I know. I don't own any girls clothing (gimme a couple of weeks and this will change) so I'm testing the waters with what I have and conquering my fears one baby step at a time.
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I know. I don't own any girls clothing (gimme a couple of weeks and this will change) so I'm testing the waters with what I have and conquering my fears one baby step at a time.
Hmm. As whiney as my last post was, I decided to test the waters a tiny bit today to gauge reactions from strangers and went drab, but with purple nailpolish to class today. I know, not exactly...
I get so disgusted with myself sometimes due to my complete fear of going out. I've never been accused of cowardice in my 26 years of life, but when I'm dressed at home and someone even knocks at the...
I pretty much act the same way either mode. I'm no girly girl and like being one of the guys, but I feel more girl than guy inside and prefer to express myself that way. Hard to be "one of the guys"...
Ahhh.... now HERE'S a girl after my own heart. A feminine face shows even without "girl" clothes. (I detect a proverb in the making)
Yeah, it's all about the makeup for me, but I do like bras and...
I think it is entirely possible that he just threw a random shot in the dark and hit jackpot. I've been accused of crossdressing in the past despite doing it maybe once or twice a year st the time....
Well here's where things get into a grey area for me...
While internally, I feel like a woman, and I like to wear woman's clothing, I don't really act feminine. I use terms like sweetie and hun...
Hmm....
Do I think that FTMs get away with a bit more in terms of what they can wear? Sure. But I don't for one second believe it's all fun and games for them either. They get bullied and run down...
You know Shana, I've always wondered about the term pansexual myself. I didn't want to offend people by using it at first in case they took it to mean that I think that TS aren't the gender they...
Just my opinion, but I feel that there are suppressed bisexual tendencies that are allowed to surface only when said person is dressed. Once the clothes are put away and the makeup comes off, the...
Thanks. :)
I just get kinda shy when it comes to talking about attractions, particularly when it comes to transgenders on a forum for transgenders/cds, because it always seems to create a weird...
Personally, I wouldn't mind going to a TG-friendly bar with a few gal pals and shooting some pool. :)
A movie sounds fun too. If on a budget, maybe just give each other makeovers and order a pizza...
I'll be frank and honest, and hope that it doesn't send all you gals running in terror screaming "CREEP!".....
I'm a TG admirer myself and prefer to date them. Always have been. What it took me a...
I'be given up on the "why" and I just go with it. I know that when I don't express some degree of femininity, I get moody and depressed. When I'm dressed, I'm a social butterfly and my kinder,...
Glad to hear that you made it ok. The thought of going to a middle eastern country en-drab scares the hell out of me, let alone en femme.
But at least the forum won't be short one talented...
You rang? ;)
I love my tshirts and jeans, but like the bra and panties too. Perhaps down the line when I'm much further in my transition, I will consider babydolls and slightly more provocative...
I do get a kick out of being in girl mode, but for me, nothing compares to playing guitar onstage at a metal show and seeing people go at it in the mosh pit and love it. All to music that you wrote...
Since I've only be out in makeup once, I'd say that any convo regarding cd in public would make me very nervous. If I see a person who clocked me, but embrace me anyways, I'd feel good about that...
Exactly! And even black nail polish is considered andro too. See Alexi Laiho of C.O.B. or Nikki Sixx of Motley Crue. Both of whom wear eyeliner and are well respected.
So there's another reason I...
I agree that if it's just crossdressing, keep it to yourself and underdress. However, if you plan to transition and your papers still I.d. you as male, then you need to talk to H.R. and be honest.
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Being as brave as you were always deserves a good reward. Enjoy the food knowing that it was well earned!
Congrats and enjoy! :)
Count me among them. Never liked lacy things and skirts are ok on occasion imo, but I'm a band t-shirt and jeans gal. It's the common style in the metal community and an androgynous one at that....
Honestly, I prefer makeup over even wearing girl clothes. It's the one thing to me that is decidedly feminine. Plenty of girls can wear men's clothing and still be beautiful. Outside of naturally...
Absolutely! I have had natural B cup "moobs" since puberty so it's not like I'm a stranger to them. You can see how they look in a tight tee in my profile pic. ;)
I agree that having people...
Sexuality is most definitely NOT a choice. I didn't choose to be pansexual any more than I chose to be born white. It just happened. Rather than spend the rest of my life in denial, I learned to just...