Generalisations. Judgements. Labelling.
In my view, these things render all reasoned debate stone dead. Which is sad really and, ultimately, rather boring. They get in the way of living.
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Generalisations. Judgements. Labelling.
In my view, these things render all reasoned debate stone dead. Which is sad really and, ultimately, rather boring. They get in the way of living.
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Jeepers, peeps! Wear the clothes you wear, for heaven's sake! What good does it do to claim women cross dress? What good does it do to claim women don't cross dress? It's bonkers!
Sarah x
Hmmm. Sometimes I go out without makeup - usually if I'm out mountain biking or just popping into the supermarket. Always wear it for work though, got to at least try and look moderately...
About 10 minutes on a Sunday. 1 hour on a work day - most of which is curling my hair. Putting make up on in the car on the way to work doesn't count.
Me either.
No.
Not CDing makes me happier. So now I don't. I transitioned instead. I'm so much happier now :)
Not being a man doesn't help much.
T'other way around - had to emulate being a man. A need driven by not wanting to be excommunicated, hated or rejected.
It most certainly is.
Why? Did you ever stop to think why you were "never good at style as a guy"?
Practical feasibility is the minor issue, it's the easy part. Anything is possible, always. Whether or not you can make that decision based on your own circumstances is the difficult part. ...
You wouldn't want, as a woman, to use the Gents, right? Use the Ladies. What else would you do? Oh, and never use the disabled facilities.
Sarah x
I think it's the other way around. When I'm feeling fat and slothful a figure hugging shift is no good whatsoever, loose jeans and a top will be a better match. When I'm feeling like I'm proud of...
And yet you know there's irony there to see. Odd.
No fond memories for me. Every experience was an exercise in reminding myself that while I knew I was a girl (in those days) everyone else thought I was a boy. Now I have the maturity to say who I...
Careful what you wish for - if you're on a journey then so is your wife. Your wife can be supportive from any number of vantage points - be aware of what those options are and know you can handle...
Get up.
Get showered.
Get dressed.
Go to work.
Every day. Oh, 'cept Sunday - no work on Sunday usually :)
Well, I spent the first 42 years of my life crossdressing in boy's/man's clothes. The worst moment in my crossdressing life was, because of erroneous choices I'd made, having to wear said condom. ...
Wearing a condom.
Priceless!
Your testosterone naturally decreases after 40 or so?
Yeah, it's a fair point. But a point that may be moot now. Despite being desperately still in love with each other my dear other half can't live with a woman any more and so changes are afoot and...
I told my wife about the FAB forum here and she did indeed join. She found plenty of support for her as an individual or for her as a woman married to a man but found the support non-existent for a...
Really? I couldn't possibly assume you to be competent. That would be very unfair.
I value any opinion I ask for, whoever the person might be who I ask. I value the opinions I don't receive when I haven't asked for them.
Sarah
JoAnne, it's a brave thing you have done. Posting here about the junction you've arrived at with your SO and considering the options moving forward takes some guts and is also a sign of a need of...
First of all, I'm sorry to hear that your relationship has foundered. That's tough under any circumstances.
I gave some thought to your question:
So, let's not get into semantics of CD /...
Smile of the day. Fantastic :)
Sarah...