Eek! I was posting in Freddy's thread about this very topic while you were posting this. I've wondered about this and the short answer is that I don't know.
I have a feeling though that if you are...
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Eek! I was posting in Freddy's thread about this very topic while you were posting this. I've wondered about this and the short answer is that I don't know.
I have a feeling though that if you are...
Freddy, we had a great idea injected into the thread by Miss Donni but it seems to have sunk without trace. Is there a connection between CDing being expressed or stifled, and artistic (or any kind...
Where does it fit...well basically I just spend part of my time dressing and presenting as a female. Whilst en femme I carry on doing the stuff that takes up my life, so it's not exactly a question...
I'm with Suzy. I don't know what you mean by insightful.
I read from your post that you are getting a lot of acceptance from your wife. OK, there is still a point where you are not quite satisfied but I would respectfully suggest 'Don't rock the boat'.
If...
I go through phases of finding it arousing, and other times (like the present), I just like to dress as a woman for the comfort and style of it - I feel good, I feel calm, but would not say I was...
There are two questions. First, my wife is the only one in the family who has seen me as Ruth. She is accepting but not enthusiastic. Her main concern is that she doesn't want the children (both...
If you'd told me 10 years ago that I'd be dressing openly around the house, full works, dress, wig, makeup, heels, I'd have said only in my dreams sweetheart. Yet here I am, lounging around en femme;...
First time out was a walk round the shopping centre in a nearby town - middle of the day on a Saturday so fairly busy. I thought there would be safety in numbers. All went well.
I've never gone out...
I think that your take on such matters as subtle flavours in food and 'higher' arts such as opera may depend a little on where you live. I'm not trying to be a geographical snob, I just have a sense...
When I see something like this posted on CDers.com, especially by a new member, I think: why is he/she trying to gather all this information?
A lot of effort went into formulating the questions, so...
In one of my numerous psychology and people management seminars that I sat through in a previous existence, we were told "behavior breeds behavior". A simple, if slightly opaque statement.
We see...
I've heard in the past of this situation of a transsexual having feelings of superiority towards those of us who merely wear the clothes, and I don't think its a TS or TG thing - it's just what some...
Ruth is not the name I would have picked if I had sat down and tried to think of one. But it didn't work out that way. I don't understand how I knew but I knew that Ruth was my femme name. I can't...
It's good to hear there are GGs around who are 6'+. One of the things I find most difficult when dressed is my height. That is to say I am very selfconscious about it - and I'm only 5'9. I do feel I...
I think if you can be within the 'envelope' of reasonable female appearance in terms of size, height, facial hair etc, then most people are too busy with their own stuff to conduct an in-depth...
At 5'9 140 pounds I've never been an imposing figure.
Rhonda, you may live among giants, but where I come from, 5'9 is average height for a male and 140 is a healthy weight for that height. So I'm...
Strangely, silk nightwear does not really appeal to me, so I don't mind that the wife would be against it. I wear a cotton jersey women's nightie (with lace panties underneath) which seems OK with...
Actually it's weird that a guy would come up and greet you by tweaking your (non-existent) leg hair. And he says he's a doctor...
Shame you were in the middle of videoing, or you could have reminded...
Dee, I'm sure you reacted the right way, and don't let one idiot spoil your day or put you off the joys of walking out en femme. I think, looking at your avatar, that the boy very likely was checking...
I think my greatest fear is that my circumstances might change so that I was no longer able to CD on a regular basis. I don't have any scenarios for this, I just know that in this life, anything can...
I sometimes wish I could go for burn-out like Karren says but since my dressing is restricted by agreement to 3 evenings a week, I'm always ready for it when the time comes.
I've been there, where you are now. Really the only way forward is to tell her. And it's definitely tell not show; she may never want to see you dressed, even if she accepts your CDing.
However, I...
Your wife's shopping 'problem' is something that you should be addressing urgently rather than agonizing over a couple of bras and panties. And if she doesn't think that you CD, there's another...
No-one else has said it yet so I'll say it - she may well be tolerant and even accepting of things in an ex-husband that she simply cannot put up with in a husband. But you may find that post-divorce...