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I, for one, am dumber than a sack of hammers.

I may have a dandy vocabulary, but I have the common sense and survival instincts of a carrot.

I don't have low self-esteem or anything. I do like...

It's easy enough to tell someone to be fearless when it comes to who they are what they like, but that's about where the easiness stops. Even if someone tells you not to be afraid, you still feel the...

I'm more or less with eluuzion on this.

Just dress as you would dress; don't bother changing for him and his girlfriend. If he asks, answer his questions honestly. If he doesn't ask and stops...

Dressing isn't really a fetish thing for me. I didn't know it was for so many of you, either.

Kinks aren't really something I'd broadcast anyway, but that's just me.

Young CDs and TGs, such as myself, depend on people like you to set the example for us. If I came out tomorrow, decked out in skirts and form fitting shirts, what would people say?

"Oh, pishaw!...

"Pink Fog" is much like "Red Mist," in that it is a haze of emotion that clouds judgment. However, in this case, it is benign. You are consumed by your feminine or "Pink" aspect.

I have never...

I don't know how to be with you. I'm not sure what your point is.

If you really did ask this question, as you said, to figure out why other people that aren't crossdressers ask you why you don't...

Sometimes we tape our thumbs to our palms and traipse around the house for a couple hours with our arms curled up to our chests so we can understand what life was like for the Velociraptors.

Or...

From what I've read, tell me if I'm wrong, but it seems like you're just trying to deal with a boatload of self-loathing. There's a comparison somewhere in there to quitting smoking, which is apples...

I'm probably not the best person to answer this question, since I'm in the middle of really deciding who I am, but I think it stems from the desire to escape the paradigm.

When you're a...

+: I'm fairly androgynous, therefore I can pass as cute. I don't care if I look like "a real girl," just as long as I can be a cute me, which I feel is a possibility, I'm happy.

-: I'm hairy as a...

Thank you!

Stop trying to change people. If she comes to it, that means she's squared with it in her own way. The best way for you to help in that is to focus on your end of the relationship.
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To put it simply, I want to be viewed in a feminine light. I feel that's a reasonable expectation.

If people acknowledge that I'm male, that's perfectly acceptable. I'm not asking them to tear...

Originally, I was going to mention that most of the people who get rejected have been hiding it for a long time. It's a broken trust. It occurs to me, however, as closeted as I am, I can't say a...

I really don't believe that who I feel I want to be has anything to do with what time I die.

Besides, how am I supposed to compare my lifespan? To other people? They aren't me. They don't have my...

It's funny to me, and possibly only to me, that, in America, they'll execute murders and let rapists get raped, but that's another bag of wolverines for another day, isn't it?

It's not illegal to...

I'm not caught between anything. This is not my entire life, it's a part of my life that I'm trying to figure out. I want to be known as a woman. That's all. I'm hiding that side of me away,...

I can understand why some would want that. It's kind of validating, provided of course that you wish to "pass" or be perceived as beautiful in a feminine sense.

However, I find it utterly...

What a coincidence, I was born May 5, 1988.

That's my birthday, period. "Fran" was never born. She has always been me, I'm just hiding her. I don't think that has to be any more complicated than...

I wanna grow a beard. I'm in the closet anyway. I might as well look like a hobo. Or that George guy in the movie Head Trauma.

You should go see that movie if you haven't already. It's great for...

I noticed something, as well.

If you're trying to look like a woman, do not wear a muted pink bra, sky blue blouse, flowered skirt, and red heels while you're seductively hanging off your desk...

I can only concur. Nine times out of ten, when some girl really gets to know me for me, I get treated entirely differently.

They're more ready to hug, share, and compliment. They're visibly more...

When is crossdressing not crossdressing?

When it's ajar! Wait... that's a door. *rimshot*

Cross-dressing is just a term invented to connote abstractions in socially defined gender fluidity. It...

Let's see...

First off, I don't think you're becoming "desensitized," I think you're just subconsciously getting more and more comfortable with your perceptions of yourself and less and less...

You don't need to find a bi girl. You need to be bloody honest and up front about who you are. My girlfriend knew about me from the start.

Internet makes it even easier. Mention your CDing...