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Q1 I have not gone out on public yet. It is something I am trying to work on as it is something I know inside I want to do, but I need to get over my fears.

Q2 no I have not. I have underdressed...

From what I gathered here from everyone, is that it seems like it is normal to ask this. This in itself has really helped and opened my eyes a little to the fact that I am not alone. This is not just...

You mentioned not to answer but I have to since you replied....

I am sorry you felt that way in your situation, but my wife is not like that and I don't hide behind my wife. We understand each...

I cant thank everyone enough for helping me realize I am not alone and that these struggles are real and happen to most of us.

From what I can see that is common amongst the replies is I may need...

Betty, Thank you for you for sharing your experience and for your nice complements.
It seems that acceptance is a common topic, in a way this helps as it makes me feel a little less alone.
I...

I can relate to this as well. For a while I look forward to it and then there are times where I don't and one thing I always hate, is I always jump to thinking that this will come to an end and fade...

So for the past few weeks I have not been all that excited about dressing up to the extent I have been. I know the first thing that comes to mind is burn out and to me I don't think that is what it...

Krea, I see your point, to some it's the attire, and to others it's the moment. I hope you create a wonderful moment. :)

I present as male for most of the day but get dressed daily in the evenings and more on days off.
My wife does not necessarily watch me but she has been in the room while I am getting ready, or she...

Nancy, while I appreciate the complement, I have to disagree. I would get made in a second. Size 12 feet, large man hands, Adams apple, shoulders, etc. All while standing at 6'5. With flat shoes I am...

For me this is by no means a hobby. Working on my cars, collecting militaria, playing the bass and drums would be my hobbies.
I don't think about those 24/7.
Jessica is my identity, someone that...

That sounds like it was a wonderful experience, Melony!

For me it's nothing I ever thought about until my wife brought it up.
I think I always felt that would be something that may be too over the top for her but I guess not lol
Like I think I...

Patti, what a wonderful experience! I hope to feel that way when I decide to find a dress. It's great you will always have that memory. :)

Danni, I hope that you get to have your special day as a...

I have been to the good will and sometimes see wedding dresses. If there happened to be one that was something I liked, and it fit I'd settle for that. I always thought it was pointless to spend so...

Natalie, I'm so glad you were able to have good quality time with your wife, it's great, isn't it? :)

John, I'm sorry to hear about your wife. In regards to the name since it's nothing that's official I would like to hear my name that matches.

JulieC after reading what you wrote, you do make some...

I have not gone out in public yet and if I did, I'm sure most will see a man. There are things you just can't hide.
I do not work on my voice as I don't feel the need to, and my wife does not want...

Thanks everyone for replying. :)

A recommitment idea sounds like a great way to do something like this. I told my wife about that Idea and she agrees.
She then started to talk about how she...

Thank you Kim for sharing that link, looks like it was such a fun time by those photos. I would love something like that!

Rhonda that sounds like a good Idea, and like I mentioned its nothing I...

I wanted to share something my wife and I have talked about. We will get into deeper conversation when we are relaxed having a drink or a smoke.
One of these topics that my wife brought up was about...

Glad I could clear things up. That is something I don't want to happen. I don't want to have to hide my dressing and worry about getting busted by children. I just need to figure out a way that I can...

I think this thread has been mis understood. My main question was to see if anyone continued to crossdress going into starting a family and the original concerns I had in my op. Not how long you have...

Thanks for sharing your stories.
It seems that I will have to cross that bridge when it gets here. Its good to know there are some out there that took the opportunity to be honest with their...

Stephanie I am able do anything around my wife. I present when I am off from work or have a free day around the house. My wife is never bothered by it. When she sees me dressed as Jessica, she sees...