I feel at 63, it is more a gender ID thing, less sexual... those sexual feelings come up a bit still..........
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I feel at 63, it is more a gender ID thing, less sexual... those sexual feelings come up a bit still..........
I and my wife wear our nightgowns every evening, relax, watch a movie. It's such a lovely. relaxing thing to do... I love it!
I have my own gown, as does my wife. We bought them recently to have our own ritual and shared event
sometime in the future. It's been a joy shopping with her for one!
Thank you all you replied to this threat.
I hope to become "an accomplished crossdresser". I am not there yet!
Yes -- "practice, practice, practice" -- trial and error -- feedback...
and...
What does it take to become a competent, even accomplished, crossdresser?
We all have different levels of crossdressing abilities. We want to improve. What skills, clothes, makeup and other...
I appreciate your thoughts and intricate musings, Freddie.... you say things alot of us are thinking -- or challenging us with new perspectives. Yes, you are the most individualistic of...
I was eleven years old and home alone.
I was mysteriously attracted to my mother's closet, and her dresses lloed wonderful.
I tried them on........ and have never been the same since!
I feel there is a "girl inside", or that I hide her in order to present my male side in the world. By doing so,
I create a bifurcated world. I want "her" out more and more, as a result. I feel I...
There are various "Librarian looks" I think. Long hair, great makeup, the librarian glasses, and below the knee skirt with a nice white blouse,
of a fitted type. Very nice.... and sexy to a degree,...
It certainly has affected me, all my life, often in a bad way, with internal struggles. Now, having found a loving, supportive wife, I embrace it in all its positive aspects.
I see this as a...
I used to read them some years ago. i was at that stage where, being closeted, and no possibility to wear things and
be myself, that fiction played a role. If I read any today, I hope that it is...
Yes we are 'gender-variant' -- pehaps a better term. I don't like 'queer', never have. I understand the LGB community has co-opted that term to turn it around.
Since I live in both worlds, I am not...
It is improtant to me to act like a woman as much as I can when relating to others crossdressed... it's the only authentic way that
I feel I should present myself.... It feels so right.
We come to feel, in the beginning, that it's a curse: social discrimination and pressures, guilt, shame.... But as we progress, and hand it over
to the Higher Power (aka the Goddess), we can accept...
I am still trying to master. It is improtant to me to find the feminine inside, and then allow it expression, so it's more authentic. Being feminine and womanly are two large ideals for me to strive...
Yes, I have my own FB account. it's perfect to do so! I love it!
Yes, I am happy for the Woman inside me. i just want her to be outside of me much more... and then happiness will be real.
Oh yes! It's just a matter if i want to go there for the long term...
Yes, we certainly have the "right" to crossdress in private... and we should exercise that. It would be nice to have the
freedom to exercise that right safely, in public. That is hard or dagerous...
Being lady-like, feminine in the standard I try to be. There is so much to learn...!
I sometimes want to be that girl.... certainly to look like one. But if I follow my feelings, and live in the feminine, I seek out how to be womanly. Then real life - guy mode -- living in the...
I have felt this surrender of the masculine to receive in the feminine. It can be very upseting to those of us who have
learnt masculine ways. Crossing borders into the other's territory is...
I find myself going deeper...letting go of masculine outlooks, trying to feel more feminine in my body, mind and behavior... I have neglected all that due to career changes,etc. Now: time to embrace...
Very nice! (Sounds like she has a nice outfit too!)
Almost! came this ' ' close!