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I'm struggling with weight. Right now I look awful dressed so I'm putting it up until I drop 40 pounds. Interim goal - when I'm 20 pounds down I'm getting my legs waxed.

A brutal workout

High power rifle competition

Good point, however this isn't about where I belong or don't belong. This is about going out in public for the first time ever and being more comfortable and being in an atmosphere that more closely...

That's what I was thinking, but how do you go about finding gay nightclubs?

Ok then.

Cincy?

when traveling to a new are - any thoughts on how to go about that?

I don't think I would ever go out in public in my home area (very closeted), but may consider doing so if I was on a trip well...

I'm on again/off again with CDing, often going years without even thinking about it.

Was talking to a girl friend (not girlfriend - I'm married) of mine and we were talking about stuff from our...

Do the other players know you crossdress? I would think that it would make someone a bigger target for rough sportsmanship.

MTA I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing as long as it doesn't...

Question for the athletes and highly athletic amongst us:

Do you feel like being highly athletic is at odds with crossdressing? I've found that during heavy training, leading up to a major event...

My CDins is almost entirely stress based. There were years when I didn't engage in it at all, didn't even think about. I had gotten to the point where I had figured it was a phase that I had gone...

It's funny, I'm very part time CDer and could probably just walk away form it if I felt the need to. I scored 69% masculine, 31% feminine and I'm actually a little surprised it wasn't even more...

That's my opinion as well. Also, cleavage is just one component of aesthetics. In my opinion, athletic, trim and fit counts for more than a nice chest. Plus, I spend WAY more time in guy mode, so I'd...

Preface: I'm very part time with CDing and very deeply in the closet.

Last night my wife and I were working out on the TM at the gym. Over the last few years, I've lost a lot (over 75 pounds) and...

I'm very part time on CDing, will often go years without and could probably stop alltogether with some effort and focus, so this isn't a huge issue with me.

Marathon runner, so legs for sure with my eyes close behind.

If a choice between the two MUST be made, why is choosing your spouse not an option? You talk of being in control of yourself, in control of your life in a positive manner. Does it not stand to...