These days, this sort of question is so difficult to answer because, at least to me, I don't see a LOT of clear differences between what it means to be "be a man" or "be a woman" (beyond the obvious...
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These days, this sort of question is so difficult to answer because, at least to me, I don't see a LOT of clear differences between what it means to be "be a man" or "be a woman" (beyond the obvious...
My wife and I recently had a baby and she is currently 2 weeks old now and an opportunity for me to crossdress at home has presented itself since my older stepkids will be out of the house for the...
Although I am mostly an "at-home" dresser right now, I have been out at least a couple times with my wife. Frankly, I think going out enfemme is different and exciting and I would love to go out...
I have always struggled with this particular concept. Personally, I believe that "masculine" and "feminine" distinctions are essentially "social constructs" and do not have the same basis in reality...
I must say that I'm rather surprised at the general dislike that most people here seem to have for "PDAs." This is not to say that I think that anybody is in the wrong here (hey, we are all entitled...
For those of you out there who go out in public with your SO enfemme (or for any GGs who go out with your SOs while they are enfemme), how do you handle public displays of affection? I've heard some...
I didn't write this thread in response to any other threads per se. I just thought that I'd share my experience to possibly help keep everybody else from making the same mistake that I made.:)
Frankly, I have no desire to disclose it to any other people in my family. My brother is the only one (prior to yesterday) who knew anything about it and he has always been o.k. with it. I think...
Thanks! I definitely had one of those "life-flashing-in-front-of-my-eyes" moments when he showed me everything but I'm EXTREMELY relieved that he doesn't hold it against me. Although it will...
I had a rather horrific experience this past weekend that, unfortunately, demonstrates all too clearly the perils of having too much information out there in public on the internet. I went over to...
I've been to work wearing a full "complement" of casual womens clothes before including womens khakis, womens jeans, colorful turtlenecks and nobody SEEMED to notice that I was wearing womens...
I tend to believe that crossdressing seems to be a little of each of those things at different times and in different ways. Although it seems less threatening to describe crossdressing as a "hobby"...
The best and most positive book I've read so far regarding crossdressing is Lacey Leigh's "Out & about:The Emancipated Crossdresser." It offers good practical advice, it does not make any attempt to...
I have to admit that sometimes I'm simply baffled by my interest in crossdressing. I mean, logically, it really doesn't make that much sense to me, especially since I don't identify myself as a...
I have always been pretty shy and reserved in general and that has stayed pretty much the same from when I was younger. I do go out with my co-workers for lunch during work every now and then and...
First of all, I don't really feel right wearing womens clothing without all of the accessories. I don't use makeup often because I don't go out much but I DO like to at least be clean-shaven and...
These don't look too bad actually. I may have to snatch up a few things from here. I've been very eager to buy myself some speedos for awhile but these actually look a lot better and they seem to...
I've debated this issue back and forth with other people. I REALLY want to go out in public "en femme," at least occasionally, but some people don't understand WHY it is so important for me to do it...
I can relate to this issue VERY WELL. Although my outings while "en femme" have thus far been limited, I have found that it is very easy when I am in the privacy of my own home to feel like I could...
I am occasionally envious of women because of the freedom that they have to wear just about anything they want in public whereas we are more or less limited to one set of clothing that is considered...
The closest thing that crossdressing is for me would probably be a "hobby," although I'm not entirely sure that would do it justice.
Neither I nor my wife use my "femme" name even when I'm "en femme." The only reason that I "adopted" a "femme" name was to preserve my anonymity while online.
Were you specific/direct about not wanting him to shave his chest hair? If so, I can certainly understand how you might feel and you seem to be handling it well. If not, he just might not have known...
The discussion generated by this topic has been very illuminating and I appreciate everybody's responses. In fairness to Helen, I want to say that I am not on any "campaign" to refute her ideas and I...
When I came out to my wife last year, one of the first books she read was Helen Boyd's "My Husband Betty," which I had read a few months earlier. One of the more catching and controversial (at least...