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That doesn't seem like a slow build up to it. That sounds like one or two different instances where it was joked or talked about. That is a lot to heap up in anybodies life.

You are unfortunately...

How did you do this introduction? Did you simply come out of a room dressed or had you built up to it?

Im sorry Nikki, I fail to see where I'm being selfish or me me me. She was the one who posed the question. She was the one who was unsure on where our relationship should go if I wanted to pursue...

Anyone following the drama on my blog, which seems to be my life of late, is aware of the turmoil between Miss Girlfriend and I. Last week she gave me, well an ultimatum may be unfair and inaccurate....

Why do we need another label? ;-)

Well now you are just bragging!:heehee:

So happy to hear it went well hon. Success stories are always great to hear.

Ever & Always,
Caden Lane

Nope, just not my thing. But I also live in coastal Georgia, with super high humidity, and I still go out fully dressed. During the midday heat no less. Not much can dissuade me from dressing during...

I'd much rather have visible panty lines than an unsightly bulge.

Ever,
Caden

There have been two instances of gawking that drew my ire; but neither situation would have benefitted from me acting any other way than ladylike.

In one instance Miss Girlfriend and I were on a...

If we look t it like that, then Transgender is a) More inclusive as it brings all the names or labels under one umbrella term, and b) it sounds far more "professional," albeit a little more clinical....

Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, Flickr...

I presumed the OP was using drag in a very loose usage. Otherwise, I wouldn't consider it drag either. But we are all sort of on the same page, verbiage notwithstanding.

Within the last year, I've dreamed as Caden more and more often. And more recently, I've had extensive dreams of myself living as Caden. I tend to dream vividly, in color, with sounds and smells; it...

Now why do we have to bash obese people? Not so long ago, I was obese. Im sure there was a kinder way to say that, or a better example hon.

Ever & Always,
Caden Lane

I tend to ignore them. If they were not taught better manners than that, then nothing I say will mean anything to them. Shaming them may only lead to bigger problems anyhow.

Ever & Always,
Caden...

Crossdressers, yes. I came to terms with that a long time ago. Transgender, yes, however only more recently as it seemed to be the umbrella which best encompassed my gender issues. Transsexual, not...

Allow me to relate two short anecdotes, take from them what you will. I agreed to meet another CD for a girls night out in the town. She had a beautiful polished look, but that's where it stopped....

I believe your best bet is to give Rene purpose. Get her active in the community. With that will come validation, which we all need and crave. If there isn't a CD social group in your area, get a few...

Thank you Charlene! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Always nice to know someone enjoyed reading about my journeys.

Ever & Always,
Caden Lane

Back in my teenage douche bag days, I had big car stereo system. One of my boxes had room for three twelve in subwoofers. I had three, but only two were active, the third was "in a constant need of...

My psychologist gave me the same advice. Some of the best advice I've ever received, and helped my outlook on my dressing entirely.

I keep seeing ladies who say they would, save for the shaving and prep-work. I think such a question assumes certain things; like if you were planning to live full time, you would have taken some...

@Pamela - In this case, it is not about letting the narrow world view continue to prevail. It is about being outed against her will. The odds are high that if they were to have an open, frank...

While discussing Caitlin Jenner recently, it was commented on that I had a wide breadth of knowledge on the subject. I said I had done a research paper for a psychology class. That seemed to quell...