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I came out to my wife in 2013. On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being very accepting she was a 1. And it went down from there. :)

I have to admit I'm torn. It has caused stress in my marriage and have spent a lifetime of sneaking around and telling one lie to cover up another lie. Now, I'm faced with either a life of not...

Thanks for the replies so far. looks like most of you, so far, wouldn't change anything. but I'm not looking for choices you have or have not made along the way, but if you could choose to have...

My inspiration.

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Ok, let's go back to when you were 4 or 5 or 14 or 40 something.... whenever you first began to realize you were "different". Then think about from that point until where you are now.....considering...

spending the next week with the inlaws, first time since my SO outted me to her high school friends and family. I don't care that they know, it's the not knowing who knows and who doesn't that makes...

great news, hope things work out

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Granny Clampitt

Very interesting question.....my SO and I have just been having a similur discussion. Yes she does go keep the grandkids, I guess that would be her hobby, which gives me a few days to myself now and...

My SO, who is very conservative, and hates CDing, read all three Gray books. She has no interest in BD or being submisive. I think it's popularity comes from the love story aspect for GGs and not...

jazz keyboardist, magician, racer, pilot, photographer.....that's all I can think of right now

your path and mine are the same Traveler. from the age of 14 I thought this was only a sexual fetish. But that was before Jayne introduced herself to me last year. Now, it's not even about the...

Interesting results Flo. I'd swear my heart rate and blood pressure go up when dressing, but would like to find out for sure.

How ironic if we somehow survive the end of the world, only to fall off the fiscal cliff 10 days later!

Thanks Wildabout, figured this was a hot topic already

sorry if this link has recently been posted. I can't figure out how to search for it in the forums. but looks like the report is from 4 years ago, 2008. So, what has been discovered since? Anyone...

I just wanna be me. This is obviously a hot topic. But I'm with the OP on this. I still have my goatee. I would shave it off but the SO likes it. And I've never tried wigs or make-up but I'm not...

Oh Come On!! It's not fair! Of course I know what I should do. If I tell her, then I can't go. She hates it even if I file my nails. Much less if I go "hang out with a bunch of trannys!!!" as...

The SO will be out of town this weekend, and I have a chance to go hang with some gals and get to be Jayne for a night on the town. Just little background....my SO hates Jayne and we would probably...

My SO says she has to be enuf. What she doesn't understand that even if I had 72 virgins, it would not change who I am.

You were brave to discuss your feelings with your mate. If he's like my friends he was probably more surprised by you breaking down and crying in front of him. But don't fool yourself into thinking...

My dad was always at work and when he was home didn't want to be bothered with the kids. My mom was always busy and emotionally distant. So I have a strong case for the nurture argument. However,...

I'm at the same place in my marriage right now also Tonya. It is a very tuff decision to make. Be true to the one who loves you, or be true to yourself. There are no good answers, only...

I generally hate labels. Mainly because each label applies in some cases, but not in others, and everyone has a different definition of just what a label means.

But I have finally found a...

Thanks to everyone for your insights. I may need to delete my FB account it looks like. Even though I am very careful to not have any references to me IRL. I do not share any friends that are...