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I don't know what cross-dressing is either, I just know I love wearing women's clothing. I don't have a conscious reason for it, that i know of, it is just a part of who I am. Wish you the best. ...

Wonderful to hear about the similarities and also the differences and the enchanted attics and even the stress. I wonder if it were not so taboo and so stressfully secret if it would be so much fun....

Great question, and in the quest of self discovery sometimes we change. These days I avoid labels and just embrace me. I know identifying with others is a good thing, community, commonalities etc....

As a child my parents worked, so I was the quintessential latch lock kid. Sometimes when my mom was at work, I would sneak back in to the apartment and spend the day wearing all my sisters clothes. ...

LOL Beverly, I had a list of only my different hosiery and I could not keep up with it. It is a wonderful mess to ruffle through.

I think I live in "meantime" cause so much never gets done.

Hi Diversity,

Thanks for your lovely and wonderful response. Wishing you the very best on your beautiful journey of self acceptance, the most important key in my opinion.

Hi Annaliese, nice to hear from you again. Thank you for your warm and kind reply.

Nikki, never thought that I would actually lose track of things, how many times do you come a across something you have had in the closet for years and then suddenly where have you been all my life,...

Hello Ally,
I definitely love collecting, and I definitely pay attention to detail and I also go out. I am just dangerous when at a mall or store.

Thanks happy New Year

Cheryl,
I can't let anything go, I even save nylons with runs on them, I need professional help :)

Debra, the truth is that when I like an item I have been known to buy multiple pairs of the same dress or shoes, true siege mentality. I admire your discipline. I can't do that, so I don't go...

Hello friends,

I pulled out a black bolero top the other day from my closet to wear with my strapless black micro mini dress, and my ,way over the top, platform shoes, dressed more for a casino at...

Purging, thank God, is no longer in my psychological makeup. My therapist, advisor, counselor, everything has helped me so much with regards to overcoming inner conflict, shame etc. So, no more...

Definition of Siege Mentality. You have two pairs of everything, a gazillion nylons, garters, pantyhose, makeup, and stiletto heels! as many as Imelda Marcos : )

you horde? Do you wear the same...

I will definitely check with you before buying kidd gloves:)

Thanks for your wonderful response. I am struck by your insight regarding the fetish aspect which makes a whole lot of sense. Never did look at it that way, but I guess it is part of the ensemble.:)

Dear Elena,

Your idea is as good as any that I have heard.

Dear Kim,

Sorry to hear about your loss.

Thank you for sharing this thoughtful thread. Speaking only from my experience. Your hubby may need to work on feeling more comfortable in front of you regarding dressing, your patience is...

Dear Max,

Thanks for the insight and I, for one, will follow up on your links.

Thanks again

What is it with so many of us wanting to smoke when we dress? I am talking about me. I do not smoke per se but when I am in my dress and hi heels I get the urge.

I don't have the answers, most...

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I say the same thing twice, I'm awkward when I speak
Ain't got the perfect smile, don't turn heads on my street
Trying to be a...

We all have our individual lives and journeys, but it is always wonderful and encouraging to connect and share common experiences.

All of my early life was a challenge and a struggle, I am sure...

Thank you Soriya, for this wonderful thought provoking self analysis. It is always wonderful to hear the story form others which in turn gives us an expanded and deeper view of our community. I am...

Hi Debbie
Thank you for sharing your personal journey. I am humbled by your difficulties and challenges.