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From age 10 to my early 30s, it was mainly about the undergarments and the arousal. Trying on dresses and such was part of it, but done more to explore and play than as a core aspect. From sneaking...

It sounds like things are already getting better. Thank you for sharing.

Philipa Jane, I am sorry that you lost all your old friends. Neither you nor any here should find that too surprising, unfortunately. But you are now living in a world where people you meet will have...

When I was 9 or 10, I had gotten my hands on a pair of black, lacy panties, no doubt from one of my sisters, that I would slip on under the covers in bed. The lacy aspect felt so good and different,...

Chiffon, I can relate.
I'm the youngest sibling of four; I have two older sisters. When I was about 15, my mom came across my stash. We did not have a very long conversation. Although she did not...

Nowhere near as intense as some of these stories, but still scary. Around 2018, I was shopping at Macy's on or just before Halloween - the only time of year I would go out until recently. I found a...

Thank you for that comment, Di.
I have a friend who said, "Women are all crazy ... Men are all crazy ... It's just in different ways."
I agree with her.

When one of my sons was 10 and poking around in my closet (which I considered pretty normal kid behavior, having done it myself), he found my stash. He asked me questions about it, and I gave answers...

It's almost Christmas. I hope you have already picked out pretty frilly or velvety dresses to give to all of your nieces and nephews.

One Christmas memory that to this day still sort of aches...

Until a year ago, I would go out fully dressed only during the few days leading up to Halloween. And then if I got clocked, was ready to fall back on the excuse that "it's a costume."
This year, as...

Erin, I like your comment about looking like a newborn giraffe when first trying to walk in heels. I used to work at an entertainment venue that included a nightclub. I would see lots of gals in...

Emi, Warm hugs to both you ladies.

No, Rhonda Jean, you are not the only one. I was never into photographic presentations of sex, especially when there was no lingerie. (One time I found a copy of Playboy in the middle of the street....

I agree with Jamie 100%. My middle child, around age 12, was poking through closets, similar to JulieC's daughter, and found a trunk with my then-small stash. Confused and concerned, they approached...

Emi, I am curious how much you have ever been able to dress this way. If you have recently been able to do more than ever before, I have to wonder whether the pendulum may be taking a hard swing from...

About your first point, Margret: At my job, I wear a suit, tie, and dress shoes. A few years ago, I had a pair of dress shoes that, if I walked just right, clicked exactly like high heels. I took a...

I have two goals I want to achieve with what I choose to wear.

The first goal is for when I go out en femme: to present myself in a way that doesn't stand out, but rather blends in as with any...

Wishing you could offer her a dress to make her holiday shows you have a good heart, Geena.

Although our relationship has been rocky for a while now, my SO has always accepted my dressing and, in...

Julie, I well understand. Until this past January, I had only gone out en femme on Halloween and the day or two preceding it. I was thankful that Target almost always has a private, family restroom...

Because you say this is a recent development for you, I would suggest to not worry over it, Jess. It may just be a heightened interest in the short term as you explore something that is new and...

I was just checking my email and was surprised to see something from my homeowner's insurance company with the subject line "LBD.pdf". What in the world? What and how do they know about my little...

Stephanie, in the USA, the word "spoil" may have the same meaning you describe for the UK, or it may have the degrading meaning to which you refer. It depends on the context.

I can show love to my...

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Only you will know what to do according to your comfort zone, Donna. And that may expand as you have more, shall we say, opportunities.

What I will add, though, is if you do...

For me, it isn't about "not being me for a while." Just the opposite - venturing out en femme is, rather, a way to honor an aspect of the whole me that has never gotten enough expression.

For 45...

What a wonderful way to celebrate. Congratulations!