...

    Someone beat me to I Will Fear No Evil.
    I thought it was awful enough to quit a third of the way through, and I usually don't stop in the middle of any book, but obviously your mileage may vary.
    ...
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    Milo and Otis is definitely the first thing that...

    Milo and Otis is definitely the first thing that comes to my mind too XD

    I know someone who chose Kiska as their female name.
    Apparently, it means "pure" in Russian.
    She hasn't legally changed...
  22. Thread: Passing?

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    I am getting my "panties in a bunch" because...

    I am getting my "panties in a bunch" because being trans already has a host of body image issues, and I think it is irresponsible and insensitive to exacerbate them.
    When you use a word like...
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    @Sophia: It will affect everyone in different...

    @Sophia:

    It will affect everyone in different ways, but for what it's worth, here are my experiences.

    I have found myself more confident and extroverted in general since I've accepted being to...
  24. Thread: Passing?

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    I think semantically there is no ambiguity....

    I think semantically there is no ambiguity.
    "Passing" means that people cannot tell that you are trans/CD in any normal social interaction.
    Whenever I use the term, that's what I mean.

    That...
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    I agree that this is exactly the problem. The...

    I agree that this is exactly the problem.
    The term is often polarized depending on the person, so there's always this pressure to define exactly what you mean by feminism.



    I do understand...
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