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Now that you apprised your mother of your true gender feelings give her room/time to understand who you are... Let your mother determine the appropriate time to re-engage this conversation... I've...

I suspect that there is a bit of guilt as well as wanting those close to know that the blame lies with your former spouse... How could a seemingly perfect relationship end on the rocks... Well they...

Really... Does there need to be an explanation??? That is your choice... Irreconcilable differences... Or we grew apart and decided to go in different directions... I'd rather not talk about the...

Quiet often as husbands and fathers we have established a male masculine image from which when at a decision point where we wish to move beyond to who we really are it just becomes filled with...

abby is my comfort zone... I am able to relax and be free from the issues and stresses of the world... however there are also times for my maleness... In other-words I am gender fluid with a...

Life is a very personal journey and each one of us has a uniquely different journey... There may be similar points along the way; however, that typically will be the only similarities... That is why...

Give up on whether you pass... Most of us will never truly pass; however, we can endeavor to present the most effective feminine person possible... Be comfortable with yourself and enjoy the...

All depends upon how strong societal role modeling affects a gg and how secure she is within her self...

Cheryl... Get beyond the sexual labels... They are so restrictive in allowing the individual to freely express their true feelings at a given moment...

Really ladies... Put this issue up front asap... As difficult as it may seem it will clear the deck early and save both of you very devastating hurt later-on...

Ditto Mysticlady... As we grow older we begin to realize and shed many of our perceived really non-important issues of whom we really are... As our life changes with the passage of time so do our our...

Welcome to our club... Through the fog of confusion eventually the light becomes brighter and we finally realize and accept our true selves... An awful lot of tears are shed until we find and accept...

Well hello... Me thinks that sex at one time or another enters our life regardless of our natural or chosen gender... Sex is a part of our life and it is life's continuance so let's move on... ...

I was married 25 years now divorced 26 years for issues unrelated to gender choice ... Former wife never knew...(Never to be married again.).. Sad, however I will never allow the judiciary to meddle...

Normal ... Would someone please describe normal... As for me I am gender-gifted and very comfortable within myself... And really.... I am not concerned for other views of normal...

Purged to where... I've been there and it is expensive... RENT A STORAGE LOCKER...

Typically, my celebration of New Year's Eve will be in the comfort of my home dressed... To me going out dressed is not an issue... Being safe is...

WOW... Yes... However times were very very conservative then... The computer and changing mores have allowed us to realize that we are by far not alone i.e. this lovely forum did not exist... I...

I am many year divorced... So there really are no peripheral issues... Mode of dress is now a comfortable choice... Typically sleep in camisole and bra... I am comfortable shopping enfemme ... Love...

Hi Rachel,
At the appropriate time there needs to be conversation between you and "MOM"... First and foremost your privacy must be sacrosanct and that point must be firmly established... Secondly...

Right on Dee... Regardless of the recent progressive advances on behalf of our community without common sense prevailing in our gender decisions we enter into a world of possibly losing the support...

Cured/// cured from what??? When are people going to finally realize that this is who we are... I must say quiet normal at that... Many of us have married, brought children into this world, raised...