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Your story reminds me a bit of my husband and I. He has dressed for most of his life and always hid it before. I encourage him, I enjoy it, mostly because it is when he is most comfortable and I see...

I don't consider using this forum an act of cheating. Now with that said I would obviously say that some of the friendships that develop may toe that line. My view on lingerie is solely based on my...

I have wondered this as well but from an SO's perspective in a way.

To me, this toes the line of cheating if the person posting the lingerie pictures is in a relationship. So it makes me wonder...

After reading this thread, my opinion is that virtually all of the criteria for being one or the other besides the physical may suggest that I am actually a male which I am quite sure is not the...

There is definitely no standard answer. Some change for the better some worse, personally I have a higher opinion and respect for my husband after seeing him and helping him dress. It takes ultimate...

Perfectly beautifully stated!

I do like the idea of a love letter as well, however I feel that if your SO might have to find and process the knowledge of your dressing without the ability to ask questions, some sort of...

If you read any of my posts, you know I am extremely supportive of my husband. I can tell you that if life was getting in the way, I would be supportive of him going out on the town without me BUT I...

I am a GG in my mid 30's and have been wearing makeup since about 14, there are still days I wash it all off and start over. Don't let it get you down, when you aren't happy with the results, take a...

Erika-

Thank you, sometimes it takes the painstaking task of reading and re-reading every post to stop and re-word my message to get it across properly.

I am a very passionate person when it...

In one of my psychology classes, Human Sexuality I was able to attend a seminar/discussion with a wonderful woman who was born male. She very much loves women, has not had a relationship since her...

Although I am sure that therapist is an intelligent person, that statement is skewed and does not even compare to what I stated.

As the SO of a CDer, who talks to others in my shoes, the vast...

I absolutely understand that some situations are different, for sure. For me, especially if it is known prior to entering relationship that you are a CDer, this is the time to 'test' the waters and...

I would welcome you to ask my husband or any of my friends if they would consider me a typical GG in anyway, I bet they would not agree with your assessment.

As for complaining about dressing, I...

I am sorry to here that she was such a nasty human to do this to you. My exhusband who is also a crossdresser decided to out my current husband to anyone and everyone he could. Unfortunately he was...

Donnalee, I appreciate that addiction and crossdressing are not equal; however they are similar enough to compare.

As I read your post my first thought is yes, some do come into if after...

My initial thought is that putting myself in her shoes, her response sounds to me like thinking of you as Nikki may feel similar to 'losing' you as your masculine part that she knows. This is purely...

I wouldn't say stuck with it, but will it always be a part of you? Yes.

I often tell my husband that the key is to quit trying to figure out why, stop trying to control or quit and use the energy...

I agree that some SOs may change the line, the best I can recommend is to make it clear that you want her to be open and communicate what is okay, what makes her uncomfortable AND when/if that...

I agree that I know there will always be some who choose to hide it, but in my opinion it is very unfair to those who are not given the choice to live that lie.

If nothing else, I say at least...

You know what is evil!?! Acrylic nails and pantyhose together! It is a lose lose situation!! Talk about runs and holes!

Seriously??

I have NEVER claimed to be a professional or expert on the matter!!

If you read my original post I said I had to get it off my chest, I never said 'listen here, I am an expert, do...

I would/should also add, this type of attack on my motives is exactly why so few GGs post or respond. There are many GG members who have questions and insight yet are afraid to ask or post.

I used to be kind of like your wife, I didn't dress to impress anyone. For me, it was my own internal self doubt, body image issues and depression that caused my lack of care for what I chose to...

Okay, let me be perfectly clear here.

I have very clearly explained my reasoning for my opinions, so much so that other responses have suggested I quit explaining them. So to accuse me of not...