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I work professionally in Photoshop, and without floating my own boat, I could if I wanted edit my pics in ways that you'd never be able to spot. But I don't, because I don't see the point in putting...

I'd say the main difference is this: when I'm on my bike, I do everything I can to be noticed, when I'm out and about, I do everything I can to blend.

Also, I take it your aren't planning on...

Hi Emily,

I recently started one myself on Weebly but haven't put it up here yet. I'll keep an eye on yours though and I hope it helps you and brings you knew friends.

Amy :)

Yes but notice I said with the sole purpose of offending others. He wasn't really doing that was he? So therefore I personally don't have a problem with it. I don't think it's a good look, but it's...

Yes, anything that hurts or is done with the sole purpose of offending others. In this case, the bearded lady wasn't really hurting anyone (I don't believe he was 'damaging the cause' or anything...

There's a checkout assistant in Boots (big UK health/beauty/pharmacy chain in UK for our non-British members) in the city where I live and work. I'm not sure whether he or she is applicable, but...

Hi Sami,

I never felt the moodiness with my girlfriend before telling her but it was certainly a problem with friends. I'm generally torn up with guilt about what I'm putting my SO through but...

Hi Daisy (or is it Jennifer?),

I just this last week came out to two of my closest friends, both male. They were overwhelmingly accepting. The reason that I told them was because I was tired of...

My friend genuinely didn't know; he said that he'd wondered if I was bipolar but then he'd never known me to be really happy so he'd discounted that. He often felt that I was 'on edge' though....

I'm with Melissa on this one, I think you are looking for something thats not there. She's just not your typical model proportions, thats all. But if you look at her arms and hands, and her neck, if...

I went around to my friend's place tonight to watch the football. He's been one of my best friends for the last 16 years, and has always had a relentlessly carefree and positive attitude. The thing...

Firstly, it would be better to get some cloths of your own; wearing hers without her permission isn't fair, and I'm pretty sure that it will eventually lead to her finding out in a less than ideal...

Thanks very much for your replies...



I really hope so, but with it being the NHS I have quite a long wait! :D



I'm trying to do this as much as I can and you are absolutely right, it's...

Hi all,

I went to see a friend at the weekend, and ended up telling him the truth about me. He took it well and although we had a long and frank chat about my situation, our friendship is no...

No, I don't buy this notion that all men are secretly a bit TG or want to crossdress. Sure there may be some that have thought about it but never have, and those that have dressed up for a laugh...

I'll stick with my Triumph Street Triple thanks, cars are way too slow (or at least the ones I can afford are!). Plus bikes are just plain sexier! :D

I came out to my girlfriend late last year. Just removing the veil of secrecy and guilt has been a massive relief. Although I don't dress in front of her and am making a real effort to allow her to...

Yeah it makes perfect sense, I'm not questioning your conclusions, I was just interested (as someone who has gone through all the usual years of self denial and guilt) in how having a medical...

No doubt to be replaced by a poundshop/bookmakers/charity shop.

After my recent experience there I can't speak highly enough of Dee, Helen and Lisa at Dee Selectas in Bolton as an alternative.

I think you have been very unlucky and much of it due to the era you were going through therapy. Transgender people in the UK are still regularly let down by the NHS (just google TransDocFail) but...

Just so you know Kimberly, there's only two NHS specialist centres as far as I know, one in Leeds and the Charing Cross one in London. The waiting list for Leeds is 14 months, I'd imagine Charing...

Well I'm glad for you that this diagnosis has given you a new perspective on things, but would/was your view of crossdressing have been very different if you didn't have this condition? Why does it...

I hope in the morning when you read back through this that you see how it perhaps doesn't come across in the best of lights. And why the hell does it matter how well she can run in high heels? My SO...

Yeah, the disclaimer 'but I'm not gay or anything' seems especially pointless here of all places. To be honest, nobody in the real world has ever asked me my sexuality or felt the need to inform me...

Thanks everyone for the lovely messages. Today feels a bit like a new beginning. Now that this is done and out of the way, I feel like I can start to let Rachel grow.

Carla: Thanks again it was...