The reply you missed Julia was
"Hmmm.... yes, because oodles of fat is what every man needs in his diet". NOT obviously.
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The reply you missed Julia was
"Hmmm.... yes, because oodles of fat is what every man needs in his diet". NOT obviously.
Issh Meghan. I sort of get where you are coming from and in some senses you are right, because the general public does not differentiate then CD and TS appear to have common goals.
However it is...
Nice response Reine.
You asked, I tried to explain how a woman sees that photo.
Try asking your wife then Carla what the cold hard truth is about what she thinks of that photo. And if I am way off the mark then my...
The reference in post #46 is an interesting read though I would say one thing. There is still some muddying of the waters between CD and TS/TG in the article. A lot of the research papers quoted are...
Carla
If you want to think of the photo as some sort of art then so be it. If you truly wish to emphasise the drudgery / blandness of the rocks and grey wall contrasted against the bright hair...
Sorry Carla and yes we were brutal but you did ask.
Look, there are plenty of photos from members on here like the one you posted, over sexualised photos that border on soft porn. I hope that that...
OK, I'll try but you are going to have to take this on the chin and not take offence otherwise you will just get defensive and never have a chance of trying to understand your wifes attitude.
OK....
I think that is sort of Zooey's point to an extent, you can't extrapolate from TS data to CD's. It would be like me extrapolating treatment for a cat based on experiences in the dog, yes they are...
Most TS on this thread, including myself, will have similar thoughts I'm afraid to Zooey, Sue, Arbon and Georgette. I'm probably not quite as strong in my views as some others (I'm too old and been...
/ you learn that instinct very quickly thats for sure.
Basically I really don't care. Just try not to be so furtive about it! I'm TS so I understand it is really nerve-wracking initially but it is...
Allie, I think we are sort of talking the same thing perhaps from different view points. Just please understand how intensely frustrating it can be as either a cis or transwoman having men tell us...
Please just be a little cautious Allie about the unconscious judgement that can come across particularly in your last post. "Insecurities" and looking at the situation in a "more mature manner" are...
Do you really want to know the biggest reason "Why?". It is actually fairly simple. You had a choice. You chose to stay. You weren't coerced, you weren't forced, you weren't tricked by your partner...
Why on earth would a gay man who is not female identified take Estrogen?
As Reine and a few others have pointed out, there is bugger all evidence that male and female brains are spectacularly different anatomically or physiologically AS WE CURRENTLY UNDERSTAND.
I have...
@ Nothingclever
You have way too many clever things to say to keep that name :). I agree with you completely.
@ Zooey
I just can't agree with you Zooey despite also really just NOT getting...
The obsession with sex. Wow!!
Personally I think anyone who uses the terms "male lesbian" or "lipstick lesbian" has such a male sexual view of relationships that you make the terms almost...
umm...... No. Simply, No. I'm quite happy with being me, my age, my characteristics, my face, yes even to an extent my body.
Carly
Not sure you realise exactly how many women, cis or trans, find your last post judgemental and offensive.
Pretty much all of us.
You can sort of turn the question around but it would require much larger number of FTM CD / TS than we have on these boards. We know they exist though, they just don't do forums that much.
I'm...
Have you seen Danish Girl?? That is a hardcore start to the CD / TG conversation. My wife and I loved the movie but I'm transitioned. I have a number of friends who are smart and sensitive people who...
I'm pretty sure Marina said in her original post that she thought her new friend had strong feelings for her.
This one is a no brainer. YOU WONT STOP. YOU SHOULD TELL HER.
Got it. What is the...
Umm..... No. You don't "manage" a partner, I'll tell you x and y but not z because you don't need to know it / you might not like it. You give your life partner everything, completely, absolutely....
Cant help with direct personal experience sorry Aaron as I'm MTF TS.
There are a number of couples on these boards where the male partner has transitioned (MTF) and they have stayed together and...